35-year-old woman: Derailed by love, but in the end made me homeless, the man is too bad

Foreword:

35-year-old Ms. Zhang said that the reason why she cheated was actually because she had no choice but to make herself homeless. How could such a thing happen? Let's take a look!

Ms. Zhang's narrative:

Once I wanted to be a good woman, I didn’t want to cheat. I also feel that cheating is a shameful thing, but the development of what I can predict is not a shame. of.

I married my husband when I was 25, and then gave birth to a daughter when I was 26, because I gave birth to a daughter, and then my parents-in-law were very unhappy. Their family gave birth to a son, so after I gave birth to my daughter, my parents-in-law went to travel. They didn’t take care of my confinement, so I could only take care of myself confinement, because the confinement was not done well, so my body Many diseases have also fallen, and it is estimated that many people will wonder why I don’t ask my parents to take care of my confinement? In fact, it is like this. I am an orphan. My parents died when I was very young. Then I grew up with my grandparents. My grandparents died when I was 23 years old. Then I have no relatives, so I don't expect anyone to take care of my confinement.

Because there is no one in my family, my husband doesn’t put me in the eyes. When I was in confinement, he didn’t take care of me. At that time, he often went out to play and left me alone. , I feel very pitiful. Since I was a child, I have never had a good life. Later, the children grew up slowly, and the children grew up a little bit, and then I went out to work.

My daughter grew up a bit, and then my parents-in-law began to urge me to have a second child. At that time, I had not let go of the second child.If you give birth to a second child like this, you will be fined, so I don’t want to do something like that, so I always disagree with having a second child because I don’t agree with having a second child. My parents-in-law and mother-in-law have great opinions on me. Even my husband's opinion of me has become bigger.

The following countries let go of the second child, so I decided to have a second child, and then I got pregnant smoothly. After the pregnancy in October, I gave birth to a son. Because I gave birth to a son, parents-in-law and mother-in-law will come. I took care of my confinement, and I still took care of me very carefully. I don’t know what to say about my parents-in-law. I gave birth to a daughter and they didn’t take care of my confinement, so I blamed them, but when I gave birth to a son , They are kind to me again, so I don't know what to say.

Because I have to raise two children, my husband’s burden is very heavy. At that time, I gave birth and stopped going to work, so there was no income. I could only ask my husband for money. The life of asking for money is really uncomfortable, so when the child was six months old, I left the child at home and I went out to work. At that time, I was 35 years old. It’s really difficult to find a better job. It's easy. In many places nowadays, only those under the age of 30 are recruited, and they don't have any special skills, so it is very difficult to find a job.

After two months of hard work, I finally found a decent job, working as an assistant to a manager in a small company. I cherish this opportunity very much, so I work very hard. My manager is a A 52-year-old man, he treated me very well and took good care of me. I felt a little strange later. Once I went out to socialize with the manager. After the socializing, the manager sent me home. But in the middle of the road, my manager talked to me. I confessed. He said that he hoped that I would be his lover. The first time I met such a thing, I felt overwhelmed, but the manager's expression was very serious, as if telling me that if I didn't agree, my job would be It's not guaranteed, so I have no choice. In order to keep my job, I can only agree. I really have to.

became my manager’s lover,He gave me a lot of convenience at work, and he also gave me processing money, and he often gave me pocket money, he asked me to dress up more, he said that women should be beautiful, and he often takes me there. Buying clothes and the like, every time he buys me clothes he buys that kind of expensive clothes. The expensive clothes are really good-looking, the fabrics are good, and they look good on them, and then I become more and more beautiful.

After my husband felt something was wrong, he started investigating me. Finally, my husband found out that I had cheated. When my husband learned about this, my husband was very angry. He beat me and then followed me. I got divorced. Because I was the wrong party, I was cleaned out. After I was cleaned out, I don't know what to do? I went to my manager later, but my manager told me that he was a man with a family, he would not be with me, he would just play with me, I really didn’t expect a man to be like this Cruel, the man was too bad, and I became homeless afterwards.

Concluding remarks:

In the workplace, if your leader makes an excessive request, you can actually refuse it. There is no need to do something against your conscience for work.

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