When the person you love no longer actively contact you, don’t rush to find him. This is more effective
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What would you think if your loved one stopped contacting you suddenly?
Maybe many people think,The other party is just in a bad mood, maybe after a while, he will return to normal.
So they have been waiting and waiting, hoping that the other party can return to their own world again, but often, they can only wait for the other party's request to break up, or the news of his complete departure.
Only then did they understand that all the departures were planned for a long time, and "no longer taking the initiative" was the first step.
We often find reasons for the other party’s inaction, trying to convince ourselves that he is really busy or in a bad mood, not intentionally.
Actually, when you calm down, you will understand that this is nothing more than we are deceiving ourselves.
If a person does not take the initiative, it must be because he does not want to take the initiative. Otherwise, he will appear by your side even if he goes through all odds and dangers, and he won’t make you so frustrated.
If you don’t believe me, you can take a look at the novel "A Letter from a Strange Woman" by the famous writer Zweig .
In the book, an infatuated girl has a crush on Mr. R for half her life, and once gave birth to a child for him,But even so, Mr. R never took the girl in his heart, never even remembered her face.
In the only three encounters between the two, except for the first encounter, the other two encounters developed further relationships.
Just when the girl naively thought that she had become Mr. R's partner, Mr. R, who was still affectionate the night before, suddenly left with an excuse. From that moment on, his true face has been exposed.
Mr. R told the girl that he would write to her when he came back and let her wait for her to come back.
The girl believed it, she just waited for Mr. R's return idiotically, dreaming about the two in the future, but no matter how she waited, Mr. R did not send any more words.
When the girl ran to Mr. R’s house anxiously, trying to confirm whether he had an accident, she found that Mr. R’s house was brightly lit.
He came back, but he didn't tell the girl. He used his actions to prove that a man no longer actively contacted him, not because of how busy he was, but because he did not want to contact you.
There are two deeper reasons, one is because he never cared about you,The second is to break up through cold violence.
Mr. R is the same for girls, and I believe others will be no exception.
Mr. R is a romantic person, but he is good at disguising, so that the girl who meets for the first time feels that he is extremely reluctant to love him.
But people like him will not stay for anyone after all.
He will be fascinated by the girl’s looks, and will do everything possible to bring the girl home and be extremely gentle to her, but when the two spend a night together and experience the pleasure of conquering each other, He will quickly withdraw.
He is like a scum man in reality, looking for all kinds of excuses to leave. He also promised each other before leaving, but as long as he turns and leaves, it is impossible to look back.
If it weren't for a girl to visit Mr. R's house, perhaps she would never believe it, then the affectionate and gentle Mr. R could treat her so cruelly.
But this is the fact, if a person really loves you, then no matter how far he goes, he will try to contact you. If he can't do it, and even disappears, then it proves that he doesn't love you at all.
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