Extramarital affair is caused by physical loneliness

Extramarital affairs are caused by physical loneliness

Although the lives of modern people are getting richer and richer, their feelings are getting richer and richer. There are many ways to love, I dare to love and hate. Couples or couples should be sweeter and more loving, this is a matter of course. However, extramarital affairs are emerging in endlessly, and even the plots on stage are mostly passionate or bizarre. Although the reason for extramarital love seems to be very good, because two people fall in love, because they are incompatible with their original character, have bad feelings, do not have a common language, and so on. In short, most extramarital affairs are carried out in the name of love.

Love is originally sacred and cannot be profaned. However, I don't know if modern people are too talented, or if they are really pursuing spiritual and spiritual satisfaction, in order to make love blossom everywhere. If you dare to say "I love you" shamelessly, you have to add a period of "I love you for ten thousand years"! Moreover, those sweet words that belong to love are not something a few people can say. More often, they have fallen in love several times and cannot do without you. They are willing to be lovers without a name and no points. Then, going to bed became a matter of course. Even when they met for the first time, they went to bed and became strangers when they got out of bed. This is the so-called one-night stand.

Of course, it is undeniable that there are true love, true love and infatuation in extramarital affairs, but such things are rare. In fact, extramarital affairs are more for fun. People's physiological needs are the greatest needs, as well as the most basic and instinctive needs. When food and housing are not a problem, the next step is physiological needs, or sex needs in plain terms.

People nowadays are too stressed and have more temptations. Loneliness and emptiness are becoming more and more unbearable, rather than diminishing with economic prosperity. Therefore, it is not a rule to seek spiritual relaxation and physical satisfaction outside. Objectively speaking, extramarital affairs are more of extramarital sex.

Men looking for a lover, generally speaking, not only satisfy their physical pleasure and desire, but also a means to show off their status, status and wealth. When a woman is looking for a lover, because a woman is born to regard love as very important, it is mostly because her heart and body are in a state of loneliness and loneliness, and her husband can’t satisfy herself, so she goes outside to seek comfort. Comfort basically comes from sexual satisfaction.

Of course, a man may have a self-righteous feeling of love in the process of contact with his lover,But this is definitely not love, nor can it be love. If it is true love with your lover, where should I send my wife? Before he developed, how did he explain his relationship with his first wife? Yes, people can love many times, but true love can only be one time for a man. After this time, the love they met again can only be regarded as a kind of love with very good feelings, or it can be called love, but it will never hurt the bones, nor will it blend into the bones.

When a man has an extramarital affair, as long as the main house of the family is very tolerant, he will generally not file for a divorce and go to a fairy life with his lover. Because the cost of divorce is too high, it is very likely that most of his hard-earned money will be given to his ex-wife and children, and his status and reputation in society will be lost, and it will even affect his career and bright future. In addition, I am used to listening to my wife's nagging when I get home, eating her meals, and doing everything for him. This habit is connected with bones and blood, and you cannot replace it.

What's more, the small three and the small four just want to please the man's money, status and career success. They just want him to spend money for her. However, no matter how much money he spends on you, most of his family's property is still owned by his wife and children. Don't forget, the most critical issue is that a child is involved between them. Therefore, I would rather be a prostitute than a mistress. Men will not divorce their wives easily. This is an absolutely cruel reality.

Once a woman has a real relationship with her lover, she will decisively divorce under normal circumstances, and then she prepares to plunge into her lover's arms like a moth to a fire, but suddenly finds that her lover is already in someone's gentle village. So most women can't afford to have extramarital affairs, can't do it. When I play, I will be emotional, and when I am emotional, I will divorce. After the divorce, I find that I am inhuman, and it is not worth this candle. Of course, there are also good men who marry her and live happily. However, only the parties themselves know whether the prince and princess are happy.

Why did extramarital affairs rarely occur in the past? It's not just because eating was a problem in those days, it was enough to struggle for a lifetime to fill your stomach. Where is there to think about other things? The so-called "warm lust"! Therefore, extramarital love is actually an obscure term for extramarital sex. It is noble to say it, but it can be noble. After all, it is not visible, isn't it?