There is an old saying: "Children who can cry have candy."
This is the same thing in love. In front of a man, if you are always a good girl, you may not be cherished by a man, because He took it for granted.
All your good things, in his opinion, are all deserved. He will not appreciate you for it, but will not care about you.
On the contrary, those women who often toss men are a little bit tricky and troublesome, but they can get the attention of men.
This means that a woman must properly learn to act like a man to a man. You are creating a little trouble for him to make him pay more attention to you.
Research has found that the more coquettish a woman is, the easier it is to be favored by a man.
Acting like a baby is not to please, but to use some skills in the relationship between the sexes to enhance mutual feelings and to stabilize the relationship between two people.
In this way, love can go longer and the relationship will be more harmonious.
So, if the two sexes get along with each other, if a woman is so coquettish, a man will be inseparable from you.
1. Speak softly and melt a man's heart
When dealing with men, women speak softly, which can make men have the urge to spoil you for an instant.
Because, no matter what kind of man, he likes the kind of girl who looks delicate.
At this time, if you act tenderly to him, he will be unable to resist your tenderness and will be soaked in your tenderness in an instant.
Some women don't understand this when they get along with men. They talk loudly and nag, so that men don't feel any femininity, and naturally they don't care about you.
Even when two people have a conflict, a woman can quarrel and become red-faced. This will make the man feel resistant, and he will have reservations if he loves you again.
Therefore, speak softly and use a woman's tenderness to melt a man's heart, and it will be difficult for him to leave you .
Xiaoli didn't pay attention to this when she was in love with her boyfriend. She always talked loudly to him, and even kept yelling at him, which made her boyfriend feel very disappointed.
Once, when her boyfriend’s work papers were on the table, Xiaoli accidentally got wet while pouring tea. The boyfriend came to remind her not to be so careless all the time, it took me a long time to get it right.
Xiaoli disagreed, and said aggrievedly, you know that I was scorned, am I not as important as a document of yours?
Faced with Xiaoli's harassment, her boyfriend felt that she was unreasonable, so he said, I did not say that you are not important, but just remind you to pay attention.
When her boyfriend said this, Xiaoli became even more angry and made louder noises, as if she had been wronged by God. In the end, the two of them ignored each other and almost broke up.
Actually, if Xiaoli knows how to act like a baby, this matter is easy to solve, and her boyfriend will not accuse her.
For example, Xiaoli said softly and coquettishly: My dear, I accidentally wetted your files. It's so uncomfortable now. If you don't come to coax me, I will be sad tonight.
If a man sees you like this, where will he still have the mind to blame you, it is too late to hurt you.
Therefore, gets along with men, knows how to act coquettishly, and learn to show weakness in speech. Not only will it not be embarrassing, but it will also make men feel bad about you. Even if you do something wrong, he will choose to forgive .
2. Pretend to cry, soften the heart of a man
Some people say: "Tears are a woman's best weapon."
Indeed, no man can bear the tears of a woman, no matter how hard the heart is , Will soften because of your crying.
Two people get along, if there is a dispute, a woman must not head-on with a man, you are not his opponent no matter how strong you are.
Instead of arguing with men, it’s better to behave like a baby and pretend to cry,Use tears to soften a man's heart .
In itself, women are too strong, which is not conducive to the development of the relationship between the sexes. Because a man is born to conquer, if you have to be strong everywhere, how can he spoil you.
In reality, many men don't like strong women. It's not that women are bad, but they feel that it is detrimental to their dignity, and they don't feel proud to get along with you.
Therefore, women must learn to act like a baby, and sometimes take the initiative to show weakness to men, or even pretend to cry, men care about you more.
No man will remain indifferent when he sees a woman crying. He pretends not to care, and his heart will soften and feel sorry for you.
Xiaoying used to be an elite woman. After marrying her husband, she has been unable to change her strong personality, so that there are often problems in the relationship between husband and wife.
Husband also often said, you can be strong outside, can you not be so cold at home, I am your husband, not your subordinate.
Later, Xiaoying also reflected on herself and felt that there were more contradictions in the marriage, which indeed had an impact on the relationship. So she began to try to change herself.
So, when the husband and wife had conflicts again, she was no longer so strong against her husband, and she stopped fighting with him, and sometimes pretended to be crying with anger.
Unexpectedly, seeing her like this, her husband immediately stopped arguing and walked over to comfort her, behaving very lovingly.
The more she cried, the more her husband spoiled her, and said that she would never make her angry anymore, and then hugged her and comforted her.
In this way, the relationship between Xiaoying and her husband became very harmonious, and their lives were very happy.
So, when you get along with men, women don’t have to fight for victory or defeat in everything, and acting like a baby can quickly make a man’s attitude toward you better.
Pretending to cry, sometimes it is also true. If you really love a man, he will definitely feel it and care about you more.
3. Be careful,Let men never forget
When both sexes get along, women should be careful, which can not only heat up the relationship, but also make men never forget you.
Of course, a woman's careful thinking is not to be prank, but to use certain love skills to maintain a good relationship with each other.
Especially when a man is neither cold nor warm to you, you need to be a little more careful to arouse the man's desire for you.
The skills in love, once used correctly, can get twice the result with half the effort. This is also a more important factor in the relationship between the sexes.
In reality, some women are too innocent. What a man says, she does what she does. She is always in a passive position and it is naturally difficult for a man to fall in love with you.
In fact, women need to take the initiative, let the man revolve around you, rather than you become his attachment, so as to make men love you more.
In the TV series " Thirty Only ", Lin Youyou is a very careful woman. The reason why she can quickly capture Xu Huansan's heart is nothing more than using this technique.
Of course, Lin Youyou, the "tea girl" is not worthy of praise, but her skills can be used for reference.
Lin Youyou knows that Xu Huansan has a wife, but he is still ambiguous with him. There are a lot of careful thoughts when getting along with him, but he didn't expect Xu Huansan to be really fooled.
The scene where two people eat ice cream is the best interpretation. She deliberately added the ice cream in Xu Huansan's hands, and then said bitterly. This kind of woman's careful thinking was brought to the fullest by her.
Xu Huansan looked at her back and couldn't help adding ice cream, with a meaningful smile on her face, and she never forgot about her ever since.
Therefore, when a woman gets along with a man, she can use some careful thinking to instantly capture the man's heart and make him inseparable from you.
In a relationship, when two people truly love each other,When women learn to act like a baby, the relationship can continue to heat up, and men can't do without you.
Acting like a baby is not to please men, but to promote mutual affection, so that men care about you in their hearts and put their minds on you .
In this way, he can't do without you, and he is more concerned about you, cherishes you, and spoils you.
The more coquettish women are, the easier it is to be loved by men. This is the reason.
I hope women can find the man who loves you and pet you, and a happy life.
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