Xiong Lei getting closer and closer to Du Xinzhi ? A recording of Yao Ce's father-in-law hides the answer.
If they hadn't heard this recording, many people would have difficulty understanding. How helpless was Xu's mother when she learned that Yao Ce was not related to her by blood?
Worry, but can't avoid it!
I remember Xu's mother saying in an interview: "I once thought, I told Yao Ce that they were twins, and there was another child who was living abroad. I hoped that he would not be hurt less." Thinking about it, but the wrong change incident is too big, you can't block all the news, Yao Ce will know about it sooner or later.
So they communicated with Xiong Lei's father. At 11 o'clock that night, Yao's father called and asked Xiong Lei's father if it was convenient? Can you come to the house.
Xiong Lei's father was startled, he thought Yao Ce's condition had recurred, because Yao Ce had just been discharged from the hospital at that time. After
met, Yao's father told him: " Yao Ce is not our own."
He was stunned and jumped up from the stool: " What a big joke, it's unbelievable."
Show him the paternity test report, and then discuss with him: " can you communicate with Yao Ce or your daughter first, I'm afraid Yao Ce can't bear it."
Xiong Lei's father felt a lot of pressure and thought about it Yes, I still agreed. After I went back, I sent a message to my daughter and asked her to come back.
At the beginning, Xiong Lei also thought that Yao Ce's condition had recurred, so he came to his father nervously. When his father told her that Yao Ce was not born to Xu's mother, Xiong Lei was stunned and wept.
's father expressed his understanding. , because Yao Ce was seriously ill, his parents were the only ones he could rely on.
From the recording of Xiong Lei's father, I feel that this is a real feeling. Who can accept a father and son who have been together for 28 years and have no blood relationship with him? Everything is like a big dream.
recognizes , which should be a very important node in the event of wrong change. Before, it was a harmonious family, and then there was a conflict between mother and son, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The reason is actually related to the position.
1 The conflict between Xiong Lei and Xu Ma is due to "victim psychology"
From a chat log, it can be seen that Xu Ma takes great care of Xiong Lei.
Yao Ce said that he ran out of money, and asked Xu's mother to transfer 1,500 living expenses to Xiong Lei. Xu's mother transferred it. This is just a fragment of life. The contact that lasted several years should not be the only one.
Because according to Yao Ce, Xiong Lei did not have a job after she became pregnant, and had zero income for 3 years. In those years, his life completely depended on Xu's mother and Yao's father.
Many people don't understand why Xu's mother is so kind to her, but she has to turn against Xu's mother?
In one of her essays, I saw this passage, which seemed to hide Xiong Lei's anger:
" When I met Yao Ce, he was in good health and liked to play basketball and sports, and usually even I don't have any , and I'm still an out-and-out workaholic. No one reminded him or told me to ask him to do checkup . I'm actually a little angry about this. I asked him, why didn't you tell me you have hepatitis B? If you tell me, we do a physical examination every year, and we won't find out so late."
Later, Xu Ma explained: "When Yao Ce got married, his body had already recovered, and he had undergone a physical examination."
You can read it here It is true that Xiong Lei did not know that Yao Ce had a medical history before marriage, and later she found out that Yao Ce had changed it by mistake, so the panic is definitely .
Because she has no income and has a young child, if she loses a backer like Xu's mother and Yao's father, she knows that she will not be able to take good care of Yao Ce.
So, she will cry, which is also a normal emotional expression.
In life, things that will make a person's temperament change greatly are often things that make it difficult for him to accept.
is like Tian Yulan in "Little Shede". She will feel hurt when she sees her mother being yelled at by her father. She has no way to be angry with her father, so she stimulates her biological daughter. This is in psychology Also known as " emotional transfer ", the purpose is to achieve psychological balance.
Xiong Lei couldn't leave Yao Ce. Yao Ce had a bad temper with her. From the chat records between Yao Ce and her, it could be seen that Yao Ce was not very satisfied with her.
