Grateful to meet the destined person

Hello, this is Li Haiyang.

Recently, a child fell in love. He often asked some questions about love. For example, what should I do if I get bored in the future?

Or, if there is a quarrel, how to reconcile and other issues, so those of us who came over began to worry about all kinds of suggestions to children, so we talked about love and marriage.

Xiaomi said, I can also talk about my love and marriage stories, and talk about the family life of a lawyer.

On this topic, there seem to be many questions to say, and there seems to be nothing, because the years of family life are like this, composed of every ordinary happy day, but beautiful trivial .

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It is also Mr. Liu.

Speaking of which, this is the 20th year since I met Mr. Liu. We have been in love for two years and we have been married for almost twelve years.

Twenty years ago, I just went to university. Although Mr. Liu was the same year as me and one month younger than me, he studied for a year in the morning and was my senior.

Although we knew each other early, at that time, they were not each other's dishes, and we never thought that there would be an intersection between us in the future.

I clearly remember that Mr. Liu was rebellious, talented, and humorous at the time. Even scolding others, he would only be able to hear him by responding to others.

For me at the time, he was a very distant existence. I see him also looking up. On the one hand, he is senior, and on the other hand, he is indeed in a wider world than me.

Relatively speaking, Yang Ying and Mr. Liu are more familiar with each other. They both participated in the debate competition, and also guided the later debate competitions of the younger brothers and sisters.

The two of them have also become the most important gains in my reading time. One has become my life mentor , and the other has become my life partner .

but at that time,We each have our own emotional belonging. Mr. Liu has his own white moonlight, and I also have an ex-boyfriend.

Mr. Liu went to Dalian University of Foreign Languages ​​ to communicate for one year during his junior year. During the period, he would come back to see his girlfriend every week, sometimes he was awkward, and we also helped him think of many ideas to coax girls Friends are happy.

back then I thought he was someone else’s boyfriend, both affectionate and romantic.

And my ex-boyfriend and I were also noisy, we were separated and reunited. At that time, we always had differences due to job hunting and postgraduate entrance exams.

Later, Yang Ying and Mr. Liu each failed the postgraduate entrance examination. After a tortuous journey, the three of us finally became classmates.

Yang Ying once said that Mr. Liu, like and Jia Baoyu, would be very happy all day among Yingying and Yanyan, so that at that time we thought he was a friend of women, he knew Our thoughts are just a smile, and we often mix with us as usual.

Quietly, even now, he still prefers to get along with girls, and girls also like to be with him.

The three of us, our majors are different, but as long as we are after class, we will eat and drink together, play games, watch movies, and have a very wonderful time ,It was also at this time that we learned more about each other.

From that time, I have basically determined one thing, that is, if I can watch a movie together and eat together, I can live a lifetime.

If you feel bored while watching a movie, or if you can’t eat together, you basically have no hope of living together.

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At that time, Mr. Liu's bedroom was on the first floor. At that time, the two of us often walked to Mr. Liu's window to see him in the room, and shouted "Xiu Cai, you should eat." Mr. Liu promised that he would come out to eat with us.

After dinner, sometimes we will play games together. What is " Metal Slug", "Dinosaur Fight", "Three Kingdoms" and other arcade simulation games, and then they will be based on the games in the game. The role is commensurate.

Now that I think about it, is particularly happy .

and later,When writing the paper, Yang Ying went back to Xi'an. Only Mr. Liu and I will go to the library together, eat together, sing together, and publish papers together.

He made a lot of writing suggestions for my graduation thesis, and he also recommended a lot of books to me.

The graduation season is the breakup season.

In order to successfully graduate, we devoted ourselves to various complicated and trivial tasks such as revising papers, consulting materials, typesetting and proofreading, and preparing for defense. We have no time to take care of our feelings, so we did not unexpectedly and each other The object broke up .

Then I suddenly felt that we were so in sync. It would be great if Mr. Liu were my boyfriend.

Although I think so in my heart, but Mr. Liu made it clear a long time ago that he did not like my type of girl.

So I didn’t dare to express it. I just sang something like "So You Are Here", "Love", and "I Will". I don’t know when Did Mr. Liu notice it?

Only love and coughing in the world cannot be concealed. Likes a person, I think of him in my heart, thinking about him every minute and every second.

It didn’t take long for me to be so ambiguous. Because I was too tortured, I wanted to confess, and I felt that I would be relieved by speaking out.

My confession got his affirmative answer.

Zhang Ailing said, the happiest thing in the world is to find that the person you love happens to love you too .

Yes, the world is so big, it’s not easy to meet the people you like, and it’s even harder to meet the people you like.

At that time, I really felt that happiness was so dizzy.

However, we have not lived happily ever since. The reason is that I am too scumbag.

Later, my ex-boyfriend came to me to get back together again. I was afraid that the other party would not want to take a more extreme approach. I didn't dare to refuse it completely, and I kept entangled.

