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There is a saying on the Internet that it is difficult for a rich man to be a man without money.
Life is alive, there are places to spend money everywhere in life, sometimes a penny can really crush a man.
People in middle age, the confidence to deal with the future is mostly given by money. It is indispensable for a family to spend money on living expenses; it also costs money to enjoy life properly; in order to fight for a good future for the children, it is more necessary to continue to make money.
Everyone inevitably encounters ups and downs in life. When a disease strikes, money is almost closely related to life; when the career is not going well, if you have money, you will have the arrogance of leaving; and maintaining family and good Money is indispensable for your interpersonal relationship.
Everyone knows that money is very important, but for a middle-aged man, no money is not the greatest sorrow. Life without these things is the most sorrowful.
01: Health is one of the most basic necessities of life
People are always healthy when they are strong, and wait until they lie on the bed. Regret for not cherishing your body.
As the saying goes: the body is the capital of the revolution. If a person does not have a healthy body, no matter how much money he has, it is in vain.
Especially for middle-aged men, most of them carry a small life pressure,Once there is any disturbance in the body, life will be precarious with it.
Xiao Liu is a middle-aged man in his forties. He has no deep family background or amazing talents. He is just an ordinary man who runs for life.
Except for the New Year, Xiao Liu goes out early and returns to work almost every day. In order to give his children better living conditions, he has always struggled with himself.
There was a time when Xiao Liu accidentally sprained his foot at work. Friends said: "He has been injured for a hundred days, and he has to rest at home."
Xiao Liu butman He smiled carelessly: "What's this little injury? I just put on the ointment, and I can't stay at home." Xiao Liu still bears physical pain at work, even if the efficiency is slow, he dare not stop.
If it's not for life, who doesn't want to recuperate after being injured?
When an accident happened to him, those middle-aged men who said that it didn't matter were not stubbornly afraid of illness, but to live with weight.
Middle-aged men do not dare or do not want to get sick. In order to cope with the future life with a healthy body, they may soak goji berries in a thermos cup and bear the pressure of life alone.
Everyone who knows how to cherish his body is responsible for his life.
02: Personal connections reflect the competitiveness of a person
There is a saying: "Life is full of competition.Where there are people, the survival of the fittest is indispensable. "
This sentence is even more vivid in the workplace. Everyone who struggles in the workplace can feel the pressure deeply. In the workplace, compared with the middle-aged employees who have been employed for a long time, the newcomer Young people in the workplace have more vigorous energy and more active enthusiasm, and the two have invisibly competed.
Young people can spend time and energy in the workplace to fight for a future, this is entering the middle age. Something incomparable to human beings.
When faced with the scolding of the boss, the unrestrained young people may be able to fire the boss unrestrainedly, but the middle-aged people who are responsible for the life of the family dare not give up the job easily.
middle-aged men may face the risk of being fired with a little carelessness, and it is also difficult for them to change careers easily and start working hard from scratch.
life is a never-ending practice, young people in the workplace Middle-aged people rely on time and energy to compete, while middle-aged people rely on experience and personal connections to compete.
A middle-aged man who is struggling in society, if he does not accumulate his own connections and experience, he is still living.
Network is an indispensable thing for most people. As long as you are not strong enough to be indestructible, you will inevitably need help from others on the journey of life.
If you need food, clothing, housing and transportation, you can switch to medical treatment. If you have connections, you will be more likely to overcome difficulties.
The essence of networking is mutual benefit. The wider the connections of a person, the stronger their own strength. Middle-aged men who accumulate and improve contacts must know how to live their lives well.
03: Family, you can see how well a person is.
There is an old saying that goes well: home and everything are happy. Family not only contains deep emotions, it is also the basis for people to settle down.
once heard a story: a middle-aged man in a suit and leather shoes fell drunk on the street. The police recognized him as a famous local rich man, so he helped him up and said, "Sir, I will take you home."
Who knows, the rich man looked at the gorgeous villa but said: "That's not my home, it's just a cold house."
Why is home? Home is a haven full of warmth. Only a place with relatives and warmth can be called a happy home.
There is a man with a haggard face half-kneeling on the street. He is ragged and penniless, but with a happy smile on his face. Because he finally found his long-lost daughter, when the father and daughter hugged each other, the man cried out: "We finally have a home."
A warm home, no matter what age people are. All longing for the destination.
Xu Hai has a meal with his good brothers he has not seen for many years. He has made a successful career after years of hard work, but he is extremely envious in his heart when facing a good brother who has not succeeded himself.
When the two went out for a drink at night, the wife of the good brother would call to greet him, but his wife ignored him.
Xu Hai is a successful person envied by friends,As everyone knows, he also envied the happy family of his friends. Xu Hai and his wife originally had a very deep relationship, but after the two got married, he wanted to have a bright future in his career, which caused his time and energy to fail to take care of his family.
Later, although Xu Hai became famous in his career, he had no place in his wife's heart.
No matter how deep the relationship is, it cannot withstand neglect. Love also requires mutual management and care. Money is good, but happiness cannot be bought.
A truly wise man knows how to weigh marriage and work. They both know how to shine in their career and they also know how to run their own small family.
As the saying goes: "Golden nests and silver nests are inferior to their own dog kennels."
A man who owns a luxurious house is not admirable, but he can run a warm and happy family. .
If a man can regard his home as his home, and perseverely work hard for his family, he will definitely be able to reap happiness from it.
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