The so-called mother-in-law relationship is originally a by-product of marriage. How can it be possible for two mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who have only interests and no direct relationship to live together peacefully in the same family for a long time, and yet reach the point of perfect harmony?
Therefore, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will see her mother-in-law for ten years, and her daughter-in-law for ten years. Most mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a bad relationship. The problem lies in the fact that the first ten years are to see the mother-in-law, and the next ten years to see the daughter-in-law.
Human hearts are mutual. If you treat others wholeheartedly, they will return you wholeheartedly. You have never treated others kindly, so how can you kidnap others morally and be kind to you?
01. The mother-in-law prefers the youngest son, and the two suites are all given to the youngest son. For ordinary people, no matter how many sons they have, they are not as good as the one they love. Especially this son that he loves, he also knows how to please his parents.
When she married her husband, Yang Xia was ready to endure hardship. Because my husband has two brothers in the family, he is the eldest, and there is a younger brother below. Her parents felt sorry for her and didn't want her to take this trip to the muddy waters, but Yang Xia was not afraid of tigers when she was born with a calf.
After marrying in, Yang Xia really understood that what her parents said was true. Because the in-laws are the ones who prefer the younger son on the table. Whenever there is any benefit in the family, the in-laws are the first to give it to the younger son. After the uncle's picking is finished, the husband can pick the rest.
Although Yang Xia is upset for her husband, her husband has undertaken all this silently, and is unwilling to quarrel with his parents over trivial matters. Even if Yang Xia was wronged by marrying, her husband just reassures a few words, and doesn't mean to reason with his parents.
If it is not for the demolition of the in-law’s house, 2 suites are divided,Yang Xia didn't know that parents could be eccentric to this degree. The husband’s house was demolished and divided into 2 suites. According to the distribution of ordinary parents, there must be two sons, one for each.
but the mother-in-law is different, not only did not discuss with them, but when they got the 2 houses, they gave it to the uncle as soon as possible, and let the uncle transfer the ownership to the name as soon as possible, lest they come back Scramble.
02. The mother-in-law gets 30,000 when she gets sick, but she can’t get the care of her eldest daughter-in-law.
. However, he only had a few arguments with his in-laws, and finally the mother-in-law made a prevarication on the grounds that the youngest son needed a wedding room even if he was not married. But since then, her husband has cut off the monthly living expenses of 2,000 yuan for her in-laws.
Without 2,000 yuan for living expenses, the days when the mother-in-law was free and chic, naturally it was not as good as before. But fortunately, she had some savings herself, and her uncle married and started a family after half a year, so her in-laws swaggered into her uncle's house, claiming that she would only expect her younger son to provide for the elderly.
The mother-in-law's eccentricity stimulated the honest and honest husband. But he doesn't argue with his parents, but rarely returns to his parents' house. Even if I had to go back, I only stayed for a short time and left soon. I didn't even want to eat a bite of the meal.
Although her mother-in-law is partial, but she does not dangle in front of her, Yang Xia does not matter. Until the mother-in-law was tired of helping the younger sister-in-law and brought the children to the hospital, the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had to become tense again.
The mother-in-law means that the younger uncle is busy at work, and the younger sister-in-law has a small child, and she cannot take care of her. She hopes that Yang Xia, the older daughter-in-law, will resign to take care of herself. After all, her illness will not be cured in a short while.
In order to persuade Yang Xia,The mother-in-law also pretended to take out 30,000 yuan in a high-profile manner, saying that Yang Xia's salary was not high anyway, and it was optional. It would be better to take 30,000 yuan and serve her well. After all, the daughter-in-law is obligated to support her mother-in-law, regardless of whether the mother-in-law has given her money or is kind to her.
Watching her mother-in-law want to take 30,000 yuan to humiliate herself, Yang Xia's long-suppressed anger suddenly broke out. She counted down what her mother-in-law has done over the years, and asked her back, you are obviously partial to your little son, why are you kidnapping me to serve you morally? I have never received your kindness, and naturally I have no obligation to serve you.
Yang Xia threw down 30,000 yuan and slammed the door and left the hospital. Although the subsequent husband interceded many times, she did not compromise. Seeing her husband running back and forth to the hospital company every day, she was also distressed. But no matter how distressed, it can't compare to the harm her mother-in-law once caused to her.
03, ten years to see the mother-in-law, ten years to see the daughter-in-law
between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it really is ten years to see the mother-in-law, ten years to see the daughter-in-law. In the first ten years, the key is to look at her mother-in-law's behavior. If the mother-in-law can help her daughter-in-law in the most difficult years, I think most daughter-in-law will be grateful and will treat her mother-in-law kindly in their later years.
But if the mother-in-law was in the most difficult years for the daughter-in-law, she stood on the sidelines and even favored the younger son, even the more generous daughter-in-law would not be able to swallow this breath. After all, the hardest time has passed. Who is rare for a candy you give occasionally?
The most rare thing in life is not icing on the cake, but giving charcoal in the snow. Having survived the most difficult years, who will be thinking about your coldness and ruthlessness when the years are quiet?
Today's topic:
What do you think of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?
Banxia Jieyu: Analyze the emotion of marriage,Teach you to understand the human heart!
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