Men don’t want to marry a "poor girl" as their wife

Hello friends! Our encounter is a long-awaited reunion. Click "Follow" above, we will be friends for life!

Text: So

Illustration: I don’t know when the marriage from the Internet

has become a part of a female carnival. .

There are many boys and girls, and it is not easy to marry a wife, so many girls think that it is hard for a woman to marry, but it is difficult for a man to marry.

In a contemporary society where there are many boys and few girls, it is not easy for a man to marry and have children, but the prerequisite is that he wants to find a woman who is equivalent to his own conditions.

If men are willing to lower their requirements, marriage is of course not a problem. There are men who do not have any requirements, but still cannot enter the marriage hall. After all, his conditions are too poor, and such men are only a minority.

The blind date market has always been where women choose men, but girls have overlooked a very serious problem. Marriage is a two-way choice question.

Women can choose men, but they also have to accept the reality that they are chosen by men.

Women care about material conditions, so they always want to marry a man who is more financially capable, but women do not know that men also have requirements for their partners.

comes from the consideration of future life,Many men are reluctant to marry a poor girl, and poverty can be divided into two types.

The first type is poor economic conditions.

For example, if the monthly income is too low and the debt is heavy, if the native family is a bottomless pit, it will let men run away.

The second kind is the poor.

This kind of girl is either less educated and has little connotation, or she is greedy for vanity and loves to compare.

Living with these two kinds of girls is something that many men are unwilling to do.

Girls with poor material conditions tend to wear down their standard of living .

I believe many people still remember the role of Fan Shengmei. She is a beautiful girl at school level, and through her own efforts, she was admitted to a Shanghai university. After graduation, she worked in Shanghai, although she is not a big wealth. Expensive, but the monthly income is not low.

According to the truth, a girl who is beautiful, has a diploma, and has a good job should be pursued by many outstanding boys, but Fan Shengmei is an exception.

There are indeed many relatively rich men who pursue her, but no one wants to marry her.

Fan Shengmei’s family conditions make many people afraid,There are parents to raise, elder brothers and sisters-in-law to raise, and even nephews to raise, that is a bottomless pit.

When encountering such a native family, Fan Shengmei is indeed very pitiful, and the native family can bring down a person for a lifetime.

It is difficult for a school-level beauty to find the other half under poor economic conditions, let alone an ordinary girl.

When facing life, everyone often considers some practical problems, and these problems will involve the second half of a person's life, so it is understandable for men to think more.

Marriage is a combination of two people and the result of the joint efforts of two people. Poverty-relief marriage is destined to be a tragedy.

So when they can choose, most men will stay away.

The poor girl affects the happiness of marriage and the next generation.

Mr. Lu Xun has always disliked his original wife, he did not even admit that it was his wife.

Mr. Lu Xun is a modern great writer, but his wife is a rural woman who doesn't know half of a large number of characters. They don't have a common language, and they are arranged marriages, so Mr. Lu Xun hates his wife very much.

He has never touched her in his life, but he still chooses to support her because it is just a responsibility.

Being poor is more terrifying than being poor,Poverty can be changed through hard work, but poor heart is hard to change.

A girl who is poor at heart is either uneducated or born into a native family with an inadequate outlook. Both of these points will affect a girl's life.

Some people are proud of being useful talents in society, and some people think that no matter how many books they read or how high their positions are, they are not as fast as earning jobs. This is the three-view problem.

The impact of marriage on two people is profound, and the next generation is also implicated.

Parents are the first teachers of their children, and the influence of women on their children is also profound. Therefore, it is often difficult for a woman with a poor heart to educate a child with a rich heart and full of confidence.

Men only marry "poor girls" when they have no choice.

Women always feel that women do not worry about marrying because there are many men who have no choice in this world.

If they can choose, they naturally want to choose a better girl to marry, but due to their limited conditions and the number of men and women is simply not right, they can only choose to get married.

For some men, getting married is nothing more than getting what they need. This is actually an alliance.

Men only want a descendant of their own,Therefore, when the conditions are relatively poor, or not excellent, they can only do their best to marry a woman who is willing to have offspring with them.

A man can marry a woman he doesn't like. I believe everyone understands this, because there are many naked cases in real life.

For women, self-improvement is always an unstoppable practice .

I believe many people know the story of Zhao Liying, she is actually very inspirational for many women, and full of positive energy.

Zhao Liying was a little-known actor in her early 20s. She was running a masterpiece and playing soy sauce. She had no value at all .

At that time, if she chose to marry and have children, the level of husband she could find was also limited.

Through her own efforts, she slowly became the number one female, and then she became a first-line actress.

In his early 30s, he married Feng Shaofeng , a well-known and truly rich second-generation man.

Zhao Liying married a man in her early 30s who could not be as high in her early 20s. All this comes from her self-improvement.

If Feng Shaofeng meets Zhao Liying in her early 30s,But Zhao Liying in her early 20s, maybe he didn't want to look at her more.

Although Zhao Liying is now single and living alone with her son, but because of her own strength, she will not make life too bad.

For a woman, her own value will directly depend on what kind of man she can meet.

Many women want to change their destiny through marriage, even directly across the class. In fact, this is an impossible thing to accomplish.

Instead of pinning hopes on others, it is better to spend a little more time on self-improvement and turn yourself into a rich girl, rich from the inside out.

——END

Today’s topic: "Do you think it is right"?

.