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The first stage: At the beginning of the establishment of the group, it was very lively, and everyone seemed to have a lot to say.
The second stage: people started to quarrel in the group, the reasons are usually: economic disputes, disagrees with each other , various human debts …… span_p9span12 : Everyone started to learn fine, and it didn't make any noise anymore. When I saw who was talking, I couldn't get used to it. Then, I was silent.
The fourth stage: Gradually, no one speaks, quiet, and silence.
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I have a businessman friend,With an annual income of about 50 or 60 million, he divorced many years ago. Not long ago, he said to me: I thought that financial freedom would make people completely free, but he discovered that this is not the case.
He said that after got more money, he became very wary of the opposite sex. Now it is very difficult to find someone because he is always worried that the woman does not really like him, but is greedy for ample Economic life, so in fact, it has not become easy for him to choose a spouse, on the contrary, it has become more difficult.
He also said that he had lent money to relatives in the past, but he had not recovered it several times. Later, he was afraid, so he kept a distance with all his relatives "skillfully" and didn't communicate much.
In other words, because of too much money, he is now more vigilant and vigilant towards relatives, friends, and the opposite sex than before. Many interpersonal relationships have become alienated.
This story tells us : "Financial freedom" does not mean "Life freedom".
After this man became so rich, it was even difficult to find someone. Life is so absurd, does not have the best of both worlds .
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In more than 60% of cases, the child's character is not good.
Because the character of the two generations is not good, the parent-child relationship will not be good.
If it is 40% of the time: the parents are not good, the children are good, then the children will look down on their parents.
Because children with good character look down on parents with bad character, the parent-child relationship will not be very good.
That is to say, if your character is not good, then no matter your child's character is good or bad, the parent-child relationship between you and your child will not be good.
This is why, Lao Feng, I always advise my readers to be a good person and a kind person. This is very important.
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It’s hard for you to make a small amount of money.
However, you can easily make a lot of money from Chinese aunts, why? because of their cognitive deficits.
For example, health care products cost tens of thousands of dollars, tens of thousands of dollars, as long as you give her a reason for "health" and tell her some pseudo-science to prolong life, she will pay for it obediently .
In the same way, you can easily earn the small money of the rich, Because the opportunity cost of the rich to calculate the smaller money is too high, for adults, the rich have no time to calculate the smaller money with you , but, It's hard for you to earn a lot of money from the rich, why? Because the rich are usually knowledgeable and sober, it is not easy for you to earn his big money.
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If you often realize that you are on your way, you are on the way, and you are doing something wrong.
If you have never noticed or rarely found yourself doing something wrong, then this means that you are not on the road of progress, but on a static road, or even on a downhill road.
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In your life,There is an interesting "80% truth":
80% of people are meaningless to you.
80% of the communication is meaningless to you.
Only 80% of what you eat is necessary.
Only 80% of your usual consumption is necessary.
The opposite sex you see, more than 80% don't see you.
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Why is it said that a good society can be created?
Why is it said that a bad society can make bad people?
The principle is this:
Because a person is treated well,TA will treat others well.
On the contrary, a person is not treated well since childhood, so it is not easy for him to treat others well , and it is easier to do evil.
Therefore, all of us should be nice to people, even to strangers, and be kind to people. Over time, the hostility in our society will be much less, and the society will become better. What is achieved bit by bit, even if it is not for ourselves, for the sake of our children, to live in a better society in the future, we should start to do so.
do more good deeds. Don't do evil.
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Take an example: a person is smart, good character, and good at everything, but he is as timid as a mouse. He is unwilling to take any risks. Although he has only one shortcoming, the only shortcoming is too Obviously, so this person will not achieve much in his life. This is the "short board theory".
However,In fact, in addition to the "short board theory", there is also a " long board theory " in the world.
The "long board theory" is the reverse, it says: As long as a person's certain advantages are strong enough, then his particularly outstanding advantages can offset many of his shortcomings .
Take an example: a person is not very smart, has a weird personality, and is not easy to deal with. In short, his whole body is flawed, but this guy plays the guitar very well, and his improvisation is very spiritual. Few are as good as him. Therefore, despite his shortcomings, many producers in the pop music industry still hire him to the recording studio to compose accompaniment for major singers and various movies. One song is tens of thousands, why? Because he is the best, no one else can match.
So, despite his illness, this kid can earn millions a year by virtue of his genius. He bought a house in the second ring road of Beijing. Lao Feng knows someone like this.
So, if you have shortcomings, then, try to make up the shortcomings with , if your nature is hard to change, and you really can’t make up for the shortcomings, then, you use your best and takes your Longboard to the extreme is also a way to remedy.
