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Mo Yan once said that whether friends or lovers can walk together for three months is not easy, and it is worth cherishing that it can last six months. It is a miracle that can stay together for one year, and that who can survive more than two years can be called a confidant. If you are still there after five years, you should be invited into your life.
If you are still around ten years later, you can no longer be called friends. They are already relatives of each other and an extremely important part of life.
The only constant in this world is change. Times are changing, people's hearts are changing, and the person who will never leave you, whether it is a friend or a lover, is worth it. Take a lifetime to cherish.
is just a lot of things in the world, not black and white, there will be many intermediate areas between black and white, for example: many people love one in the name of friendship people. When it is said that it is friendship, it is no longer pure, and it is love that it is not full of love.
However, there is an essential difference between love and friendship. There is also a clear and clear boundary between men and women. If the two become ambiguous, they will not be far from deterioration.
If you have no feelings for each other and cherish the friendship between each other, you should say it as soon as possible so as not to cause unnecessary misunderstandings; if you also feel good about them, you might as well take the initiative and let the two of you The relationship between them goes even further.
If you keep doing nothing like this,Do not refuse or admit, let it go on, it will only lead to the failure of lovers and friends, after all, love and friendship can never be confused.
In the process of getting along with the opposite sex, if you are not sure whether a woman is enamored with you, you may wish to refer to the following points. From a certain perspective, if a woman allows you to cross the boundary, she acquiesces in her feelings for you.
One: In life, you are allowed to cross boundaries in physical contact
There has been a saying in our country since ancient times that "men and women are not married". , But in the process of getting along, men and women still have to maintain a sense of proportion and boundaries.
But once a woman is moved by you, the situation is completely different. In daily dealings, she may not have such a clear boundary with you, and will not reject or refuse physical contact with you, even if she knows that you have crossed the boundary.
At the same time, Xiao Shi has been getting along with her boyfriend as a normal friend before establishing a relationship with her boyfriend, but I don't know when this relationship has gradually changed.
She found that there are many things in common between the two, and it is difficult to stop once they start chatting. Gradually, chatting with him became a very anticipated thing, if the other party had something to reply late, she would still worry about it.
Only then did she realize that she was tempted by him. Fortunately, she found that the other party was the same. From then on, if the two are alone, if the other takes the initiative to hold hands or hug, etc., they will not be so repulsive, and even feel very sweet, and it will not take long for the two to determine the relationship.
There is a line in the song "Listening to the Heart": "I want to be closer to you,I want to come closer so that you can hear my heart.
A woman has been conquered and is completely enamored with you, and she cannot help approaching you. This is an instinctive reaction and the most direct proof of loving someone.
Two: Psychologically, you are allowed to cross the border in private matters
There is an English proverb that says that everyone has his secret, don’t try to get into his heart.
This sentence can be adapted to any occasion. Everyone has a small corner of their own, hiding a secret that is not known. No matter how close they are, they can't cross the boundary at will, unless the other party has no guard against you, completely trusts you, and proactively informs you.
Otherwise, any crossover of your boundaries will hurt the relationship between each other, and even lead to separation of the two lives.
once asked her about span5_span Li Ziqiu "You're not young anymore, will your grandma urge you to go on a blind date? What type of boys do you like? "
This question is very impolite, very lack of emotional intelligence, and obviously crosses the line. Not to mention that Li Ziqi is not familiar with this reporter, even if he is a familiar friend, what right does he have to interfere with her personal affairs? What?
Sure enough, Li Ziqi felt that he was seriously offended, and he directly replied, "What does it mean that the boss is not young?" You talked about this day to death.
After the incident was revealed, netizens accused the reporter of being unprofessional, and also told us how important the sense of boundaries between people is.
Everyone has their own privacy thing,Everyone will subconsciously protect these private matters. If a woman is enamored with you, she may open her heart, and if she doesn’t like you, it’s impossible to have a heart with you.
3: Behavior allows you to cross the border in money
Zhang Ailing said: Spending the money of the man I like makes me happy. It's not that women are greedy, but that women want to spend money to prove men's love for themselves.
Although money cannot be equated with money, there are many things that can be seen from the attitude of the other party to spend money for you.
If a man has no money himself, but still chooses to give you the best within his ability, it probably means that you occupy an extremely important position in his heart.
The opposite is the same. If a man is financially rich, but he doesn’t draw anything in front of you, either it means he doesn’t have you in his heart, or he has a strong sense of guard against you. Neither the former nor the latter is worthy of trust. .
This is also true for girls. If a girl is enamored with you, she won’t be so divided with you in terms of money. She allows you to cross the border in money, because in her heart, you are already her other half.
My friend Xiao Zhou and her boyfriend used to share roommates, but the relationship between the two gradually became closer, and they didn't care about money.
Sometimes when he pays his salary late, Xiao Zhou pays him first, and he usually buys vegetables and cooks, or gives Xiao Zhou gifts, etc.Gradually, the two became so good that they could not distinguish each other.
A woman allows you to cross the border in money, which means to treat you as your own person. If you also have a good impression of her, you might as well take the initiative to seize this fate.
From a psychological point of view, the production of love comes from the secretion of hormones. If you are emotional to a person, it will inevitably produce different physiological reactions.
And the woman who allows you to cross the line in the above three things, obviously treats you as a lover, seize the opportunity so that happiness will not slip away quietly.
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