While doing housework, I accidentally saw my wife’s shopping receipts. I chose to end the eight-year marriage race

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Sometimes the relationship between a man and a woman is wonderful, and if we don't grasp the distance between them, we may have some ambiguous feelings that can push our relationship down the abyss.
Many people have many friends of the opposite sex, but it is difficult to grasp the balance between the opposite sex. At a certain time and place, it is easy to ignite the passion between men and women. When the passion passes, there will be endless regrets, and even some people A lot will be lost, and it will be too late to take regret medicine.
Mr. Wang's recent emotional conflict with his wife was caused by her best friend. Now Mr. Wang suspects that his wife has done something wrong to him and wants to divorce her. What's going on here?


Narrator: Mr. Wang, 33 years old
My wife and I have been married for many years, and our relationship has always been good. However, in recent years, our work has become more and more busy, and life pressure has become more and more intense. Occasionally, we also have bickering with .
Slowly, I found my wife was getting more and more impatient with my attitude. At the time, because I was so busy with work every day, I thought it was because of my wife's work stress.
Now, parents are getting older and need our care. Plus, there's a kid at school, so every day fights over all sorts of household chores.
Recently, I have noticed that my wife's daily expenses are increasing. At first, I tried to ask my wife, my wife said her parents body is not good. She buys a lot of nutritional supplements for the elderly, which is why she spends so much money.


After knowing this, I didn't say anything, after all, I am very filial to my mother-in-law and father-in-law. As an uncle, I can't be too young, in fact, they are also very good to me.
But then, I felt very wrong, her parents didn't do any physical labor before they retired.They have been in good health since retirement, how could they be unhealthy?
But at that time, I was too busy with work to have time to visit the old couple. Although I have some doubts in my heart, this matter is put on hold for the time being. In addition to spending a lot of money on
, my wife seems to be attending parties a lot lately, either as classmates or colleagues. I often work overtime, come home late, and often do not see her at home.
Once my wife came back late from a party drinking. I couldn't help but ask her curiously: "You didn't go to school locally, why do you have so many classmates?"
She said that it was because former high school classmates came to our city to start a business and contacted a few Local classmates, they all want to connect with each other. Come and go, so there are more parties.


Once my wife went to work. I just finished a project so I'm resting at home. When I woke up at noon, the house was in a mess.
Suddenly, on a whim, I wanted to help my wife with some chores , as my wife cleans a lot. I think my wife has been working hard all these years, and I want to surprise her. The
housework seems to be very simple. I don't know if I don't do it. After only half an hour, I was so tired that my back was sore. I'm really guilty when I think about how much my wife has sacrificed for this family over the years.
also often dislikes this and that, and often quarrels with her over some trivial matters. I feel more and more guilty. So I figured I'd have to surprise her tonight by cooking her a big meal.
but when i was cleaning the bathroom i found a shopping list in dirty clothes . The shopping hours and styles of menswear are clearly marked on the ticket, and they are expensive.


This discovery suddenly took me by surprise, and I suddenly wondered what my wife has been up to on a daily basis these days. I have never been reluctant to buy this brand of clothes, after all, the price is still very expensive.Introduction to

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Sometimes the relationship between a man and a woman is wonderful, and if we don't grasp the distance between them, we may have some ambiguous feelings that can push our relationship down the abyss.
Many people have many friends of the opposite sex, but it is difficult to grasp the balance between the opposite sex. At a certain time and place, it is easy to ignite the passion between men and women. When the passion passes, there will be endless regrets, and even some people A lot will be lost, and it will be too late to take regret medicine.
Mr. Wang's recent emotional conflict with his wife was caused by her best friend. Now Mr. Wang suspects that his wife has done something wrong to him and wants to divorce her. What's going on here?


Narrator: Mr. Wang, 33 years old
My wife and I have been married for many years, and our relationship has always been good. However, in recent years, our work has become more and more busy, and life pressure has become more and more intense. Occasionally, we also have bickering with .
Slowly, I found my wife was getting more and more impatient with my attitude. At the time, because I was so busy with work every day, I thought it was because of my wife's work stress.
Now, parents are getting older and need our care. Plus, there's a kid at school, so every day fights over all sorts of household chores.
Recently, I have noticed that my wife's daily expenses are increasing. At first, I tried to ask my wife, my wife said her parents body is not good. She buys a lot of nutritional supplements for the elderly, which is why she spends so much money.


After knowing this, I didn't say anything, after all, I am very filial to my mother-in-law and father-in-law. As an uncle, I can't be too young, in fact, they are also very good to me.
But then, I felt very wrong, her parents didn't do any physical labor before they retired. They have been in good health since retirement.How can they be unhealthy?
But at that time, I was too busy with work to have time to visit the old couple. Although I have some doubts in my heart, this matter is put on hold for the time being. In addition to spending a lot of money on
, my wife seems to be attending parties a lot lately, either as classmates or colleagues. I often work overtime, come home late, and often do not see her at home.
Once my wife came back late from a party drinking. I couldn't help but ask her curiously: "You didn't go to school locally, why do you have so many classmates?"
She said that it was because former high school classmates came to our city to start a business and contacted a few Local classmates, they all want to connect with each other. Come and go, so there are more parties.


