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Hello everyone, I’m a sister.
Have you ever had such an experience: is good when in contact with someone, and after a while, you find that you "look away".
For example, if you have similar experiences, bad emotions, misfortunes in the original family, and the same situation, you suddenly got closer to each other, and then discovered that the poor people must have something hateful;
, for example, similar Values, both of you are pursuing your career. The other party has advantages that you don’t have, and you happen to be able to make up for the other party’s shortcomings. After cooperation, you find that the other party is very strong;
When you recover, maybe I have already paid a price for a "seeking off" relationship.
It's no use blaming the other person. You must know that he is such a person by nature.
Only if improves one's ability to "see people", will we not be "deceived" by people with the same characteristics again next time.
There are many ways and angles to see people.
Today, my sister came to talk to you about how to see a person's nature through "desire".
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Different desires,Different groups of people
Many people regard desire as "rich" and enjoyment. This is a very simple level, the primary threshold of desire.
Some people's desire comes from wanting to accomplish something. For example, Lei Jun, Xiaomi first has marketing and then products. The production of a young and middle-class mobile phone is what Lei Jun wants to do.
Some people's desire is to "become stronger", this type of "fear-driven", deep fear and anxiety. Only by becoming stronger can we realize others' awe of ourselves.
The above two kinds of people make money only incidentally.
People do not distinguish between high and low, but desires will expose a person's "sixty-six-nine-class".
People with advanced desires will explain every aspect of their career clearly.
If you want a high-level life, you need a more restrained humanity, you will not let your own desires go, and you will not pursue short-term benefits for petty gains.
People with low-level desires only have the thinking of "how much money can I make when I do this business".
Seeing short-term and medium-term benefits. If you don’t make money for a long time, you can’t persist.
Switched around and worked in a lot of industries, but they were all "monkeys moving to the valley". In each industry, only the skin is touched.
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Seeing a person’s nature from one’s desires, digging out one’s nature from a person’s desire _pstrong p1 _pstrong p1Don't look at what he has done or said on the surface, but infer human nature based on his "surface work".
The place where his ass sits is his truest thought. The ass decides his head, which is true.
It is very contradictory for someone who told you "I don't want to be a slave to money", but wakes up early every day and works as a waiter in a restaurant. It is very contradictory.
If you don't want to make money, how can you run around?
Lie down directly under the overpass, won’t it be over?
In other words, doing a career is not to make money, but to make a lot of people. Ren Zhengfei said yes. Ordinary people say it is hypocritical.
It is very simple to judge whether a person is reliable. It is the most direct way to see how many people are willing to follow him.
Instead of seeing what he did for public welfare and what nice words he said, wants to let people see everything that is public.
A person who has been doing things in the market for a long time is a person who is uncomfortable with the status quo and not reconciled to mediocrity. This also shows from the side that such people have strong desires in their hearts.
pays more attention to value exchange. If the other party is someone who can't bring value to him, he doesn't want to waste a minute.
Conversely, people with light desires are basically those with mediocre abilities and do not understand the "rules of exchange" in the world.
don't understand that everything in this world is obtained by exchange. It's not that they don't want to live a better life, but that they have not seen a bigger world and have no desire in their hearts.
There is another situation. There is no shortage of it. The family has not experienced the life of displacement. The original family conditions are average, but there should be some, and there are many. Most of them are middle-class families.
Even if I want more in my heart, I don't want to lack the level of stimulating desire. I have everything that I should have, and I don't bother to move.
In life, such people are still the majority.
After a long period of time, naturally the ability also deteriorates.
is old and can only survive in the ivory tower and let them compete in the market. First, they have no such ability and second, they have no courage.
Middle class is the most dangerous group.
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span28sp He has ideas, he has the ability to act, is a sales leader, and can lead a good team. I call such a smart person a wolf.
Wolves are the best snipers. They have a sense of purpose. As long as they set a target, they will automatically act around the target. They are self-driven players and don't need you to worry about anything.
They will always give you the results you think of, even beyond expectations.
There is also a bug in getting along with such people: the surface is glamorous and the sense of ritual is emphasized.
acts with great momentum and is a very good propagandist. His weakness is that he just tastes it, and can’t continue to improve everything.
often takes a shot and changes the combat style, which lacks continuity.
The wolf is not the most powerful. There are tigers on top of the wolf. The people who can really do things are actually pigs.
A man who pretends to be a pig and eat a tiger,It is the real great wisdom if foolish.
I would rather suffer by myself. On the surface, I am kind to everyone and always smile. In fact, I see everyone clearly in my heart. I usually don’t speak. Once I speak, it’s the key speech. .
Let others owe oneself, don't take advantage of it. If there are too many people owing it, it will eventually become a profit.
Someone pushes from below and pulls from above. Sooner or later, things will happen.
The above is today's article on the interpretation of desire. If a person communicates desires with you, you must learn to reverse his true thoughts from the side so that you can understand the person more comprehensively.
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