01.
If you like someone, you will always focus on that person.
is as described in the poem . If you don’t see it in one day, it’s like a March.
When traveling on business, I think about bringing gifts to each other; when listening to songs, I want to listen to the songs he has heard; when eating, I want to taste the food of his hometown; Can't help but write down each other's name.
There is also an important point: the other party’s information will be answered immediately, even if you are taking a hot bath.
There was a question on the Internet: How to judge that a person loves you deeply?
One answer is: In the dialog box, there are questions and answers, active, and not perfunctory.
Love often needs to go both ways.
So, if you send a message and the other party does not reply, and then you send it one after another, you look at the dialog box, your message covers the entire screen, and the other party is just a cold one" Hmm", or almost no reply, then you have to accept a reality: the other party is "cannot read back" to you.
whether a person loves you or not,I don’t care about you, it’s actually hidden in your dialog box.
02.
Have you ever encountered such a thing.
Someone said to you: I have time to make an appointment next time.
Then, until you talked again a long time later, the meal was not finished.
Many times, we will be swayed by some polite remarks, because life is helpless, it is inevitable to say some scenes, but there is no lack of sincerity among friends, so it is not necessary to take it to heart.
But if there are more such agreements between lovers, they will fall in love with each other deeply and kill them again and again.
Because between lovers, I can't do this perfunctory.
Perhaps, some people say that a sensible girl will not mind that a man breaks an appointment again and again.
But a man who really loves you will not just make verbal promises again and again.
Actually, what women want is not a date, but more to see the sincerity of men towards themselves, and to see their own weight in men's hearts.
And, in the dialog box, the previous appointments are the proof that men love you.
He loves you,Don't let those agreements seem like clouds, ethereal and ungrounded.
03.
The person who loves you may not swear to you, but he will definitely know everything about you.
Because he will care about his image in your heart and care about your opinion of him. He doesn't want to leave him in the end when you are disappointed again and again.
Adult love is actually very practical.
When you say "I love you" a thousand times in the dialog box, it is not as good as you can really do one thing for her.
Love is never on the lips, but with practical actions to move the other person again and again, and attract the other person's heart.
And someone who "cannot read back" to you, forget it.
You are in his heart, really not that important.
Hu Yanbin once released a song with a line of lyrics:
If love can be straightforward, why bother, humble than can’t read it.
If love can be evenly matched,Why bother, the ending is confusing.
Love is always a matter of two people, so there is no ambiguity.
You can be free to a friend or colleague, but you can express your love to your lover and your heart only once. It’s a pity forever when it’s too late.
How many people quit because they can't see each other's heart; how many people walk out of each other's life and find new love in the midst of repeated loss.
Life is too short. If you encounter true love, if you don’t know how to cherish it, no one can help you.
04.
In life, there are always people who will focus on someone who is forever closed to you.
That person does not reply to you, ignores you, but you still persistently send messages again and again.
Then, guessing: he is busy; he is not free; he has something; he will reply later; he is in a bad mood today...
Actually, there is no need at all.
If a person does not reply to you, in fact, it is already a reply.
He is using actions to tell you that he doesn’t mean so much to you.You are not so important in his heart.
So, if it is "can't read back", then don't force it. You will never wake up a person who pretends to sleep.
There was a survey on WeChat: Do you want to add the "read" function?
Many people refused.
In love, the most humble, but seeing other people read your message, but it has been a long time not to get a word "um".
Love can't always be fantasised. Don't stay with the person in the moment forever. Love never "waits".
You need to climb this mountain, the scenery ahead will be more in your eyes.
05.
There will be countless encounters in this lifetime.
But only a lover needs to be happy and evenly matched.
So, look at your dialog box. If it makes you sad, makes you sad, and makes you feel inferior, you might as well delete it.
Of course, don't send it anymore.
"Ling Chi" in feelings is nothing more than that.
maybe,You have loved it so much, you want to redeem it; perhaps, once you saw it for the first time, your heart moved from now on, and other people will never be able to enter your heart.
But love, only willingness and unwillingness, there is no improvisation.
If you feel that the other person doesn't care about you, if you have been wounded all over, then just give up.
The person who truly loves you will be more eager than you: to let you see that he is sincere to you.
Even if a person is taciturn, even if he is dumb and cute, but he will have endless words to his lover, an endless heart to confess, and an unstoppable love.
So, live a little more calmly and live a little easier.
You need time to calm yourself down, and you need to be more successful in the future.
You have to believe that there is always someone who crosses mountains and seas and comes only for you, only for the rest of your life.
.Text: Calm Fox
Picture: Network
Use words to cultivate your heart, and use poetry to cultivate your soul! Thank you for your attention!
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