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At night, Yang Hong squeezed my shoulders and said carefully: "Wife, I will tell you something, don’t be angry again. I’m next week. This time I’m going to save extra money. The time is uncertain. It may take as little as half a month, or it may be longer." I’m free, Xiaojian left me alone. Don’t you know, I have to deal with work after work during this time, can I be busy?"
Yang Hong Comfort me: "You have worked so hard for another half month. When I come back, I will cover all the housework at home."
No matter how soft Yang Hong said, I just don't agree. Angrily, Yang Hong hugged the quilt and went to the second bedroom.
Xiaojian is the son of Yang Hong, nine years old this year, in the third grade of elementary school, Yang Hong died of sudden illness a few years ago.
Six months ago, my sister-in-law said that she had met the right person and wanted to marry again. My sister-in-law wanted to take Xiaojian with her, and her mother-in-law said that Xiaojian was the only bloodline of her elder brother, and she was determined not to take her away.
The mother-in-law said that they could afford Xiaojian and would not let Xiaojian call someone else's father. This is true. The parents-in-law started small business when they were young. There were two shops in the town, and they had saved a little over the decades.
But after all, the in-laws are old, Xiao Jian is naughty again, and the in-laws are weak, the mother-in-law thought of sending Xiao Jian to come with us. Yang Hong found the school without saying a word, and waited for her mother-in-law and Xiaojian to move in with their bags before I knew the whole story.
The mother-in-law said that she would not leave Xiaojian in charge of us. She would pick him up and drop off here to and from school. She would also help us with housework, buying vegetables and cooking, which would not affect us. Life.
Unexpectedly, just over a month ago, the father-in-law accidentally fell off the motorcycle because he was delivering the goods, and broke his arm. The mother-in-law had to return to his hometown to take care of him.
As soon as the mother-in-law left, Yang Hong went on a business trip for a week. Yang Hong is not there. Apart from going to work, Xiaojian’s transportation, meals, and tutoring are all on my head, and occasionally I take care of work. I am very busy every day.
When my mother-in-law went back to her hometown for more than a month, I couldn't help calling and asking when she would be back. She faltered, saying that her father-in-law also injured his leg, and then said that the shop could not do without her.For a while, I will say that staying with us can't help much. She didn't seem to listen to what I said.
Now more than a month has passed. In addition to the occasional call to ask Xiaojian about the situation, my mother-in-law also comforted me with hard work, but she didn't mention when she would return.
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But I am busy at get off work and have to wait for a child after work. For a long time, I can't bear it. Besides, I have no such obligation.
At the weekend, I sent Xiaojian to my friend's house and drove back to my hometown with Yang Hong.
When they got home, the father-in-law and mother-in-law were eating around the table. Seeing that the father-in-law’s hands are very flexible, I guess it would have been better for a long time. The mother-in-law saw us with a look of surprise, she greeted us to sit down awkwardly, and ran to the kitchen to serve us food.
The atmosphere at home is quiet,I was holding my rice bowl and waiting for my mother-in-law to speak.
"Cici, Xiaojian has been with you during this time, and it's been hard for you." The mother-in-law broke the silence and said in a cold tone.
"Mom, you don’t know how to be honest. You didn’t say it at the beginning. Xiaojian is studying in the city and living in our house. Will you take care of it? We started work. Busy, I have to pick up my children. I used to take out a meal. Now because of my children, I have to buy vegetables, cook and eat. I don’t have any personal time after get off work, so I’m all around the little kids.” Yang Hong blurted out a bunch of things.
The mother-in-law glared at Yang Hong: "What do you say about this child? Didn't I come back for your dad? He broke his hand and can't even make meals. I won't come back to take care of him. Waiting for him to starve to death."
The mother-in-law is really good at throwing the pot, obviously Yang Hong didn't mean that.
"Mom, I think Dad's hands are pretty good. Then you come back to the city with us today. Yang Hong is going on a business trip, and I can't be too busy alone." I calmly Say.