Mr. Liu told me, do you have to cheat yourself and make me a third party? I couldn't answer him at the time, I really didn't know what to do.

It’s because of my repeated actions,It dragged on for a long time, and it made everyone very miserable.

It was not until Yang Ying returned to school and dragged me out of this quagmire that this messy relationship finally ended completely.

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There seems to be no change in the time between me and Mr. Liu before graduation. .

The main reason is that I don't think I am worthy of Mr. Liu. Even if I start, there is no result. And he wanted to calm down because of my previous decisive actions.

When I was about to graduate, Yang Ying and I went outside to play. At that time, I wanted to go to Xi'an with her and start life again.

When thinking of leaving, I felt more reluctant to Mr. Liu's .

Some classmates also persuaded me that, seeing you have such a tacit understanding, you should have been together a long time ago, or you won’t regret it.

I know, but I also have my own concerns.

I think,If I missed Mr. Liu, I might not want to fall in love again.

But I also think he deserves a better girl. He should not affect his future because of being with me.

Together, I will feel guilty, not together, I will regret it. But it's all I do and I deserve to be tortured.

At that time, I was often in a daze, and I didn’t know where to go with my .

Sometimes I suddenly receive a text message from Mr. Liu saying that he is downstairs. I looked out the window, and I saw him standing downstairs in the dormitory, facing my window, wandering around the flowerbed, as if seeing me looking at him, and waved at me.

For an instant, I couldn't think of anything, so I started running downstairs, just want to see him as soon as possible, eat together, walk around together, and talk nonsense together.

That's it, let us all feel what true love is like, even if we are not together in the future, at least there is no regret of missing it.

In order to stay and stay with Mr. Liu, I told my family to prepare for the exam and continue to live in the school. Mr. Liu also used preparation for the exam as an excuse to visit me at school every day.

It was finally time when parents knew it.

My mother especially didn’t want me to be with my ex-boyfriend. Even if she knew it, she insisted on letting me leave Changchun to work and often let me go on blind dates. We often get very unhappy because of these things. .

But since knowing that I am with Mr. Liu, she often asks me how Mr. Liu is, how good is it to me, she will not interfere with my choice or persuade me to leave. Sometimes when I come to see me, I will leave some money for me to buy us delicious food.

However, Mr. Liu’s house is another scene of . After Mr. Liu's parents learned that he was with me, they didn't agree.

Because I am a girl from an ordinary county town, both personally and family are very ordinary, and I am totally unworthy of the excellent Mr. Liu since childhood.

For this reason, Mr. Liu often talks with his family. He has always been an obedient child since he was a child, and even when he chose a major in college, he followed his parents' advice, gave up his favorite philosophy, and chose law.

But this time, he insisted on his choice because I had a conflict with his family.

I have one more pressure, because this feeling of not being recognized by my family is too understandable, and I don’t want him to be embarrassed because of me.

I also thought about it,Once the exam is over, let go and give Mr. Liu a way out. He has the right to be happier.

Later, Mr. Liu's mother asked to see me. This frightened me. I asked Mr. Liu what should I do. If she lets us part, I should agree to her leave.

Mr. Liu said, my mother wants to see you because she agrees with us, so do you want to leave me?

I have mixed feelings. I can’t believe it. If it’s me, I might suffer for a lifetime because of this incident. Who doesn’t want their children to have a relationship with .

There was no time to prepare. We simply had a meal outside with Mr. Liu's mother (my current mother-in-law).

She is as kind as ever, but in my opinion she feels serious and nervous. Fortunately, she might have accepted me in her heart and didn't say much, and later persuaded Mr. Liu's father to accept me too. Until now, my mother-in-law has loved me more.

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, I will be able to sleep with each other every day, and I will be able to sleep every day Mr. Liu.

and Mr. Liu’s life is full of fun,It's not boring at all. Even after more than ten years, I see him, he is still the one I admire and like.

Regarding our relationship, a song by Liang Jingru " warm and warm " best expresses my feelings.

You can do whatever you want, I am willing to go, what you say, in the memory, satisfying the melody. It can be true, and I will believe what you say, because I trust you completely. Delicate liking, the thickness of your palm, and any difficulty feel hopeful, I hum the song, and you naturally take the next paragraph, I know, the warmth is in the chest...

original song The beautiful love sung here will really appear in my life. It turns out that a low-key, romantic, and sincere lover who treats me nicely will really appear.

I think it's really worth it to be with Mr. Liu in this life, I am willing to use all my good luck to exchange him.

*Author: Li Haiyang, lawyer, graduated from Jilin University Law School, located in Changchun, currently working in corporate business and civil and commercial litigation business. Now I am committed to improving the lawyer business, and at the same time writing articles that don't blow up, don't be awkward, and don't thunder.

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