A condom fell out of her bag. What do people around you think?

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In all likelihood, people will think that this woman has a problem with her life style. For example, her sexual relationship is casual and chaotic, and her private life is not well-regulated. The famous Chinese sexologist Li Yinhe believes thatFirst of all, this is because people always like to associate sex with morality. People who are indifferent or have fewer sex times have a moral advantage. On the contrary, those who have strong sexual desires or have a higher frequency of sex are morally disadvantaged, and a woman who carries a condom with her will use someone The description of the cartoonist said: It must be a crazy woman like Samantha in "Sex and the City", who has surging sexual desire and is waiting for sex at any time.

So, the first thing we have to ask is: If a woman has sex frequently, is it immoral? Must it be slutty?

The answer is obviously no. Sexologist Fuke believes that, in many cases, people formulate sexual ethics in accordance with a part of the standard. He Jiner said: Why do some women always have a sense of shame about sex? Why do some conservative women always hold a deep hatred of women who are open to sex? The possible reasons are: One, she is naturally weak in sexual desire, This is physiological, but she must rise to a sense of moral superiority. Second, she is easily internalized by the notion that a woman is asexual and pure. then rises up with a sense of purity in her heart, so we must resolutely fight against those multisexual women.

So, a woman carries a condom with her, even if she is a multisexual woman, is she destined to be morally judged because of this?

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span carry a condom with womenIn fact, it is more necessary than men.

I once heard a story about a woman who feels that she can dedicate everything to her lover because she feels that she loves her lover. Lovers don't like to wear condoms, of course the woman agreed without hesitation. But the result is that when she gave everything to her slutty lover and the other party waved her hand freely without taking away a cloud, what was left was the exhausted body and mind that she had miscarried N times for the other party, as well as the venereal disease that has been difficult to cure.

Therefore, the protagonist in an Oscar-winning classic film lamented: It’s not that I don’t believe it. I really don’t believe anything. The only thing I believe is that human nature cannot withstand temptation and is changeable. .

At the beginning of love, women are indeed prone to a feeling of giving everything for each other and being dazzled. Therefore, the complete integration is the proof of her dedication to a man. At first, they might feel that for health and contraception considerations, it is more necessary for women to insist on wearing condoms than men. But while persisting, the question in her heart is: Will this affect a man’s pleasure? Men doubt my love for him?

And the more at this time, the less women should actually compromise. Because a man is full of ambivalence: when you can give up the principle of health and self-protection for him, after he has a moment of pleasure, he may think that you will or have given up like this for a man. Principle? On the surface, he got it, but in fact your principledness can't stand his scrutiny.

So when a man wants his momentary pleasure,But when you need to give up the safety principle, this kind of love is obviously not true love. The man who really loves you is when you stick to the principle. Although he sacrificed part of his entertainment, it is his true respect and love that you win.

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