Once my wife went to work. I just finished a project so I'm resting at home. When I woke up at noon, the house was in a mess.
Suddenly, on a whim, I wanted to help my wife with some chores , as my wife cleans a lot. I think my wife has been working hard all these years, and I want to surprise her. The
housework seems to be very simple. I don't know if I don't do it. After only half an hour, I was so tired that my back was sore. I'm really guilty when I think about how much my wife has sacrificed for this family over the years.
also often dislikes this and that, and often quarrels with her over some trivial matters. I feel more and more guilty. So I figured I'd have to surprise her tonight by cooking her a big meal.
but when i was cleaning the bathroom i found a shopping list in dirty clothes . The shopping hours and styles of menswear are clearly marked on the ticket, and they are expensive.


This discovery suddenly took me by surprise, and I suddenly wondered what my wife has been up to on a daily basis these days. I have never been reluctant to buy this brand of clothes, after all, the price is still very expensive.
obviously,My wife bought men's clothes, but they weren't for me. Later, I decided not to make a fool of myself. After a weekend of
, my wife said that she would go to the party again, and she felt very uneasy. When I went out, I secretly followed her.

She didn't go to hotel as I thought she came to a community. There was a man standing outside the downstairs unit. He walked into the building happily with my wife in his arms.
When I saw this person, my brain suddenly went haywire. I know this person. He was my wife's best friend before marriage. At the time, I suspected that their relationship was not normal, but I had no proof.
When my wife was first with me, I knew she had a male friend who also volunteered to report to me. But after we got married, he went somewhere else. I also didn't find a close connection between them, so I slowly forgot about him.
now that he's here, I'm really surprised. Coupled with the shopping voucher at home, I can almost understand that in the past my wife could introduce me to my best friend, but now she is secretly meeting him behind my back. There must be something between them.


My wife came home the next morning. I asked her why she didn't come back all night. She told me lightly that after the party, she went back to her mother-in-law's house for one night and asked me if I doubted her.
I wrote the divorce settlement all night, shopping vouchers on the table. When my wife saw it, she explained to me in a panic
"Don't get me wrong, these clothes are gifts for Brother Xu. We haven't seen each other for many years.
I just gave him some gifts."
I don't bother to argue with her, I Say to her: "Are your parents really in bad health? I just called them and they are traveling. Why did you sleep at your mother's house last night.
After hearing this, my wife finally stopped quibbling. , and after a moment of silence, she sat on the sofa sobbing. Finally,She told the truth. It turned out that her best friend had divorced and returned to the local area. He asked his wife to play outside because they were in a bad mood and they drank too much and were not careful ........


However, as long as there is a first time, there will be a second time. Unable to control themselves any longer, the two developed a secret relationship that lasted nearly a year.
Looking back at what has happened over the past year, I think it has touched my bottom line as a man. I am determined to get a divorce and get her out of my house. In the end, I asked for custody of the child.
Until now, I'm still single, because the child is still young, I really can't bear to let him get along with my stepmother. However, my ex-wife married his best friend the month after our divorce. Now I think about it too, and I hope they will be happy in the future.


Conclusion
Today's marriage to is not as strong as it once was. Many people choose to divorce because of various factors. Women should not maintain intimacy with the opposite sex after marriage. This should be respect for marriage.
But many people don't pay attention to their behavior and think that men and women can be good friends. But is it really so?
spent the night at a friend's house instead of going home, he explained that there was nothing between him and his friend, how can you believe it? The most important thing in
marriage is to ensure loyalty to your lover. Giving a gift to your best male friend is not a matter of principle if you communicate well with your husband at first.
But two people slowly develop into that kind of relationship, which is unbearable for men. I think whether in love or marriage, we should learn to respect each other.
Sometimes you think from the perspective of the other half. Would you calm down if the other person also got so close to the opposite sex?

Finally, she told the truth. It turned out that her best friend had divorced and returned to the local area. He asked his wife to play outside because they were in a bad mood and they drank too much and were not careful ........


However, as long as there is a first time, there will be a second time. Unable to control themselves any longer, the two developed a secret relationship that lasted nearly a year.
Looking back at what has happened over the past year, I think it has touched my bottom line as a man. I am determined to get a divorce and get her out of my house. In the end, I asked for custody of the child.
Until now, I'm still single, because the child is still young, I really can't bear to let him get along with my stepmother. However, my ex-wife married his best friend the month after our divorce. Now I think about it too, and I hope they will be happy in the future.


Conclusion
Today's marriage to is not as strong as it once was. Many people choose to divorce because of various factors. Women should not maintain intimacy with the opposite sex after marriage. This should be respect for marriage.
But many people don't pay attention to their behavior and think that men and women can be good friends. But is it really so?
spent the night at a friend's house instead of going home, he explained that there was nothing between him and his friend, how can you believe it? The most important thing in
marriage is to ensure loyalty to your lover. Giving a gift to your best male friend is not a matter of principle if you communicate well with your husband at first.
But two people slowly develop into that kind of relationship, which is unbearable for men. I think whether in love or marriage, we should learn to respect each other.
Sometimes you think from the perspective of the other half. Would you calm down if the other person also got so close to the opposite sex?