"If you are divorced, you are not a good woman"
"Sister-in-law, don't go, you see that my brother is paralyzed, how will he live after you leave?"
"Mom, you have to live with dad, stop making noise, I Will be filial to you both."
"Daughter, you are divorced, where will your home be?"
"Look, your husband is like this, and she also apologized, so give him a chance Come on!"
A sentence that pokes into the heart of Wang Jinyun is like a knife, cutting Wang Jinyun's heart. She is piercing and crying. It seems that no one wants to speak justice for a woman who is struggling with her life.
Wang Jinyun wants to break free and leave this home
Husband who is addicted to alcohol
I have been married for 33 years, and my husband has to drink every day and can drink 7-8 catties in four or five days. Liquor, his legs became paralyzed because of drinking, and he couldn't walk on the ground.
Eating and drinking Lazarus requires Wang Jinyun's careful care. If Wang Jinyun leaves this home, this "drunkard husband" may really be taken away by the wine.
Does Wang Jinyun divorce just because her husband loves to drink? Will you leave your children alone and ask?
Of course not. People who love to drink have one problem with being short-tempered, unable to control their emotions, and if they don’t speak in harmony, they will pick up things and smash them at each other, no matter who the other person is?
Wang Jinyun's husband is the same.
He not only likes to drink, but also often fights Wang Jinyun after drinking. Every day there is a "marital war" at home. The neighbors have long been familiar with this woman. Everyone feels sorry for this woman, but no one wants to persuade them to divorce.
Wang Jinyun propped up this home alone and built a two-story building for his home. The room was empty except for a bed, a TV, a dining table, and a few chairs. There was no decent furniture anymore.
She raises chickens and pigs every day, and goes to the fields to do farm work.Serve the paralyzed husband. When he is upset, he will hit him with something, whatever it is, he will beat her as long as he can touch it.
Hoes, bricks, sticks, chairs, etc., as long as you vent your temper, as long as you feel comfortable in your heart, he doesn't care if that person takes care of his wife.
Desire to get out of the sea of suffering
For 33 years, Wang Jinyun has endured enough. She decided to leave her husband and find the " In Search of Love " column to help them.
Under the lens, Wang Jinyun’s husband knew that he was wrong, and begged his wife to stay, "I will kneel for you, can’t I kneel down? Don’t go..."
The man said As she fell on the ground in a wheelchair, a painful groan came into Wang Jinyun's ears. She didn't want to care about it, but at this time the reporter pulled Wang Jinyun and asked her to take care of her husband.
In desperation, Wang Jinyun bends down skillfully to hug her husband and hug a man who is much taller than her. This kind of action should be repeated in life, It is a pity that the man’s legs are broken and his heart is broken.
The reporter next to "You give him another chance" matched it up. It was a young girl.
"I don't have a chance to give him anymore. I have miserable words. He is all hypocritical. He will not admit his mistakes. I will never be deceived again." Wang Jinyun was very decisive.
For decades of husband and wife, they all understand each other's conduct. A man’s mouth is like running a train, and what he says is totally innumerable. How can a woman believe him?
The husband desperately grabbed Wang Jinyun's hand, and once again begged her to forgive him.
"You are more poisonous than wolves, and you are more poisonous than anyone else." Wang Jinyun thought about breaking free from her husband's hand, but unfortunately her husband is stronger than hers. After breaking free several times, he did not break free. Wang Jinyun begged reporter "Help me." Bar,Help. "
However, the reporter’s attitude was chilling. Without help, Wang Jinyun couldn’t take off his coat to get rid of her husband’s hands. Those hands seemed to be a pair of "magic hands" that kept her from working. Falling into a nightmare.
This is a poor woman. In the end, she didn’t escape the family that had caused her to suffer for 33 years. She was also worried and afraid to endure torture.
Everyone was telling her "You If you can't get a divorce, give him another chance, and he won't be able to live if you divorce.
She compromised and accepted her fate. When she shook hands with her husband to make peace, it was a ironic thing. Why did a woman live? Why couldn't she escape that fate?
next In a wheelchair, I beg my wife to change her mind.
In the first half of their lives, under the urging of their parents, under the guidance of their parents, they lived as they hoped, because they were born with emotional people. Whenever they deviated a little from the direction, their parents would reprimand them.
finally waited until adulthood, When it was time to live for myself, I met the other half of my heart. After completing my studies, I got married and had children and became a housewife.
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wait until one day to find that his partner is not as perfect as imagined, but, "have a child", you have to bear it I forbearance, convince myself over and over again, and finally raise the child to an adult.
once again have the opportunity to choose,But still feel sorry for that man, this family. Finally reluctant to leave.
can't do without, starting from distressed
When a woman feels distressed for a man in the next second, it is difficult for you to make the decision to leave.
Wang Jinyun's husband fell from the wheelchair with his disabled body. When he kneeled, I don't know if the process was painful, but Wang Jinyun was heartbroken.
When her husband picked up a stick to beat herself, when Wang Jinyun resisted, she couldn't bear her husband being scratched by a stick. When she was merciful, she felt distressed in her heart, and she still left a trace of affection for her husband.
She once tried to end this wrong marriage in extreme ways. She drank medicine and jumped into the river but was blocked by her husband and relatives.
"Look at what your brother has become. Do you still have children"
"Auntie, don't do stupid things, uncle is doing things right."
A few words from others made her feel distressed and uncomfortable. .
A man who drank and bought drunk all day long, wasted his will, and had a grumpy temper was sad and cowardly, but Wang Jinyun's forgiveness once again contributed to his arrogance.
Wang Jinyun's husband never meant to "quit drinking" from beginning to end, and he did not mean to apologize from beginning to end. He just begged his wife not to leave. He would die if he left.
Wang Jinyun's husband is a selfish man who only thinks about himself, never considers his family, regrets Wang Jinyun, and will never escape the curse of "soft heart".
When a woman meets such a man, she must stay away and don't listen to others. It is you who are risking your life to live with him, not others.
Don't try to let others understand the suffering in your heart. You can change those sufferings. If you don't change, you can only close your mouth and swallow.
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