It is relatively easy for men and women in the world to call "husband" and "wife", but it is difficult to call each other "old man" and "wife";
leads It's easy to hold your hand, but it's hard to hold your hand for a lifetime; it's easy to say "I love you", and it's hard to say love to the person next to you from now on.
Love is not a whim, but as long as you decide to be with each other, you will never be separated for a lifetime.
But in real life, even men and women who have finally reached the white-headed may forget the original promise because they can't stand the test of the ordinary and long time, and discard the happiness that has already been obtained as dross!
When a man reaches 60 years old, what will happen when he has an extramarital affair? Generally speaking, even if you know how to conceal, most of them will have the following reactions. Obviously!
Hanging around outside the home
What is the magic of home and marriage?
is actually when you are busy and tired, as long as you think of such a place and such a person in this world, it is your thoughts and your warmth, you will feel at ease, feel at ease, and feel I have a bottom in my heart.
Any problems and fatigue can only be regarded as temporary, and there is no fear or fear, and even the surrounding air is filled with certainty.
It can be said that a happy and warm marriage can give people such a feeling: as long as the work and hard work outside are ended, it is like an invisible magnetic field is guiding, unconsciously towards home and towards oneself. People rushed to...
The man over 60 years old is almost retired. After exhausting most of my life, I finally had more time to rest.
Staying in a warm and cozy home, spending some ordinary and leisure time with your wife, this kind of life should also be a kind of pleasant and comfortable happiness.
But if you reach this age, men can't stay at home, hang around at home all day, and don't want to come back.
That kind of abnormality is mostly caused by the inharmonious relationship between husband and wife,The external person and environment are more attractive to him and make him feel more relevant, and the derailment means more obvious.
Tired of the "interrogation" of the other half
For old couples and wives who have been together for decades, love is not a vigorous vow, but a plain companion.
can always see through and understand each other's happiness, anger, sorrow, and sorrow. When their appearance is dying and aging, they can still get along and treat each other as they were before. You know he won't leave, he knows you won't change, this is the most precious, stable and lasting place of marriage.
But if a sixty-year-old man has changed his heart and has other feelings and choices outside of marriage, then the above has become empty talk for him and no longer has any meaning.
He has forgotten these things, and what he is thinking about is only the feelings he cares about right now and the woman who can always affect his nerves.
The heart has changed, the emotion has changed, and the behavior naturally betrays the other half. After doing this, his whereabouts and reactions will definitely be abnormal: a man may know that he has done something wrong, but he will live He showed an attitude of being quite bored with the "interrogation" of the other half.
Why? Because in his heart, he already felt that marriage was a prison at this time, fettering his body and mind. His wife's nagging and questioning will make him more hostile and rebellious.
Because her behavior may make him feel happy, expose happy things, and endanger his selfish desires.
In order to conceal and paralyze the opponent, it is the most trouble-free way to interrupt the opponent rudely with an impatient attitude.
Begin to pay attention to the outside
A man who has spent decades in marriage, I am afraid that he is too lazy to be too particular about his wife. For them, they are too familiar with each other, and there is no need to modify their appearance to please each other.
But a man who is over 60 years away in marriage,But there are traces to follow.
Generally speaking, men are not so good at hiding their feelings. If they have different intentions, they will always show some trouble in action and performance. For example, the most obvious change is to start focusing on the outside.
With a new goal, both men and women will subconsciously want to show their best side in front of each other. Use it as an attraction; use it as an expression of respect and care for the other person.
So, once wives find that their old man suddenly becomes more particular, they may have to be a little vigilant.
After all, an old man who has been too lazy to please his wife, what caused him to refocus his appearance? In fact, if you think about it a little bit, you can probably understand it. Apart from the opposite sex and emotion, there is no other more reasonable and normal explanation.
Concluding remarks:
Once a 60-year-old man has an affair, when he is with his significant other, he usually likes to have nothing to do with him.
Generally speaking, it is not pleasing to the eye how you look at your spouse. If you don't talk about it every day, you will find your spouse to quarrel, but the attitude of getting along with her is generally impatient and unsatisfactory.
In short, it presents a situation where you can't get along with the other party at all, and you will feel bored and upset when you look at it.
However, women may think that this behavior of the other person is because they are too familiar with each other, because they are getting older, their appearance is not attractive, and the family affairs are cumbersome and nagging, which makes men feel that life is boring, husband and wife An attitude that lacks novelty in the way of getting along with one another will show that you won’t be interested, but in fact it may be far more than that simple.
It is very likely that the other party already has other sustenance in emotions. When comparing two women everywhere, they will be more disgusted with their wife.
As long as the other party has the above-mentioned more obvious characteristics and changes, it can almost be concluded that it has been derailed! But I want to say one thing to this kind of man: I have cultivated for a hundred years on the same boat,Thousands of years of repair can sleep together.
Being able to be a husband and wife in this life may have used up all the luck of the previous life. Half of my life has passed, but when I am old, I have thrown away my loyalty and cherishment. Perhaps in my old age, I will face various unpredictable changes because of this.
I hope you at that time, do not regret and annoy what you have done!
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