Both of them had troubles to divorce, Xiong Lei still did not leave, which is enough to show that she also has dependence on and has no courage to live independently. Mom concealed her illness.
But he ignored that Yao Ce's illness was related to his own living habits. No matter how good his body was, he couldn't stand drinking a whole box and stayed up all night.
If Xiong Lei could reflect on himself, he would not have so much resentment, because life is not smooth sailing, and he is used to being dependent, and one day he will be awakened by reality.
2. Xiong Lei and Du Xinzhi are getting closer and closer. It is an instinct to sympathize with each other.
Since Yao Ce passed away, we have found that Xiong Lei and Du Xinzhi are getting closer and closer.
She is not shy about her support for Du Xinzhi, and on Mother's Day, she showed a close photo of the two of them.
And compared Xu Ma with Du Xinzhi, thinking that Xu Ma is not as kind-hearted and thrifty as Du Xinzhi's house.
From her attitude of defending Du Xinzhi again and again, I feel that she and Du Xinzhi have feelings for each other, the kind that cherish each other.
Because of she and Du Xinzhi had similar fates, one lost her husband and the other lost her son.
And there are similar experiences, Before getting married, Du Xinzhi probably did not know Guo Xikuan's family disease , which is also strange to many people. Faced with so many doubts, why did Guo Xikuan never doubt Guo Wei's life experience?
Maybe he has an answer in his heart, rather than saying that he supports Du Xinzhi, he has his own ideas.
According to reports, Du Xinzhi's father was a manager of a supply and marketing agency. At that time, the family conditions were good. She knew Guo Xikuan who was a soldier, and she also admired his brother.
After the marriage, Du Xinzhi's first daughter had poor physical development and , and she was also infected with the disease, so it was impossible not to be angry. From this point of view, Xiong Lei and she had a common language.
Although the two have only been in contact for a few months, their relationship cannot be deceived. When Yao Ce and Guo Wei took photos on their birthdays, Xiong Lei hugged Du Xinzhi's arm affectionately, which shows the intimacy of their relationship. Feelings like
have elements of mutual sympathy and mutual sympathy with similar fates.
3. People gather in groups and things are divided into groups. You don't have to force
to read the two reasons above, and you will understand that Xiong Lei and Xu Ma will never get together.
Because people are clustered together, and things are grouped into , she and Du Xinzhi are one family.
They have one thing in common, that is, they are very strong and refuse to let go of their vested interests.
The one Du Xinzhi refused to let go was Guo Wei. She compared Guo Wei to a piece of cake, and she resisted sharing it with others. In her cognition, she raised Guo Weixiao, and Guo Wei would take care of her.
Xiong Lei refused to let go of Xu's mother's house and medical expenses. She believed that she was Yao Ce's wife and had the right to inherit Yao Ce's estate. When Xu's mother came to ask for the house and medical expenses, she was tearing apart the family.
The enemy of the enemy is the friend, which is the fundamental reason why she and Du Xinzhi can unite quickly.
People have aura in getting along with others. When people with completely different personalities and temperaments are together, there will be conflicts sooner or later.
When Yao Ce was there, there was no direct conflict between Xiong Lei and Xu Ma, and Yao Ce conveyed everything she needed, which naturally reduced the conflict.
If she and Xu Ma live together for a long time, even if there is no wrong change incident, no house dispute, there will be other conflicts.
Therefore, I very much agree with the words of Prof. Chu Yin of : "In this matter, should not engage in moral kidnapping, and less human relations. We are no longer relatives. Come on, see you in court."
Since They have already torn apart each other's faces, then directly state the facts and evidence. No matter what, Xiong Lei will return the house to Xu's mother. As for who you are close to in the future, that is your freedom.
But there is one thing, people must be self-reliant and self-reliant at any time. Relying on psychology will only make oneself passive.
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