47-year-old Ms. Wang said:
I am 47 years old this year. I am just an ordinary rural person. My husband betrayed me 5 years ago. I chose to divorce because my parents are getting older and forced by life. I just went to work in the city.
I started working as a nanny only three years ago. In the two years before this, I had done cleaning, washing dishes, sweeping the road, and doing a lot of dirty work, because I didn’t have a degree. I'm not young anymore, so I can't enter the factory even if I want to.
Inadvertently, I heard people say that being a nanny is more profitable, and there is no academic requirement. As long as you can endure hardships and know some cooking and housework, I think I can do the job. So I went to a housekeeping company to study and train for a week. After I learned the basic knowledge, I got my first job through the housekeeping company.
The employer is an elderly couple. The old lady is paralyzed in bed. Although the old man is in good health, he has no patience to take care of the old lady. So I invited me to take care of their daily life. I can’t take care of myself, so I was given a salary of 8,600 a month. I was so excited at that time, because the work I used to do took almost three months to earn.
So I am more concerned about this job. The old man's surname is Li. I always call him Uncle Li. I only need to take care of his three meals a day. The most important thing is to take care of the old lady, because she can't move. I feed all three meals a day, and then have to take care of her urination and defecation. At the beginning, I couldn't accept this a bit, but thinking about the salary, I just endured it.
It’s better to get used to it. I have to help the old lady scrub her body every day. At night, I sleep on the sofa in the old lady’s room to prevent her from finding someone if she asks for it at night. Live in the guest room by yourself.
I did this job for three years. The old lady left not long ago. I thought I had to finish my job. However, I didn’t expect that Uncle Li wanted me to stay. He said that he would look at me over the past few years. Work, I think I will take care of others better,Saying let me marry him, money is indispensable to me.
I was quite surprised when I heard his words. Although I knew he was indeed rich, I felt that people like him were unreliable. As soon as his wife left, she wanted to find a wife. This made me more and more impressed by him. Difference.
I think I can make money by my own strength, and I don't need to be restrained, so I can earn money when I do things. I chose to reject him, although I know that my life will get better and better with him, but I am not rare.
Personal opinion:
I agree with Ms. Wang’s approach. You must have your own bottom line when you behave and do things. Don’t sell yourself for money. Although this kind of life will be good, you have to face other people’s strangeness. Eyes and gossip, it is estimated that no one can stand it.
Babysitters also have their own bottom line. Don't think that it is great if you have money, and it is a big deal that others will quit. Am I right?
Finally, I wish her a happy life!
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