The relationship between people, like a magnet, the same sex repels the opposite sex and attracts each other. Therefore, it is easy for the opposite sex to get along with each other.
As the saying goes, it is destined for a long time. Nothing happens overnight, there will be signs before then.
However, not all cross-borders are good. Some cross-borders will not make each other feel more comfortable, but will cause both parties to be troubled because of the unclear and unclear relationship.
So, in order to avoid this from happening, you must learn to distinguish those bad out-of-bounds signals.
These three signals that cross-border relationships between the opposite sex are often more prone to accidents. If you do, please remember to stop the loss in time.
As a friend, doing love affairs.
Just as the Rainie Yang sings, “Ambiguousness makes people feel wronged, and there is no evidence of love.” The relationship between friends and lovers is the most tormenting.
There are always people, in the name of friends, but doing things that can only be done between lovers. However, this is not fate for you, but catastrophe.
After all, the other party has no plans to give you the status you deserve, and you can expect him to treat you well after getting you?
But there are such people,Like to deceive your feelings under the name of a girlfriend or good friend. You think he has deep-rooted affection for you, but you don't know that you are just a passerby of him.
Givenchy is Audrey Hepburn, she has cleaned herself up for a lifetime, and she has also guarded her life. The world praised him for his affection for Hepburn, but he only had him
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img I know how desolate and uncomfortable it is to face Hepburn, who is impossible to see, to hand her over to other men's hands time and time again. As a result, he didn't realize that he had failed his life.
To put it narrowly, if there is no help and perfection from Givenchy, there may be no Hepburn who has amazed the world.
In this relationship, Hepburn is undoubtedly lucky, but Givenchy is sad.
They are not lovers, but they have become the closest people. Some people like to carry this kind of intimacy that transcends love and affection as a family member.
But let me ask, a person has sacrificed his life for another person who cannot get it, even forgetting himself. Is this fortunate, or should I feel sad?
In my opinion, Givenchy is exactly the existence of a spare tire. And the cross-border between him and Hepburn eventually caused him to be punished for a life of loneliness.
I ignore my love, and indulge in seeing the opposite sex all day long, and it looks like I’m not wrong.
In the TV series "Yu Lou Chun",Uncle Sun's nature was completely released because of the green tea Taoyao's appearance.
Since his marriage with his wife, Sun Shijie, who considers himself gentle and decent, has always been full of dislike for his wife who was born in the Wu family.
And Taoyao's appearance made him naively think that he finally met true love. As everyone knows, what people value is nothing more than the wealth of the Sun family behind him.
At first, due to etiquette, he secretly met Taoyao. But when she learned that Taoyao was pregnant with his child, she didn't care about it anymore.
not only made things difficult and satirizes his wife, but also threatened Sun Jiafei Taoyao not to marry. Acting in this way, he was doomed to a tragic end later.
Seeing Sun Shijie ruining the reputation of the Sun family for an unworthy woman, his father Sun Xun directly expelled him from the Sun family.
How can you destroy your original happiness in the name of love if the other person really loves you? Unless, it is profitable for her to be close to you.
Therefore, Taoyao saw that Sun Shijie was about to be unreliable, so she hurried to find her next home. Seeing Sun Shijie is like seeing a filthy thing, avoiding it.
clearly he is a married man and cannot respect his wife yet. Regardless of his wife's feelings, she ended up being abandoned in the end.
It can be seen that no one who is in love will end well. The moment he decides to betray you, he is doomed to follow the tragedy.
is obviously a friend, but he considers himself a family member. To the opposite sex around you,Always the attitude of a master.
This relationship is more dangerous than "ambiguous".
You think that the relationship with her has reached closeness, but she always keeps a distance from you. And when you have other people of the opposite sex approaching you, she will come out and drive away like a demon.
If you want to refuse and welcome you, it is not right for you to take the initiative, nor is it right for you not to take the initiative.
And this blurred relationship will not only affect the development of your later relationship, but also make people who don't know the truth think you are scumbag behavior.
Looking at her, feelings are easy to handle, and you are like a puppet manipulated by humans.
Over time, you will have a day that you can’t stand. As a result, explosions followed one after another. By then, perhaps you would not even have to do with ordinary friends.
If this is the case, knowing that this will only destroy your relationship in the long run, it is better to be frank and clarify your relationship earlier.
In this way, everyone will be better off.
It can be seen that there must be a measure of cross-border between the opposite sex. Either give the name or clarify the identity. Otherwise, the end result will only be thrown away and let down.
No one is stupid, not always for one, ambiguous but unreachable person,Wait. There will always be someone else who will let you know that in addition to the present, there are people in the future worth looking forward to.
Yes, if each other is affectionate and crosses the boundary, it is indeed a happy thing to do. But if the other party just deceives your feelings, then the only thing that is brought by the cross-border is being used and dominated.
So, those who want you to pay more than their lovers in the name of friends. Don't hesitate, stay away is your best choice.
Otherwise, the entanglement to the end will only happen.
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