01 The world is prosperous, it has nothing to do with you
Maybe you are still off work alone, one takes the subway, one goes upstairs, one eats, one person sleeps People are in a daze. However, you can get off work alone, take the subway alone, go upstairs alone, eat alone, sleep alone, and be in a daze. Many people do not have themselves if they leave another person. And you spent it all alone.
In this world, it is cold and hot, sunrise and sunset, people gather and scattered.
When we meet, we are destined to part ways.
Parting is also for the next gathering.
The world is very prosperous, but you live a life at 3 o'clock every day, and you don’t have time to see the prosperous world! Maybe you have been working in this city for many years, but you still haven't been to many places in the city where you work.
Maybe you think that you have passed 365 days a year, but in fact you have only repeated it 365 times after 1 day. There are so many unspeakable sufferings in life that you can only endure silently by yourself.
Most of the excitement in the world has nothing to do with you."The flower contains honey, and the bee swarm will fly by itself." I hope that your destiny, as time and age grow, properly isolate the five desires and six dusts, and achieve the realm of comprehension, there is prajna The ability to handle yourself intelligently.
02
You only know how sad the migrant worker couple is when you see these pictures!
With various developments in rural areas, more and more rural people choose to work in the city
In order to save money, the housing conditions of migrant workers are poor. Often a board room can live several couples.
When it’s okay, everyone sits and talks about the housework, but is it really good for a few men and women to live in the same hut?
I have a friend who is a migrant worker. He said that in the mixed dormitory at night, which young couple is in love and makes sounds that everyone feels normal and is used to it _span4pspan _span4pspan _span4pspan
There is only a board outside the toilet without a door,Every time my wife takes a bath, I must be guarded outside the board, and I have to follow it when I go to the toilet, otherwise I will be embarrassed when I meet a man.
But for the sake of life, there is no way to live in poor living conditions. During the lunch break, I can only sleep on the ground.
One such group is admirable, that is, female migrant workers. Generally, migrant workers are strong men who do it, but some women are also engaged because of their helplessness in life. Such a hard job, among which the most admirable are the female migrant workers born in the 90s. Although these female migrant workers can endure hardships, there are actually some things that make them unbearable.
In fact, what I want to talk about is the problem of life. Because the life of migrant workers is relatively difficult, so now many migrant workers’ couples come out to work together, and the dormitory on the construction site has a few beds. These post-90s female migrant workers sometimes There will always be embarrassing moments, but in order to make money, these female migrant workers have no choice.
The conditions in these dormitories are very poor, usually separated by a piece of cloth, so there will be a lot of embarrassment in life, and female migrant workers born in the 90s are still young. So naturally I feel very embarrassed. When I sleep at night, I only use a piece of cloth to separate it. In fact, it is more of a psychological comfort.
The beautiful migrant workers born in 90 are actually very afraid of running out!
Many of the couples who came out to work together
They are like men,Sitting and eating together
After a morning of hard work, I often only fall to the ground and sleep _p imgp7p
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As the setting sun goes down, their brilliant smiles illuminate the dazzling brilliance of the working people at the bottom of China. The prosperity of the motherland is inseparable from your hard work. Like migrant worker couples.
Migrant workers build the most luxurious buildings in the city, but they never have time to enjoy this prosperous world. The prosperity of the world has nothing to do with you, but you have no time to enjoy it. The prosperity of the world is related to you because The prosperous urban buildings in the city are all built by you quietly and painstakingly! Thank you for your contribution!
03
The loneliness is the liveliness of the world has nothing to do with me
"Hello, you have used up 150 minutes of the package this month. Minutes."
This is a very common reminder message.It is also a particularly lonely news.
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When I brushed my knowledge yesterday, I saw a question: what makes you the loneliest sentence?
has a high praise answer, which made me unable to say a word for a long time.
That is a screenshot of a chat in which a stranger sends a private message to the respondent.
This respondent's own profile wrote "I used to have schizophrenia, but then we are all healed".
