If you "marry in a hurry", you are willing to risk becoming the unfortunate-Sukhomlinsky.
Is education important in marriage? If the wife’s education is not as good as the husband’s, will the husband dislike it? Some people say it certainly will. Different educational backgrounds will lead to different three views, and the three views do not need to be forcibly combined. Forcing them together will only be very painful.
Some people say that differs from person to person. Education does not represent the three views. The key depends on character. As long as character is okay and everything is okay, then which point of view do you agree with?
Husband and wife are childhood sweethearts
Zhou Weidong is a graduate student who works as a senior manager in a large enterprise in Changsha with a monthly income of over 10,000. His wife He Haiyan is a salesperson in the supermarket, and his salary is only about 1,000.
According to the conditions of He Haiyan and Zhou Weidong, the gap between the two is a bit big. The husband is a manager of a large company, his education is a graduate student, and his wife is an ordinary salesperson. How did the two get together?
According to He Haiyan's introduction, she and Zhou Weidong grew up together and went to school together from elementary school to junior high school. In her eyes, Zhou Weidong is introverted and rarely speaks, but his academic performance is very good, and later he was admitted to the university.
After entering the university, Zhou Weidong launched a fierce pursuit of He Haiyan, and the friendship he grew up with made He Haiyan easy to accept him.
The husband who was admitted to graduate school began to dislike his wife
So far,The two have been married for 13 years, but the days after the marriage were not satisfactory. He Haiyan has not seen her husband for 5 years, and her son Binbin is very strange to her father. He has never seen her since he went to kindergarten. What happened to the couple?
In order to finish his studies, Zhou Weidong left his wife and children. What Ling He Haiyan didn't expect was that she never saw her husband again, and she didn't even know her husband's mobile phone number.
Later she learned that after her husband left them, he went to a large company and became a manager there. Is this the reason why Zhou Weidong avoided seeing him? Did he start to dislike his wife?
Regarding this, He Haiyan frankly her husband does dislike herself, "He once texted me, saying that he and I are no longer of the same class, and I feel ashamed to walk together."
and He Haiyan still listens My friend said that I once saw Zhou Weidong with another woman, who was still holding a baby in her hand.
Husband and another woman gave birth to a child
In order to verify the truth, He Haiyan and a friend came to the police station. After verification by the police, Zhou Weidong has moved his permanent residence to Tianxin District, Changsha City, where he also bought a house.
came to Tianxin District, Changsha City, Zhou Weidong did have a real estate in this place, but he could not verify his current marital status, so He Haiyan went to the local civil affairs bureau again.
After the staff inquired, Zhou Weidong really married a woman named Shi Mingchun and had a son. But he did not divorce He Haiyan,In other words, he committed bigamy.
As a graduate student, he should know well that it is impossible to get married again without dissolving his marriage with another woman, so why did he do this?
Angrily beats the negative man
He Haiyan, who learned that her husband cheated on her, couldn’t help crying now. She had to believe that her husband had indeed betrayed her.
At this time, Zhou Weidong took the initiative to call and expressed that he wanted to chat with his wife.
After a while, Zhou Weidong appeared. Before he could walk in front of He Haiyan, He Haiyan's friend first challenged him and unceremoniously slapped Zhou Weidong in the face.
friend: "Are you wrong?"
Zhou: "I'm here to apologize to her."
Should you fight?"
Zhou: "That."
Friend: "Apologize is not what you said."
Zhou Weidong was beaten up, but he was still embarrassed. Did not resist,Let his wife's friends beat and scold. He would not know that his actions not only hurt his wife, but also hurt his son.
Zhou Weidong emphasized more than once that he was here to resolve and to apologize. He knew he was wrong. In order to express his sincerity, he even knelt down and apologized to his wife.
It’s just that his series of actions did not impress He Haiyan and her friends. They felt that Zhou Weidong was just performing and did not sincerely regret it.
Husband’s regrets
He Haiyan just wants to escape from her husband’s personality, and he understands everything that she has done. The legal sanction is just because her husband used to send text messages to her and verbally abused her.
One thing is always unclear. Since Zhou Weidong is tired of his wife, why not get a divorce? Instead, let yourself commit bigamy?
Faced with the questions raised by the reporter, Zhou Weidong said that he also wanted to get a divorce, but He Haiyan disagreed, and then it evolved into the current situation. He now wants to solve this problem as soon as possible.
Xue Baochai waited for 18 years, but the husband and the princess were waiting to tie the knot; He Haiyan waited for her husband for five years, but it was her betrayal.
He Haiyan has been living with her younger brother since she was separated from her husband. Her father had a cerebral hemorrhage and her mother was in poor health. Life was very difficult, but her graduate husband turned a blind eye to all this.
In order not to affect the health of her parents, He Haiyan kept hiding from the elderly. She is now very entangled, whether to reconcile with her husband or go through legal procedures? Although the husband is sorry for herself, he is the son's father after all, and she is worried that the conflict with her husband will be too stiff and hurt her son.
At this critical moment, Zhou Weidong approached He Haiyan again. He said that he regretted it and wanted to coordinate with his wife to get together and get together.
The husband of a graduate student said that he did not understand the marriage law
Zhou Weidong took many baby items to his new home. He went to the house and took out a divorce certificate. It turned out that he had divorced from his current wife. But even so, it cannot cover up the fact that the crime of bigamy has been committed.
In response to this, Zhou Weidong said that he did not know much about the marriage law, and he thought that as long as he was separated for two years, it would be equal to an automatic divorce.
His statement is really hard to convince people. A graduate student said he didn't understand the marriage law. This made people have to wonder whether he was justifying his behavior?
Zhou Weidong once again proposed to meet his wife. He thinks that his wife should forgive what he did, even for his son. Then he proposed that he would give his son 300,000 alimony.
He Haiyan does not agree to reconcile her husband, and she does not accept her husband’s apology. As for the compensation, everything is subject to the law.
She always felt that her husband apologized to herself just to escape the sanction of the law.Worrying that his own complaint will affect his future, his reputation will lower his posture.
If the husband really has this family in his heart, he has himself and his son, and he really regrets his behavior, it is impossible not to contact them for five years, and he would not want to meet until the matter is exposed.
The son’s avoidance, the husband’s repentance letter p
Zhou Weidong walked up to hug him as soon as he saw his son, but Binbin repelled his father’s hug. After five years of separation, he felt that his father was very strange, and he couldn’t even remember his father’s appearance, so he refused. Called Dad and pushed away Dad's hand. Seeing his son's attitude, I wonder what Zhou Weidong thinks.
After returning home, Zhou Weidong wrote a letter of regret and apologized to his wife, children and his wife’s friends. This time, He Haiyan’s friend accepted Zhou Weidong’s apology and said he would persuade He Haiyan to reconcile.
However, Zhou Weidong's book of regret touched his wife's friends, but did not touch her own wife. He Haiyan insisted that she would adopt the law to protect her rights and she must make this irresponsible man pay the price.
postscript
, if only the words of "Span 1span 2" of Mulan _span_span 1span 2What is Qiufeng sad painting fan, waiting for idle change, but the heart of the old people, but the heart of the old people is easy to change.
It is difficult for people to maintain their original intentions, and they often change when they walk. In terms of life cycle, this is normal, day and night, how can you not be visually fatigued? It's just that when the choice changes, should one show one's most basic etiquette? It doesn't matter if you want to step into the new milestone, and separate it from the previous paragraph. Wouldn't it be better to turn around easily?
The picture comes from the Internet, invaded and deleted, thanks for providing
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