Introduction
36-year-old Ms. Fang said: “I thought my husband was very loyal to the marriage, and thought he always loved me. I knew that he once said to work overtime and finally sent me the wrong message. It turns out that he has had an extramarital affair a long time ago, and his extramarital lover is not someone else, but my good girlfriend. When I learned about it, I was particularly angry, and then I chose to divorce without hesitation. Since then, I have never been in contact with my girlfriend. , Has also become an enemy."
Let’s take a look at this lady’s case.
36-year-old Ms. Fang
I am 36 years old this year. My husband and I have been married for exactly 10 years. We met at a party with my husband. My husband’s name is Ajie. At that time, I and My girlfriend Miaomiao went there to play, and then I met him. When he saw me, he hurried up to talk to me, then I ignored him at all, and then he attacked my girlfriend and wanted me through my girlfriend. At the time, my girlfriend thought he was teasing her, and then she also developed feelings for him.
It turned out later that Ajie liked me and didn't like her. She was very upset at that time, but as my good girlfriend, she couldn't say anything, so she had to match the two of us according to my husband's request.
At that time, I also saw that my girlfriend liked her, and I told her to give this man to her because I didn’t like him at that time, but my girlfriend said, “Forget it, what people like is that you don’t like me. What's the use of letting me, so I think it’s better to leave it to you, and you are my good girlfriend, why would I snatch it from you?"
When my girlfriend said that, I felt very relieved and also let me I understand, my best friend is a very good person. At that time, I vowed to be a good sister for a lifetime with her.
Later, she tried a lot of thoughts to match me and Ajie. Seeing my girlfriend so hard, I didn’t want to let her down. In the end, I also fell in love with Ajie, and then we two. Together too.
After being together, he treated me very well, and I would buy me gifts every holiday, so I thought he was a good man at the time.
And every time we go out on a date, we will bring my girlfriends, because I have been used to having a girlfriend everywhere, so whether it is to eat or go shopping, I will attract them. At first, my husband was very concerned because of me. My husband thinks this is a date between the two of us and shouldn’t date someone else, but I think my girlfriend is not an outsider, and it’s fun to ask her to hang out with her. After I had a partner, I would forget her. If I did it like this, she would definitely be said to favor sex over friends, so I don't want to hurt her.
My husband didn't say much after hearing what I said. Later, he also agreed that every time I went out, I asked a girlfriend to come out.
After talking with my husband for two years, the two of us were also married. When we got married, my girlfriend was my bridesmaid. At that time, I introduced a best man to her, but she didn’t want it because she felt single. Okay, there is no need to find someone. I feel very speechless for her thoughts, but he doesn't want to find me, and he can't say anything. He can only follow her consciousness. After all, everyone's choices are different. So I can't call the shots for her.
After getting married, my girlfriends often come to my house to play, and I will let them come to my house for dinner every holiday season. Because my girlfriends are alone and very lonely, it would be nice to live with us. Yes, although we became our light bulbs, we and my husband and I also know how to score, and seldom show affection in front of him, because I am afraid that she will not be able to stand it, so I am usually indifferent to my husband.
Later when I gave birth, my best friend took care of me in confinement, so I was very grateful to her at the time and thought she was the best best friend in the world.
I don’t know why my husband has been indifferent to me since I gave birth. Although I am usually indifferent to her and don’t care much about her, she didn’t say anything, but I found out half a year ago My attitude towards me is getting worse and worse, always saying that I am a rude person, not gentle at all, and that after I have a child, I don’t think about his feelings anymore, and I only focus on the child.
Hearing him say this, I think he was very unreasonable. Later, the two had a quarrel, and the two had a cold war for a long time.
And I also found that every time my girlfriend comes, she is very enthusiastic. She used to have big opinions on her girlfriends, and she didn’t like them very much. She always came to my house, but recently he likes them very much. To play with my girlfriend, sometimes she cooks for her to eat, and when she buys me a gift, she also brings a copy for her girlfriend, and the look in her eyes when she sees her girlfriend is very affectionate, and she always looks spoiled. At first I thought that my husband would treat his girlfriends like this for my sake, but I didn't expect that he fell in love with them, but I was kept in the dark without knowing it.
Later, after my husband frequently worked overtime, I felt that he was tricky, because my husband rarely worked overtime, but recently I worked overtime every night, and I didn’t come back until two or three in the middle of the night. , I never suspected that he would have an extramarital affair, but he always worked overtime so late, which always made me feel an ominous premonition.
It wasn't until one time my husband went to work overtime or sent me a message that I didn't know that he had an extramarital affair with my good girlfriend.
My husband told me that he was going to work overtime after eating. At the time, he asked him to be careful on the road. As a result, he just went out and I received his message. Originally I thought he had forgotten to take something to send a message to me, but it opened At first glance, it was such a message. You don’t need to think about it. He sent it wrong. He said: "Baby Miaomiao, see you in the same place. Come hurry up, don’t let me wait."
At that time, my whole person was bad. I didn’t expect him to be with my good girlfriends. No wonder I said they were so abnormal. They had a leg. No wonder my husband recently said that he had to work overtime every day. His so-called overtime is to date my girlfriend.
I responded sadly to him: "I am your wife, not your lover Miaomiao. I am too much to have an extramarital affair and divorce behind my back. I will never forgive you."
I hung up the phone directly, and then took the child back to my parents’ house. When my husband came back, he found that I was back to my parents’ house. He hurried to my family’s house and begged me to come back, but I didn’t want to see him. Then I let my parents Print out a divorce agreement and ask him to sign it.
He was kneeling in front of my house at that time,I kept begging me not to get a divorce, but I had given up my heart. If he cheated on someone else, I might forgive him, but he was a good girlfriend for cheating, so I won’t forgive him if I killed him. Later, he knelt. After a long time, I didn't get my response, and agreed to sign the divorce, just like the two of us ended this 10-year marriage.
Later, I also became enemies with my best friend, and also blacked out her contact information, and I also exposed her behavior, because I want everyone to know that she is a shameless person, she ruined my home , Then I ruined her, this is the fate of betraying me.
Concluding remarks
After reading the above case, let us understand fire prevention, theft prevention and girlfriend protection, so don't let your husband and girlfriends so much, and don't trust them too much, so as not to get hurt It's me.
Follow me and update different emotional articles every day.
.-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-