finished reading "Inferiority and Transcendence" this week.
If I choose a key word for this book, I will use " cooperation "; if asked what is the biggest gain from reading this book, I answer " cooperation ".
Inferiority is a manifestation, transcendence is a breakthrough, connecting the two, can make a person out of inferiority, the path to transcend oneself is the "way of cooperation".
Understand inferiority, the pulse is correct, "cooperation" is the prescription.
The book "Inferiority and Transcendence" follows the writing method of starting from the big to the small, first summing up and then dividing, the "three facts of life, the meaning of life" is the total, and the others are divided.
There is a finishing touch in the book:
"The biggest problem and goal of our human beings is: on the planet where we live, cooperating with our kind to continue our lives and the lifeblood of mankind.
In other words, it is an objective fact that we are inseparable from the earth, and continuation of our lifeline is our mission. Both of these are not shifted by personal will. Only cooperation can be achieved by ordinary people. Actions under your control.
01 The way of cooperation is the way of survival
There is a kind of bird in the world,I am good friends with the tiger, and it always follows the tiger to fly around. When the tiger opened its big mouth and rested, the little bird flew into the tiger's mouth, pecking at the meat scraps between the teeth, and became the "friend" of the tiger. This gave the little bird a name-the tiger bird.
The tiger is very friendly to the tiger sparrow, never devours it, and also deterred other animals from approaching the tiger sparrow.
In this way, the tiger and the tiger sparrow depend on each other and cooperate. Both parties have benefited and adapted to the cruel natural selection environment.
Isn’t that human.
After the summer of this year, the new crown epidemic has returned. The rampant makes everyone want to escape, but no one can find a space where they can breathe and live freely outside the earth.
my country’s anti-epidemic work has done a lot. It once allowed the people to be free for a period of time, but as long as there are cases in the world, there is the possibility of transmission. A mistake in one link will bring a series of spreads.
From the end of July to the present, the outbreak of the stubbing epidemic and the list of people who have been close to each other have warned us: We are living in contact with others.
What we can do is to unite and cooperate more, to jointly use the wisdom of mankind and fight the virus.
As the book says:
In any case, the struggle will always continue, but only those who cooperate will make hopeful and contribute a lot of struggles to truly enhance our common situation. .
02 The way of cooperation,It is the way to a smooth career in the workplace.
In the workplace, if it is a basic code of conduct to say that "everyone is responsible for each responsibility" is a basic code of conduct, then if you want to do your work well, "united and cooperative" is indispensable.
" Ideal City" is a popular workplace drama that hits the pain points of many audiences. When the protagonist Su Xiao was the manager of the business contract department of , there was a direct leader suppressing him, and there were employees below. Cooperate, even though I stayed up late to catch up, I still couldn't complete the task on time.
Actually, a person's power is limited, especially when completing large-scale tasks, without the mutual help of colleagues and the division of labor under cooperation, no matter how good people are, no one can achieve results.
Su Xiao’s career path is a bit bumpy. She is constantly struggling, and constantly launching new ideas, but at the same time, she is constantly plagued with various troubles, and fundamentally lacks some sense of cooperation, TV series I saw her smart and strong, but she did not take the initiative to open up to discuss ideas and seek cooperation with colleagues and people who disagree with her.
's boyfriend's uncle is even her deadly enemy, making her embarrassed everywhere. She is still fighting for a tooth, and what she says from her mouth is reasonable, but she is too obsessed with right and wrong, black However, the way to solve the problem is not the only way. Reconciliation and cooperation are also one of the ways.
The workplace is never a stage for one person. No matter how high an actor's acting skills are, there is never a stage for a person without a workplace. Don’t always think of yourself as a protagonist. A workplace is never a stage for one person. Don’t always think of yourself As the protagonist.
Although Su Xiao is a character in a TV series,The workplace outside the TV series is also calm. In our career, there will be big storms and waves. The spirit of cooperation must be a key factor in whether we can survive the storms safely.
"Inferiority and Transcendence" says:
If we want to solve professional problems, we must occupy a place in the structure of human division of labor and cooperation, and contribute our strength for the benefit of others.
03 The Way of Cooperation, The Way of Happy Marriage
In a certain area of Germany, there is an ancient custom that can be used to test whether an unmarried couple is suitable for entering the palace of marriage.
Before the wedding ceremony, the bride and groom were taken to the square where there was a big felled tree. They had to use a saw to cut the tree into two sections.
If they don’t know how to cooperate, the task will be nothing; if one of them works hard and the other doesn’t participate, they will get half the result. If they are aggressive, work hard in one place, and work hard in one place, then the two are a match made in heaven. . The
mini-game reveals the truth. German farmers have long known what the first conditions of marriage are. In fact, since ancient times, from abroad to China, the way of cooperation has been an important factor in a stable and happy marriage.
Qian Xuesen and Jiang Ying are examples of such marriages.
the era in which they lived,At the time of chaos, Qian Xuesen wanted to return to China and was put under house arrest in the United States. Jiang Ying accompanied him for 5 years to find ways to avoid the surveillance of American spies.
After returning to China, Qian Xuesen has been studying missiles for 30 years and has been under tremendous scientific research pressure. Jiang Ying used music to relieve his boringness and broaden his thinking.
Qian Xuesen once said gratefully: "It was Jiang Ying's influence on my art that allowed me to avoid thinking about problems, and to be faster and more lively."
The husband and wife support each other and each other Achievement, Qian Xuesen won two bombs and one star merit medal, Jiang Ying has also become China's most outstanding female vocal educator and world-renowned soprano singer.
Their story confirms this sentence in "Inferiority and Transcendence":
"Love and marriage are both sides of cooperation. This cooperation is not only for the happiness of two people, but also for humans. Interests."
written at the end
"Inferiority and Transcendence" is the pinnacle of work by the founder of individual psychology, Adler. It has been best-selling since 1932. More than a year.
This book discusses the formation of inferiority complex and its impact on individuals, as well as how to transform inferiority into the pursuit of superiority. The " way of cooperation" is scattered in the book, throughout, and healing A prescription for all kinds of low self-esteem problems.
Thank you for reading,I am Grid.
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