The biggest change before and after marriage is to consider the problem more comprehensively. After all, as a member of the family, it should be so, and it must be so!
When one person is full, the whole family is not hungry. Wherever you go, your home will be there. At this time, all consideration is to do what you want and do whatever you want. This is a point-of-thinking. This time is very happy, after all, there is not much pressure and burden.
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Later, I got married and lived in a two-person world. Suddenly I discovered that there was another person who was a little different from myself. If you still follow your original temperament, there will often be conflicts in the family. Ever since, I have to force myself to think about the problem comprehensively. At this time, comprehensive consideration of the problem is a kind of tolerance.
Later, the child was born, and everything changed again. Suddenly found out that there was an extra (maybe multiple births) little meat dumpling in the house, and he was still moaning. The more critical issue is that if you don't talk to adults and don't want to talk to everyone, you know that you are crying...Sometimes I really want to throw it out, but I also know that it's just thinking about it. As the sacred animal grows up, he is also constantly thinking about how to make his family happier. Comprehensive thinking at this time is a kind of responsibility.
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During the period of bringing children, both parents may take turns to help at home. The old people’s thinking style, cultural background, education level, growth environment, life experience... are different, and it is inevitable that there will be If some small conflicts are not handled properly, there may be a "family war". comprehensive consideration at this time,It is a balance.
Before and after marriage, the biggest change lies in style, but the essential change lies in thinking.
Bless your family harmony, because the family is harmonious!
Can the above help you?
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