"Daughter-in-law, why don't you change the lock and don't give me the key, I am not an outsider" "I am an outsider"

Introduction: Throughout the ages, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been the number one contradiction in marriage, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been difficult to deal with since ancient times. If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law stay together under the same roof for a long time, there are bound to be financial disputes. If the mother-in-law interferes with the daughter-in-law’s housework too much or disturbs the lives of the son and the daughter-in-law too much, it will also produce a lot of unnecessary contradiction.

Trust and freedom are important rules for family relations. A harmonious and happy family needs to treat each other with sincerity and show others sincerely. Trust is like a mirror. Once it is broken, it cannot be restored. Family not only requires trust, but also full freedom to get along.

Hungarian poet once said: "Life is precious, love is more expensive. If it is for freedom, both can be thrown away." This poem has been widely circulated throughout the ages, showing the importance of freedom to a person. sex. In marriage, freedom is also extremely important. Everyone has their own personal belongings and private space, and they don't want to be disturbed or touched by others. If your own personal belongings are touched by your mother-in-law, it will arouse your daughter-in-law's resentment and conflicts.

After marriage, the mother-in-law is completely exposed

is in this kind of trouble now. Xiaoxia and her husband Li Qing were together when they were in college, but since the university is in a foreign country, they only met a few times. After graduation, the two discussed preparing to get married, and their parents decided to meet at the place where they went to college. Li Qing's mother also bought gifts for Xiaoxia's parents, and was very polite to Xiaoxia's parents. Both parents had a good chat at the dinner table, because Li Qing’s mother had already bought a wedding house from them,So Li Qing and Xiaoxia will go to them to find work in the future. Li Qing’s mother said to Xiao Xia’s parents: "Don’t worry, my father-in-law, my mother, Xiao Xia will not suffer when she marries. If Li Qing bullies her, I will not spare Li Qing. And if you miss Xiao Xia, go to us. You are always welcome to play over there." Xiaoxia's parents agreed upon seeing Li Qing's mother say so. After all, the most difficult thing to do is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The attitude of the mother-in-law is so good, and it shouldn't be difficult for Xiaoxia in the future.

Xiaoxia and Li Qing began to prepare for the wedding. Li Qing loves Xiaoxia very much, so all the wedding matters follow Xiaoxia's requirements. Many relatives and friends came on the wedding day, and the wedding was also very luxurious. Xiaoxia's mother-in-law was also busy. Moreover, Xiao Xia's betrothal gift was 100,000, which was a very high amount in Xiao Xia's hometown. On the day of the wedding, the mother-in-law also wrapped a big red envelope for Xiaoxia as a change fee. As we all know, the change fee can prove the status of this daughter-in-law in her husband's family. Since Xiao Xia's mother-in-law gave Xiao Xia so much change fee, it proves that Xiao Xia's position in her husband's family is very high. Everyone envied Xiaoxia for having such a good mother-in-law. Even Xiao Xia felt that she had cultivated her fortune for eight lifetimes and only then had such a good mother-in-law in return. But she didn't expect it to be an illusion.

On the second day of marriage, Xiaoxia originally wanted to sleep in, but she was woken up by her mother-in-law at seven. The mother-in-law said, "It's seven o'clock and the sun is tanning." , You two can't afford it, get up and cook and do housework." Xiao Xia is dumbfounded, her mother-in-law was not like this before, how come she has changed her appearance now. The mother-in-law looked at Xiaoxia with a confused look and said: "Before I got married, I gave you face. When you marry into our house, you must listen to me. Since you are my son’s wife, you must take good care of this family. Look at this. What time is it, you can't get up to cook for your husband." Xiaoxia heard what her mother-in-law said, so she had to get up to cook and clean up the housework.

Li Qing can’t stand it anymore,Tell his mother, "What are you doing, I am not looking for a nanny when I marry a daughter-in-law." The mother-in-law said, "You actually help an outsider, do you still see me as a mother?" Xiao Xia heard her mother-in-law said she actually It was an outsider, very angry in her heart, but she didn't want her husband to quarrel with her mother because of their own quarrel, so she didn't hear it, and the incident passed like this.

My mother-in-law has been going to her son’s house to "steal"

Found that a lipstick is missing. That is the new color number of Armani that I just bought. Xiaoxia quickly said to her husband: "Is there a thief in the house? The lipstick I just bought is gone. Quickly see if there is anything missing." The two rummaged through the house and found that there was nothing missing except the lipstick. Li Qing said: "If you are a thief, you can't just take your lipstick. Did you forget where to put it?" Xiao Xia was right. Could it be that she put it in the wrong position and can't remember.

After a week, Xiao Xia went home and found that the newly bought bag was gone. Xiao Xia must have remembered it this time. Because that bag is very expensive, Xiaoxia has always placed it carefully. She told Li Qing that there must be a thief at home, and asked Li Qing to call the police quickly. But Li Qing felt that it should not be a thief. He called his mother and said, "Mom, did you come to our house?" His mother said, "What is your house? It's not that I spend money with your dad. Did you buy it? Mom was justified.” Xiaoxia was very angry when she heard that, she asked her mother-in-law, “Did you steal my lipstick and bag?” The mother-in-law said, “What is stealing? I just borrowed it for use, how come? It’s stolen? I’ll pay you back in a few days, so stingy.”

He hung up the phone. Xiao Xia thought things were clear, and her mother-in-law should not take her own things anymore. But who would have thought that the mother-in-law returned her bag and lipstick the next day, but there was a big stain on the new bag she just bought, and the lipstick was also broken. Now Xiao Xia couldn't bear it anymore, so she dragged Li Qing to her parents-in-law's house to seek justice. On the way, Li Qing said, "My wife, don't be angry. I'll help you say my mother, if you two quarrel again." , You are too much, the bag that Xiaoxia just bought was soiled by you, and you broke the lipstick." The mother-in-law said she accidentally got it. Li Qing went on to say: "How could it be accidentally done? You are your parents on purpose. You should not go to our house in the future." The mother-in-law said angrily, "You are still not my son. You actually helped one. Outsiders say mother." Xiaoxia heard her mother-in-law say that she was an outsider again, so she picked up Li Qing and slammed out the door.

My daughter-in-law retaliated and changed the lock secretly. The next day my mother-in-law went to Xiaoxia's house, but she couldn't open the door no matter what, and found a small note on the door that said: The lock has been changed. This time the mother-in-law couldn't get in, but she was anxious, but she felt that after all, it was her son and daughter-in-law who lived there, and she couldn't express her anger. So the mother-in-law endured her anger and called her daughter-in-law, and the call went through. The mother-in-law said: "Daughter-in-law, why don't you change the lock and don't give me the key? I am not an outsider." The daughter-in-law sneered and said, "I am an outsider." After speaking, he hung up the phone.