by Lele Those who are busy are long, and those who are busy urge themselves; the world is wide, but those who are inferior are self-sufficient;
In today's materialistic world, some people lose their goals due to confusion, some lose their original intentions due to their inability to restrain themselves, and some lose themselves by compromising their hearts.
However, there are still some people who can maintain a peaceful attitude, behave, and live alone. So how to achieve peace of mind, today I will share with you three ways of thinking.
01 Peace with oneself
The premise of peaceful living with oneself is to have a clear self-awareness. In psychology, self-awareness is also called self-awareness, or self, which is an individual's awareness of one's own existence, including the cognition of one's own behavior and mental state. Discover your own strengths, recognize and accept your own shortcomings.
To live in peace with oneself is often to find what you love, and to build your own value by actively making your own contributions.
peace of mind comes from the affirmation and belief of oneself,As long as we continue to learn, we need to maintain substantial confidence and inner peace.
Mr. Yang Zhenning is a famous world-class theoretical physicist , and he claimed that he won the "span7span interaction" together with the "span7span" theory. prize. However, this world-renowned physicist was repeatedly frustrated by studying experimental physics in his early years.
After a failure of the experimental instrument, others could quickly find the problem, but he was so anxious that he could not find a solution. After thinking about it, the wise Yang Zhenning found that he was not good at experimental physics and accepted his shortcomings frankly.
In the follow-up learning process, I found that I have expertise in theoretical physics , so I devoted myself to theoretical physics research, and finally achieved success with fruitful results.
A clear self-awareness is the core and the key to getting along with yourself peacefully. We can sum up ourselves through self-reflection, recalling success or failure, we can also fully recognize ourselves through the objective evaluation of family and friends, and we can discover our inner self through professional test questions.
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02 Refusal to compare psychology
Effective competition is conducive to personal progress and development.An inexhaustible driving force that can successfully contribute to growth. However, negative comparison is a manifestation of vanity, which is a kind of psychological obstacle, and it is easy for people to fall into a vicious circle and become impetuous.
Refusing to compare is our acceptance of life. When you realize that every life is not comparable, you will know that a good life is to know how to continue to achieve yourself, not to envy and envy others.
Advanced consumption seems to be the norm in modern life. Xiao Xu is a customer service company in first-tier cities. The job is relatively decent, and the monthly income is enough to support the life of just graduating from university.
During a lunch, my colleague Xiao Li shared with everyone a new bag he bought, which is a collection of friends purchased from abroad, and said with joy, "Our age, in terms of quality of life You can't treat yourself harshly, and try to be decent when you are decent."
Xiao Xu didn't speak, but after returning home, he focused on various purchasing agents and physical stores, and finally took a loan to buy a collector's edition bag. Later, because of the loan, Xiao Xu couldn't make ends meet, so he went to work while looking for part-time jobs.
accidentally found a part-time job to scan orders, but the good times did not last long, just made an order, all the money in Xiaoxu's bank card was stolen, and had to ask the police for help.
In fact, everyone's life is unique. Some are like a sea of waves, some are like a gurgling stream, and some are like a sweet spring.
We don’t need to be jealous of others’ lives, but to strengthen our own strength, to overcome negative vanity, and to refuse blind comparisons. If you have a hundred dollars, you will spend one hundred dollars, and store one hundred dollars of happiness,Don't try to compare the life of tens of millions of dollars, and the gains outweigh the losses in the end.
03 Be good with people God knows. Those who do good are like the grass of a spring garden, but they don’t see its growth, and they grow. The evil one is like a sharpening stone, they don’t see its damage, and lose every day. There is no way for good or bad.
Xiao Wang just moved to his new home, but due to circuit repairs, the community suddenly cut off power. Xiao Wang hurriedly found the candle prepared in advance. After a while, he heard a knock on the door. When I opened the door, I saw eight or nine-year-old boys. The boy childishly asked, "Auntie, do you have candles in your house? My house..." Xiao Wang answered decisively without listening to him.
The little boy smiled and took out the candle he was holding in his arms and said, "I have it in my house, and my mother said that my aunt just moved here, so I can send it quickly." Xiao Wang was very ashamed and moved. Then he often accompanies the little boy to the park on weekends and get along well.
Being kind to others is an important part of cultivating a peaceful mind. It is different from compassion, just like a kind of fraternity, but also a kind of heart. To be kind to others is to be generous and tolerant and not careless.
To be kind to others is to give charcoal in the snow without asking for rewards; to be kind to others is respect, integrity, and selflessness. Be tolerant to diversity, tolerance is a virtue. Sometimes understanding and tolerance of others is a kind of support and help to oneself.
's peace of mind will let us discover the joy of life, let us discover the goodness of the world, let us face difficulties and setbacks bravely, and let me rise to the top step by step.Do not be surprised, watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court leisurely; leave or stay unintentionally, the clouds and the clouds are everywhere in the sky. Encourage with you here!
Today’s topic: Do you think how far a person can go is determined by a peaceful mind? Welcome to discuss and exchange.
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