In the short summer, young writer ‘Liu Zichao’ launched a roaming to escape the burden and search for spiritual meaning. "Arrived before midnight" book recorded this sentence: In the face of reality, any careful planning will always appear fragile, and the best response is to follow the trend.
reminds me of, People are very fragile in the face of reality, they will not only escape from time, because they can’t be beaten by time. Still bad luck.
Therefore, most people will prepare in advance, This approach is equivalent to giving yourself a vaccination in advance or a self-comforting reassurance.
But whether this kind of vaccination or reassurance pill, can only be half or less useful, because this is only preconceived ,What kind of situation I might encounter, how should I deal with it, and such a psychological preparation process.
carefully planned it out, and can really be used basically in the range of its control.
But developments in life are constantly changing .
is not like a stable daily work or a skill we are good at. unless the "hot potato" encountered is a familiar and rotten pattern rule, is of course fast and effective.
But our life is not single, but multiple and uncertain.
The best way, I think it should be like the author mentioned in the book:
state can be like this,Then we will not feel vulnerable when we encounter difficult and unavoidable problems, and can even be improved and changed. More importantly, we can deal with unexpected problems in a calm way.
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