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Many people do bad things and think: God doesn't care about me and won't punish me anyway.
Actually, this view is wrong.
Why?
Because a person does bad things, he will unknowingly destroy his own morality, temperament, personality, mentality, vision, behavior habits, pattern, personality...
and once these 9 Destruction will inevitably lead to a decline in life , some gradually decline, some climb to a certain height, and then suddenly decline. In short, it will eventually decline.Therefore, the end result of harming others must be harming oneself. The way of heaven is like this. The gentleman quits it.
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The first person to point out your shortcomings in person, you can understand the two points of your shortcomings in person. Hate your shortcomings.
Second meaning: I hope you improve and become better.
Many people get angry when they hear criticism because they understand it as the first meaning.
If you understand it as the second meaning, you won't be angry.
Our ancients said, "If you have heard it, you will be happy." This is what we mean.
The ancients said, "One thought of heaven, one thought of hell", this is also the truth.
The same thing, how you look at it, sometimes can determine whether it is good or bad.
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Sometimes, if the opposite sex leaves you, you will feel loss.
But in fact, this kind of "loss" is imagined, and it does not really exist.
Why?
because before you knew TA,You were originally alone.
No one originally belonged to you, so you never lost anyone.
You don’t own anyone, All those who break into your life are here to accompany you for a while. That's it.
If you look down, you will be relieved.
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is the rock sheep who walked on the cliff to escape the evolutionary cliff.
This thing tells us:
As long as people have the right mentality, they can turn stress into motivation and explode infinite potential.
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Friends in the television industry know that, The more knowledgeable TV programs, the lower the ratings , so the more popular TV programs are, the better, otherwise the TV station will not survive.
That's why, people who are addicted to watching TV are basically not too high-quality .
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2, When someone gives you money.
3. When in love.
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Some things,It is not logical at first glance, but it is precisely this kind of thing that contains profound logic.
For example:
Aphids can reproduce asexually, that is, aphids do not need to find objects, they can give birth to children, so the aphid reproduction rate is very high.
However, we humans reproduce sexually, that is to say, people must find an object before they can have children. Therefore, the reproduction rate of humans is very low.
However, at first glance, this is illogical: it is clear that asexual reproduction is more efficient. Why did mammals, including humans, evolve toward "sexual reproduction"?
However, this seemingly illogical phenomenon hides a deep logic behind it: it turns out that although aphids do not need to find objects, they can give birth to babies on their own. However, ’s mother’s defects will last for one generation. is passed down from one generation to the next, so this species can never improve its defects. The evolution and optimization of is limited by .
Humans need to find objects to have babies. Therefore, the bad genes of will be eliminated in the marriage and love market , so, , our human species,Getting better and better .
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If you do, you will never be able to do it. For example, there are some Vietnamese married brides in my hometown who have never studied Chinese or anything. However, after coming for a year or a half, I forced myself to follow along, and they almost knew how to speak.
In the same way, there are many things in the world. You don’t own it first and then give it. You give it first before you can own it. The most typical thing is that in a company, some people think that you have to give it first. He was promoted to a manager and gave him the manager’s salary, and then he would do the manager’s job, but the real workplace is like this: You have to do the manager’s job first to show that you have The ability to be a manager,Then, the company will promote you to manager and will give you the manager's salary.
does not give you a chance first, and then you fight for it, but you fight for it first, and then you have a chance. In the same way, life is not about seeing hope before persisting, but having to persist before seeing hope.
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"courage" is the thing that spreads.
Why? Because people have a herd mentality.
In the crowd, as long as there is the first person to stand up, then others will follow.
So, the first person is very important.
Looking back at history, we will find that everything is like this.
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Some beauties,Fantasy in bars, Momo, QQ and other places, catching the golden turtle son-in-law.
Actually, this is something that is difficult to achieve.
Why?
Because real rich people will not look for a long-term life partner from this type of place.
The rich are actually very sophisticated. They are very wary of women in the middle and lower classes.
This is why I always advocate: no matter how beautiful girls are, they must also study hard, at least squeeze to the middle class or above.
Why? Because only in that way, you can eliminate the rich man's wariness against you, and you have a chance to catch the golden turtle son-in-law.
Of course, if you don’t care about beetles, that’s another matter.
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70 years of life,Still have to be brave, at least one fight, don't be afraid to do what you want to do.
Why?
Because in addition to life and death, all losses are small things.
What's more, people will die sooner or later. There is no absolute security, and there is no eternal security.
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