Some people say that feelings are like a glass of water. When it is hot, it is love, when it is warm, it is marriage, and when it is cold, it is the end.
It is undeniable that some emotions cannot withstand the test of time, and a man’s heart changes after a long time together.
When you feel that love begins to fade, true love begins to slowly emerge. You can choose to give up and find the freshness of the next paragraph, but the price is that you will never escape the freshness The endless loop of feeling.
So you have to understand that true love can only be manifested through constant running-in. Feelings need to be managed, and problems need to be resolved instead of giving up.
In a sexual relationship, the best way to want a man to love you and become addicted to you is to try to do the "three nos".
1. Don't cold war and turn old accounts
There is a saying on the Internet that says this: I always think that the way of communication between children is very suitable for intimacy and can be simple and generous. If you think about it right now, you don't have a backlog of problems and solve them immediately, while adults will be roundabout, cold war, jealous, guarded, and overturning the old account afterwards.
When both sexes get along, often quarrels or cold wars may be due to some trivial things, or even some common things in life. For men, they are reluctant to argue about these trivial things, but women often like to fight. Some old accounts of stale sesame and rotten millet are turned out,In order to prove that what I said was reasonable, as a result, the trivial things that were originally trivial turned into endless quarrels, not only the relationship between the two parties became stiff, but also the feelings slowly faded.
So, please don’t quarrel and turn over the old accounts. When you are angry, just say, don’t cold war, we will reduce the big things, and the small things, let each other step down.
2. Don’t try to change each other
Psychologist Scott Pike pointed out: “Women transforming men in marriage will only make the marriage suffocating. The husband feels that A strong bondage, I just want to escape. Only by maintaining their own characteristics can the married life be more fulfilled."
No one wants to be "changed", because no one wants to feel "picky" and Criticized"
No matter how glue-like a couple, they are essentially two independent individuals who grew up in different growth environments. In their respective growth processes, they will have different living habits and different values.
The best state of marriage is to accept reality and give up the dedication to perfection. Qian Zhongshu and his wife Yang Jiang are examples of happy marriages.
Qian Zhongshu's evaluation of Yang Jiang is "the most talented woman, the best wife."
Qian Zhongshu, the clumsy Qian Zhongshu,She doesn't know how to do housework, and Yang Jiang said, "He doesn't know how to wash the tableware, I can wash it; if the teapot is burned out, I will repair it." Although Qian Zhongshu can't even change a light bulb, he has been cooking breakfast for his wife Yang Jiang for decades. His clumsy way of baking bread makes this little family full of love.
So, don't try to change the other person. Love each other with kindness, acceptance and appreciation, and love can last forever.
3. Don't be ambiguous with other opposite sexes
If you have established a good relationship, then you must abide by the rules of love, don't be ambiguous with other opposite sex. In a relationship, a man's love for you is selfish, because he loves you, so he only hopes that you are just his own. I don't want you to be too close to the other sex, because he is a man, so he knows what the men outside who want to get close to you think about you.
Not being ambiguous with other opposite sex is also a kind of respect for this relationship. After all, when the two decide to be together, they must be responsible to each other and loyal to each other.
I miss you the end of the note: I love and hate it, and feel comfortable. Life is doomed to each other's lives, either hate or love or indifference, just because of accidental encounters and sudden looking back. Perhaps the one who loves the longest hates the longest; the one who hates the deepest loves the deeper. The interweaving of love and hate is a life like a dream. Life is like a white horse passing a gap,It's fleeting, why care too much. Regardless of family, friendship or love, the ones who naturally stay with you are the most true and longest.
Thank you for reading. Think of your notes, blend in with words, and take you to understand the emotional world together.
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