In 2019, 9.26 million couples got married and 4.155 million couples got divorced, which is nearly 50% of the marriage ratio. However, cheating turned out to be the top 1 cause of divorce, and IT men had the highest error rate.
Men’s cheating rate in 2020 is 17%~18% , while women’s cheating rate is 15%-16%
There are also data surveys showing that in error cases, Chinese men account for 75%, that is Say that out of 100 married men, 75 stone hammers made mistakes.
Thinking carefully, the cost of marriage is getting higher and higher. Why do so many men prefer to risk divorce and choose to make mistakes?
I think I met love
I don’t want to be strict with my wife and break up for the sake of face
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Even women think that men’s mistakes can be tolerated. In men’s hearts, maybe they think it’s normal even more.
I often see the news of XiaoS calling her husband to go home. She is loyal to the husband and wife, and her acceptance level is terribly low, as long as her husband goes home.
There is only a difference between 0 and N times when a male cheats.Sure enough, his husband's affairs shocked the audience time and time again, and Xiao S forgave his husband's actions time and time again.
If women themselves do not think so, and do not accept this kind of mistake, men will be somewhat afraid.
They don't know that as long as any relationship is returned to marriage, it cannot be separated from the fireworks on the earth, three meals four seasons, trivial family, inseparable from quarrels and conflicts, romantic days eventually become secular and mediocre.
In fact, many men still choose to make mistakes in the end, and they generally have these mentalities:
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After listening to so many netizens’ real thoughts, it’s probably not because of the real reason that people have made a mistake in their hearts, but that men make mistakes. The time is right, you might as well try, or you are really moved at first, but you lack the courage and determination to take responsibility.
It seems that the sentence is really fulfilled: after most men make mistakes in marriage, they usually return to the family, and finally the injured are women (wife and girlfriend)
Tu Lei said: In marriage, a man can reflect his feelings for this woman through his three different understandings of derailment.
First, I just thought of cheating,It stopped abruptly, indicating that this man loves this woman.
Second, when this man has cheated, the facts have been confirmed, and he still wants to come back, he calls nostalgia for this woman.
Third, I hit a wall outside. The fact happened and I was dumped by the other party. Only then did I think of you. This is not love or nostalgia, but going home.
When I saw this sentence, I pondered for a while. These three ideas actually represent the three different realms of men.
The first type of male, self-control is not bad, he knows the most advanced way of loving a person, not possessing, but restraint. There may be many people I like, but there is only one person I love, my wife. Such men are usually more rational than perceptual.
The second type of male, after all, is honest and has a certain sense of responsibility. He knows how to weigh and make choices. Going home is the wisest choice and the least loss.
In the third type of male, going home is the worst way to go, but whenever there is a chance outside, he may never go home.
It is really rare for men to endure the trivial and ordinary life while making money to support their families. With such a long life, who can guarantee that he will not make a mistake once? Moreover, making mistakes in marriage is now a common phenomenon. We can only look for lessons from other people’s failures. Don't be willful!
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