My mother-in-law gave me a piece of ribs: "Cici, it’s not that mom doesn’t want to go back with you. Mom is not used to living in the city. You go to work every day, and Xiaojian goes to school.I am at home alone, not even a person to talk to, and the house is closed, and I will get sick after a long time. "
can't think of her mother-in-law's reason for being so clumsy. Her hearty personality can get along with people wherever she goes. Can you get sick? Besides, even if you feel bored, you can't take it. Xiaojian gave it to us.
"Mom, you are wrong to say that. If you are really uncomfortable, I can only transfer Xiaojian back to school. "I said angrily.
"That won't work. It's just half a semester. He has finally adapted to it. How can he switch back?" "The mother-in-law jumped three feet high.
"Well, Cici, after this semester, I will transfer Xiaojian back. There are more than two months before the semester is over. Two thousand yuan a month for your hard work. "The mother-in-law said as she walked into the room, and then took out an envelope, "This is five thousand yuan, thank you very much." "
My mother-in-law stuffed the envelope into my hand. This is waiting for me to come to my door. I even thought about the countermeasures. I couldn't laugh or cry: "Mom, it's not about money."
"Yang Hong, don't you just ask for money when you come back?" As much as a child can eat, 2,000 yuan a month is enough, but it really doesn’t work. You can also ask a nanny for the money."The mother-in-law changed her face in an instant.
I know she was telling me what she said. I can't hold back my breath: "Mom, what can you do with two thousand dollars, can you afford a nanny? Do you rest assured that the nanny will pick up Xiaojian? Can the nanny help with homework, hold a parent meeting, and communicate with the teacher about academic performance? If we come back to ask for money, you will give less. "
The mother-in-law pouted her lips: "After all, I still think that I don't have enough money. No matter what, I'll talk about it after this semester. "After speaking, she entered the room.
I really admire my mother-in-law's dominance, and I was so angry that I didn't even go out.
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Although I am angry with my mother-in-law, I don’t want to anger me, so I know how to do it. Big, since she said things off, she came to see Xiaojian in her free time, and she smiled when she saw the child eating well and sleeping with me. I was too lazy to care about her, so let's talk about it after this semester.
one day weekend,My mother-in-law came to see Xiaojian, and stayed at home at night, and I got up to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night. Seeing the light in Xiaojian's room, I pushed the door in. I saw Xiaojian curled up on the bed with sweat on his face. I was terrified and I hurried to take him to the hospital.
Fortunately, there is no danger. He is only acute gastroenteritis, and he will be fine after the infusion.
By the time I got home, it was already bright, and I was planning to go to bed and get some sleep. The mother-in-law sitting on the sofa said to stop me: "Are you going to sleep like this? You usually take care of Xiaojian? What did you give him today to make him vomit and diarrhea?"
From the moment I took Xiaojian to the hospital, my mother-in-law has been by my side. She hugged Xiaojian, anxious, nervous, worried, but coldly toward me, she didn't say a word to me the whole time, and her eyes were full of anger when she looked at me.
The mother-in-law finally couldn't help it, and began to question me.
I resisted tiredness and asked her, "Did you not see what I gave him? We ate dinner together. Did he eat something unclean after dinner?"
"I asked Xiaojian, he said he didn't eat anything else,I ate at home, and it must be that the dish of barbecued pork in honey sauce is not hygienic. I have already said that children cannot always eat cooked vegetables. The cooked vegetables have many ingredients and strong taste, and the children will not be nutritious if they eat them. You can't patronize your own appetite, trying to save trouble and let your children suffer. Besides, didn’t I return the money to you guys? "The mother-in-law complained.
I am not angry: "Do you think you don't need money for that plate of barbecued pork with honey?" The most expensive of the entire dining table is it. Xiaojian loves to eat it, and it is not the first time he has eaten it. He used to eat nothing, but now he says it's unhealthy and nutritious. Do you have to blame me to feel comfortable? I've been tired all night, can't you be considerate of me? "
The mother-in-law mumbled: "I'm not wrong, but you can't eat more cooked dishes. He loves to eat and buys them all the time. It's not that you are too lazy to make fresh ones. I blame the children. "
The mother-in-law said repeatedly about the car wheel. Anyway, it is all my fault.
