Young and handsome, a man's capital, coupled with a bit of culture, it is easy to be overwhelmed, forget about oneself, and find North.
Life never gives people the opportunity to regret. If there is, the word "regret" is worthless.
Share this man's story.
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I am 187cm tall, graduated from university, and I live in the city. In our small city, talented and handsome young people with good family conditions are the key targets for daughters of each family on blind dates.
I don’t want to find someone early. I’m often forced by my parents to see this. When I see that girl, I can see a platoon every year.
My parents are very dissatisfied with my resistance to finding someone. They worry that I will pick the flower . I have to deal with the meeting. Every time I pay for a meal.
When I was 29 years old, I had a feeling for a girl who had only graduated from a higher vocational school. She was the one with the lowest school education and the worst family background among all blind date partners.
This is fate. Marriage cannot be stopped. I am tired of so many years of blind dates. For the peace of mind of my parents, we got married in less than half a year.
My wife is a gentle and virtuous woman. She is very satisfied when she marries me. I don't touch all the housework at home.
Soon, we have a daughter. My parents are so happy and take full responsibility for everything about the daughter. My wife and I can go to work.
someone else’s family has a child,The couple quarreled over housework. Our family did not have such a thing. I was thinking about how to have fun, and my wife wanted to clean up her own little house.
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Days are not salty or indifferent, maybe my wife is too virtuous and sensible, and I can’t find a rival if I lose my temper.
In the company, my job is to run the business market. I often go out to discuss business with the general manager. I have a good drinking capacity and often stop the general manager from drinking.
In the fifth year of my marriage, the headquarters sent a lady Zhang to our company as the general manager. The general manager asked, "Which colleague has a good drinker?"
Everyone unanimously recommends that I drink well, and also said that I often go out to drink with the former general manager and talk about energy.
Mr. Zhang told me, "I will go to see my colleagues tomorrow, and let me follow me." This time the wine bureau, I performed very well, and Mr. Zhang was very satisfied.
Mr. Zhang has been in the company for three months. When he goes out to talk about business, he calls me whenever there is a wine bureau. Mr. Zhang appreciates me more and more.
After drinking once, I learned that Zhang is 10 years older than me and divorced a few years earlier. Her son followed her ex-husband, and she was alone.
Zhang Zong is a strong woman in career and a loser in emotion. She told me that I looked a little like her ex-husband and was about the same height.
I also admire Zhang Zong's style as a strong woman, and I am willing to listen to her command from the bottom of my heart. She said that I was successful in business development and suggested that the head office would study and promote me to be the head of the business department.
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There is even more reason to go out for business with Mr. Zhang. I am willing to go out with this middle-aged woman.
After a business trip, she and I naturally came together. We lived together for three days. We seemed to be in love with each other.
As long as Mr. Zhang is on a business trip, I must be with me. It is also a good time for the two of us to talk about love. My colleagues in the company saw something and gave me all the opportunities for business trips.
My wife didn't notice it. She once felt a bit wrong because I was very good to her and took a lot of money home, so she didn't pursue it anymore.
After two years of this kind of life, it was discovered by my wife. The usually docile wife has a temperament like the sky, so she has to divorce and don't want children.
My wife asked me to clean up and leave the house. She told me about all the accidents. The final compensation method was money. She said that she would go to the company to find Mr. Zhang.
For the sake of saving face, and in order to get involved in the circle in the future, I agreed to leave the house cleanly. There is no penny on the salary card, so I went out cleanly.
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After my divorce, my daughter was still taken care of by my grandmother. I was devoted to work, and getting along with Zhang Zong became semi-public.
Mr. Zhang told me that we are 10 years apart, and it is impossible to reach the end. The discussion of the market peers has too much impact on the profession.
Chapter is always a strong woman, what kind of person has never been seen before, she thinks I am a rookie, like a little white, she can rest assured to get close to me.
When I was forced to go on blind date by my parents in my twenties, to get married, all I met were ordinary local girls, and it was the first time I met a strong woman.Attracted me strongly.
After my divorce, I spent two years with Zhang Zong. It was not until she transferred that I ended this alternative relationship.
By this year, I have been divorced for five years, and I am 42 years old. I am still single. I haven't looked for any more or talked about a girlfriend.
In recent years, I have been reflecting on the past, and the more I think about it, the more I regret it. After the divorce, the ex-wife remarried and gave birth to a son. It is impossible for me to look back for her.
It is impossible to be as honest as the ex-wife. The emotion of regret surrounds me all the time, and I can't calm down. Can only survive, and count as a day.
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Conclusion:
This person is like some men, as the saying goes, there is a "problem", but a strong woman must live with the newcomer .
Ask yourself, does he love Zhang Zong? No. Does Mr. Zhang love him? Not really. It is estimated to be a temporary emotional need, but also a temporary work development need.
This man was a handsome guy when he was young, with good personal conditions, a little complacent, and marriage was too easy, which caused him not to cherish.
Regret can not change the current situation, the lost wife can not be found back, and will not enter the marriage in a short time, this is the price of a man cheating.
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