When a man replies "oh", there are two reasons

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I have seen a saying on the Internet before, that when is chatting with , the other of replies "oh", which will make people uncomfortable and feel perfunctory.

agrees. I have also met

. When chatting with friends, if you talk at length and seriously tell your friends about about , you would have expected something.

and the other party is very "uninterested" and responds with an "oh", which will instantly make you feel down. You will feel that your friends don't value you, it seems to be just wishful thinking.

It also happens in love, and this kind of thing is even more uncomfortable, so that you will doubt whether the other party's love for you is true or false.

However, after we have carefully analyzed this word, you will find that it is not entirely perfunctory. If in a relationship, when a man replies "oh", there are two reasons.

One, I don't know what to say.

Xiao Wei (pseudonym) is a very honest man. He never speaks eloquently in front of girls, so he has been single for many years.

Later, under the introduction of his colleagues, he had girlfriend , and his girlfriend is a girl who likes to talk very much. From the chat records of the two of them, it can be seen that the girl is talkative .

Basically, girls are talking, and Xiaowei's reply is "Oh" the most. Is this phenomenon like

because Xiao Wei doesn't like his girlfriend?

is not. Xiao Wei is so good to his girlfriend that he has taken his girlfriend out to play every weekend since the two were together.

When dating, he will buy some small gifts for his girlfriend. When eating, he will first ask his girlfriend what she wants to eat. Even when the weather is cold or hot every season, he will take the initiative to ask her what she wants. clothes, he bought them back.

The most touching thing is that every time his girlfriend is on her period, Xiao Wei will not let his girlfriend touch a drop of cold water. Even if he works overtime and comes home late at night, he will massage his girlfriend.

Many boyfriends and girlfriends are together, and they share the housework together, or the girls do more and the men do a little bit. However, in Xiaowei's love, he does all the housework, and sometimes his girlfriend wants to Help, he won't let it.

He is the so-called honest man who only knows how to treat his girlfriend well. However, when he is recognized as a good man, he is very bored and can't speak when he is chatting with his girlfriend.

Their chat records, you read from the beginning to the end, are basically some funny and humorous words sent by the girl. Except for some questions about whether the girlfriend has eaten and is tired, the rest is, what the girlfriend said, he replied Only the word "oh".

Either he doesn't love his girlfriend, or he is too honest and doesn't know what to say.

Second, I don't want to talk to you

There is no sign, Ai Ai (pseudonym) and boyfriend who have been dating for more than a year suddenly broke up. Because after returning from a business trip , she saw that her boyfriend was playing games with other girls, and she was very patient.

Then, she quietly flipped through her boyfriend's chat history and chatted with a girl almost every day.She flipped through the chat records between her and her boyfriend, almost all of which she cared about her boyfriend, and every time her boyfriend replied, there was only one word "oh".

said that this time she was on a business trip, she was out of town, and her heart was on her boyfriend. She knew that his boyfriend liked to play games when he got home from get off work, and even forgot to eat.

So basically, the first thing she does when she wakes up every morning is to send a message to her boyfriend to remind him to eat well, but her boyfriend either doesn't reply to her, or is impatient and says to her: "Got it, There are so many things to do."

When she took the trouble to remind her boyfriend to take care of herself, the other party was annoyed and just replied "oh" to her. At this time, it is not difficult to see that her boyfriend does not want to care about her.

, but has a kind of girl who is like a fool when in love, even though her boyfriend's " scumbag " behavior is already obvious, she still doesn't want to believe the truth and still wastes time on this man.

is talking about girls like Ai Ai.

She realized her "stupidity" when she saw with her own eyes that her boyfriend and other girls had ambiguous .

Girls should understand that in a relationship, when your boyfriend always shows impatience with you and only returns you an "oh", you should be vigilant.

At this time, he must not want to ignore you, because he has another person in his heart. Probably because you paid enough for his , or he is very "scumbag" by nature, so instead of saying goodbye to you directly, he only treats you indifferently.

But in any case, girls should protect themselves, and if they find that men are behaving abnormally, they should stay away, and don't waste time in vain. In the end, it is still themselves who will be hurt.

Concluding remarks

Love is the most beautiful thing in a person's life, and it cannot be "tainted".

However, in the process of falling in love, there are some people who have always done a good job. They can do their duty to their boyfriends or girlfriends and know how to care for each other.

However, although there are many people with good character, there is still no shortage of those who have no character in life. This is not only for men, but also for some women.

People who are in love often think relatively simple, it is difficult to see the essence of things, and it is easy to be deceived by illusions. Therefore, when there are obvious problems in love, some people are still reluctant to accept the facts and always think about using their own Gentle to change each other.

As a result, when the other party put the reality in front of him, he came to his senses. In the end, I regretted that I was too stupid in the past. I lowered my posture again and again to love others. In front of love, I was so humble and humble, but in the end I got hurt. In the case of

, we can't completely blame the person with bad character, and sometimes we should self-examine whether we have been avoiding many problems.

Just like the girl mentioned above, she sent a message to her boyfriend to remind him to eat well, but the other party was impatient because of her concern, which itself was telling her that there was something wrong with this man.

And she still doesn't want to believe it, she continues to give her sincerity to him, even if she sees her patient consolation, when the other party simply replies with the word "oh", she is unwilling to accept that he no longer loves her. fact.

There is a feeling that "the heart will not die until the Yellow River", but such persistent people are often hurt, and they will feel very sad, because you have given your true feelings.

When falling in love, don't be too "real", remember to leave a way for yourself, and when you break up, people will not think you are miserable.

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