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got up the next day, and the mother-in-law has gone back. It is not easy to raise a child, and it is not easy to raise a child from another family. Yes, it’s my fault if it’s a bit bad.
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Yang Hongzhi said: "Mom, it's not that Xiaojian can't live here, but we can't take care of him. He wants to go to school here, so you pick up here and take care of his life. , We can help him with homework at most."
The mother-in-law raised her eyebrows and glanced at Yang Hong.He said disapprovingly: "He is not a three-year-old kid. It is so difficult to pick up and cook with you at all times. You don't have to eat. Xiaojian has so many chopsticks here. Don't you still have a cat? "
I laughed at what my mother-in-law said. Is she really stupid or pretending to be stupid? Does she think raising a child is as simple as raising a pet? If it is so easy to raise, some people will give birth to two children and three children.
"Mom, just like Yang Hong said, it’s okay for Xiaojian to study here, but you have to accompany you here. If you go back to your hometown, let Xiaojian go back to your hometown to read." Attitude to solve the problem, said with a strong anger.
"I said, why don't you have a child? Is it too little money?"
, You will not force him to take care of us. He is here, how much energy we have to put into it, don’t you know? I am not an idler, I have a job."
Saying that you don't have the energy to take care of Xiaojian, will you no longer have children?" the mother-in-law said angrily.
"As a child's parent, I will do it no matter how hard I am, but Xiaojian is not my child and I have no obligation."I replied not to be outdone.
The mother-in-law has discovered the New World and exaggeratedly said: "Well, you can't take care of Xiaojian, you just don't want to take care of him, you didn't treat him as a family. . "
I just wanted to go back, Yang Hong pulled the corner of my clothes.
span Too much, why do we fight this way? It's not all for you, when we are gone, all the property will not be left to you. As for you, you only care about your own enjoyment, and don't even want to take care of a child. "The mother-in-law said, she squeezed out a few tears, "I actually want Xiaojian to follow you, so that you can raise him as a son." "
I was stunned by the last words of my mother-in-law. This is the purpose of my mother-in-law.
"Why are you so selfish? I would never give Xiaojian to that woman." He is your brother's only blood, and I can't apologize to your brother. If you raise Xiaojian as your own son, when we are old, everything in the family will be yours.If you don't want to raise Xiaojian, I won't give you a penny, and you don't want to get any property. "The mother-in-law said bitterly.
Hearing this, Yang Hong on the side could not sit still. He looked up at me and I didn’t need to think about it. He was shaken. The mother-in-law was always at home. Strong, Yang Hong grew up and didn’t dare to disobey her.
The mother-in-law said that their savings are enough for them to provide for the elderly, and they will also pay for the expenses before Xiaojian graduates from university. We only need to support them as much as possible.
. In this way, the in-laws will give us the shops and houses in the town. Otherwise, they will get nothing.
’s shop in the town is estimated to be worth a million, and the house is also worth hundreds of thousands. Although our income is above the middle level, living in the city is still under great pressure. It’s not too much money.
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Yang Hong agreed to raise Xiaojian in order to be his filial son and to obtain the property of his in-laws. He thinks it is not difficult for us to raise a child, anyway we don't have to pay for it ourselves. And I can change to a more leisurely position, work, and the children do both.
And I don't want to change positions for my children. My current position is a technical position. Although there is not much room for development, it is an irreplaceable position for the company.
Besides, Yang Hong is the son of in-laws, and he has the right to inherit the property of in-laws, so the inherited property must be exchanged for raising a child.
Raising a child’s growth is not easy, except for money, other contributions are also a heavy burden, such as time, energy, education, and the child’s physical and mental health, so don’t worry about it.
Take a 10,000 step back and say, if I really have this energy, wouldn’t it be a good idea to have one more? Why raise someone else's.
Yang Hong and I can’t convince anyone. Is it because of this mess that our marriage came to an end?