Would you like to borrow money, to explain your weight in his heart?
I chatted with a friend yesterday and mentioned a particularly funny thing.
She has been doing English training, and the students include adults and minors. Because of the great teaching methods, the source of students has always been good.
A few years ago, she met a student, and after the course, she would chat on WeChat. In her mind, it is a very ordinary friendship.
Unexpectedly, after a while, the other party confessed to her: "You know, I have always liked you, can I be my girlfriend?"
She was shocked because she has Boyfriend, and the two have a good relationship.
So, upon hearing the student confession, I directly refused: "I have a boyfriend, and I always treat you as a normal friend. It is impossible for us."
The student heard this sentence Then, I felt a little disappointed, but I quickly responded calmly: "I know you have a boyfriend, but I think if I don’t express it now, I won’t have a chance again." After
, the two of them were still normal. Get along and chat on WeChat occasionally.
A few days ago, she was short of funds and didn't know who to ask for it for a while. So he said to this student: "Lend me 20,000 yuan and pay you back in a few days."
Unexpectedly, the other party said: "You borrowed it, will you not pay it back? I will urge you every day. , Maybe even friends can’t do it.”
suddenly felt very funny,The person who keeps saying that he likes himself reveals everything the moment he borrows money.
A man who truly loves you will always help you out of your urgent need, instead of deliberately staying out. If you ask him to borrow money, he always pushes back and hesitates, then most of you don't trust you or love you.
His kind of like is superficial, just staying in the state of talking.
A man’s love is often hidden in the details. A man who can lend you money may not be true love. But those who are unwilling to lend you money must not love you.
The amount of money borrowed shows how much he trusts you
Many years ago, I talked to a friend. At that time, I was in a private school with limited income.
is about 2000 or so monthly salary. But I am very frugal, never squandering or buying luxury goods.
Because of work needs, I plan to buy a computer with a budget of around 4000. But I only have 1,000 yuan.
So, I asked my boyfriend to borrow 3000.
He promised at first, he can come and get it anytime. After two days, there was no news. When I asked him later, he only said one sentence: "I only have 1,000 yuan here. You can use it first, and you can figure it out by yourself."
In order to buy the computer as soon as possible, I asked again. My colleague borrowed 2000.
A few months later,He said that he wanted to change to a new phone, and I asked him: "Aren't you short on hand, why are you rich again?"
He hesitated and couldn't answer.
We separated soon after one year of dating. In fact, sometimes a man does not care about himself, and a woman knows it very clearly in her heart. Where is the man's money, where is his heart.
If you are reluctant to spend money for you and are reluctant to buy you gifts from the very beginning, you basically just don’t love you. Everyone will encounter some difficulties more or less in life. In difficult times, the man who loves you will find ways to help you. A man who doesn't love you will only find all kinds of excuses.
In the relationship between men and women, many people find it tacky to talk about money. But sometimes, money is the touchstone of feelings. What is your position in the other person's mind? Whether he treats you sincerely or fakely. Just ask him to borrow money once and he will understand.
Money is a stumbling block to love, but it is also a touchstone
There is a saying on the Internet that says very well: I will try to give you what you want; I will always be there when you need it. This is good love.
When a man is willing to lend you money, it is when he starts to love. Because money is important to everyone. If he is willing to lend you money and share what he has with you, then it proves that he trusts you and cares about you.
Good relationship, talking about money will make the relationship stronger. A man who only speaks sweetly but has no actual actions will never bring you happiness.
Money is a stumbling block to love,But it is also a touchstone. Sweet words will only give you short-term happiness. But the real contribution will bring you a sense of security.
Borrowing money cannot measure everything, but it can explain countless problems.
When we are in love, we always feel that we just need to have love. But marriage is very realistic, with firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, giving birth to children. If a man is unwilling to spend money on you, unwilling to take on family responsibilities, and gets upset when he talks about money, then life is very difficult.
"Satisfaction with drinking water", this is a beautiful ideal of love. Realistic feelings are not a mirage, but need material support.
A man who loves you is often willing to talk about money with you and is willing to give you the money. Because in his mind, you are the most important. The meaning of all his efforts is to create a better life for you.
A woman tries to test a man’s sincerity, only two words are needed: borrow money.
A man who really loves you, is willing to bear the winds and frosts of life for you, and will worry about you. Because he knows that you are more important than money, he is willing to work hard for you, and is willing to share the worries for you.
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