On the screenshot of the chat, the stranger Q&A master:
How can I get schizophrenia? Because then I won't be alone anymore.
answered the Lord, he just cried when he saw this sentence.
There are also topics about loneliness on Weibo, and a comment also made me sad.
She said: A is still me.That is my trumpet.
Adults, most of them look decent. Because their loneliness is often silent, they only dare to collapse in the middle of the night.
Moreover, even if you are alone, you have to keep comforting yourself. After a breakdown, you have to wipe your tears and try to fall asleep.
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2 she was lonely with me.
Watch movies alone, eat hot pot alone, sing KTV alone, go to the hospital, and New Year's Eve.
She smiled and joked that she was left alone in the big villa.
She also said that during that time, she really hated doing everything alone. Loneliness made her desperate.
I asked her, how did she overcome loneliness in the end?
she said,Loneliness cannot be defeated. When you regard loneliness as an enemy, you lose. Because loneliness is a natural attribute that everyone is born with, it is actually yourself. Do you think of yourself as an enemy? No way. So the only thing you can do is to get along with it.
How to live in peace with loneliness?
Xiaoan said that it is very simple, you have to face loneliness bravely first, and then accept it.
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Most of us feel helpless loneliness. In fact, it is a kind of loneliness that no one cares about.
I returned home after working overtime at night, and I was most afraid of the moment I opened the door, because no one was waiting for the lights; I took a beautiful landscape picture and wanted to send it to Moments, but I chose to quit without saving because I was afraid It’s been a long time since I didn’t even have a single like; I was very distressed when I was cooking. One serving was too troublesome, and two servings were too much to eat...
People as social animals,Always afraid of loneliness.
But you have to know that loneliness is not forever.
So, living in peace with loneliness is actually when loneliness comes, turning it into something you can accept, such as freedom.
Xiaoan said that when no one cares, she has many ways to entertain herself.
For example, she would sit in the shade of a tree for a long time, observing people passing by, guessing what others are going to do and how she feels; she would hide in the closet, open the recording software to sing, she usually doesn’t dare to click The high-pitched songs; she will find nice animated pictures on the Internet, and then copy them in an afternoon; she will put out all the beauty tools, free to play and create makeup...
She said she enjoys this kind of freedom.
People are creatures that live by subjective feelings. If you choose to treat loneliness as loneliness, then it will be unbearable; if you choose to treat loneliness as freedom, you just have to enjoy it.
Why should we make it difficult for us to endure loneliness, what we should learn is to enjoy freedom.
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are a lot of people like it very much agree with Lin Yutang for Lonely description:
is actually separated from the word loneliness,There are children, melons and fruits, little dogs, and mosquitoes, enough to hold up an alley in the midsummer evening, full of human touch. Under the willow shed of young children, small dogs chase butterflies in the deep alley. There is a lot of laughter in the prosperous world, but I have spare time. Children's fruits, cats, dogs, and flies are of course lively, but none of them has anything to do with you. This is called loneliness.
Solitude is the isolation and loss that has nothing to do with me. I also agree with it.
But what I like more is another feeling that my husband gave me:
Fragrance, flies buzzing, butterflies fluttering, and the breeze passing by my ears with the laughter of others. Although all this has nothing to do with me, the excitement and humanity of the others makes me feel extremely peaceful and at ease.
The world has nothing to do with me. I am happy when I look at it, so that's it.
- If you are clean enough, time is an hourglass, it will help you filter out some people and things. At that moment, the excitement of the outside world will have nothing to do with you. Everyone should treat their relationship with the world with a solemn attitude. People and people and things need fate construction and magnetic field equivalence. In this way, you are willing to pay time for each other.
- and all of this, after all, will be scarce,Willing, but worth cherishing.
- Most of the excitement in the world has nothing to do with you. "The flower contains honey, and the bee swarm will fly by itself." I hope you and my destiny will properly isolate the five desires and six dusts with the growth of time and age, so that you can reach the realm of comprehension and have the wisdom of Prajna. Ability to handle yourself.
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