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I want to slap myself in the face and wake myself up completely.
htmlIn my 120s, is inferior and is also confused.
The most frequently written question in my diary is:
Should I stay in a big city or go home after graduation?
Should I tell "I like him"?
Of course, there are no answers in the diary, no action in life, and everything becomes a moan at night.
Now I'm 25 years old (although I haven't had my birthday yet), and after the social beatings, I really want to wake up my 20-year-old self.
Therefore, , I am standing in the future 5 years later, and tell you about the pits I have walked through, hoping to help you who are at a critical point in life.
I am a person who is desperate for money.
Since my sophomore year, tutoring, hosting, handing out flyers, server ... part-time has filled my spare life.
Back to 's dormitory every night, the whole person is so tired that he doesn't want to talk, he can sleep while lying down.
This busy life continued until the senior year.
Suddenly one day, I found that I was about to graduate, but what should I do in the future? Stay in a big city or go back to a small county? Can the part-time experience be a bonus for me?
Question after question hits me and I don't know anything about it.
At the same time, a student sister in the next dormitory has successfully completed the postgraduate study;
another classmate has received an offer from international school ;
Even a little sister has gone ashore to prepare and is leisurely preparing for her graduation trip.
And my resume , which only had a part-time experience as a waiter, quickly sank into the more than 8 million resumes, like a stone sinking into the sea, and there was no echo.
Ultimately, I had no choice but to go home and unemployed.
Therefore, I hereby advise all sisters: Don't rush to make money in college, there will be more days and to make money in the future.
One of the things you have to do in college is to determine where you stay, what work to do, and be well prepared for it.
The American poet Frost wrote such a poem :
There are two roads in a forest, and I chose the less traveled one, which has determined the path of my life.
When you enter the university, you and your classmates will go to two completely different paths because of different study status and life status.
I hope you choose the less traveled one, because that is the path to a better life.
filter means that among the opportunities you can get, filter out the inappropriate ones and choose the best ones. This article,
, is also the "no turning back" lesson I have wasted the most bloody 3 years of time.
My first year back home, I went to teach in a remote school.
In addition to the inconvenient traffic and poor public security, the days of working in this school can be said to be very old.
There are not many students, and there are not many teachers . There is no pressure on grades, and there are not many inspection tasks, so I am in a low state and let myself "retire" for 3 years.
What struck me was that I saw a huge gap.
Sisters who graduated and entered an international school have already won the competition class award at the urban level. They always have the opportunity to communicate with top famous teachers face-to-face every semester, and their annual salary has soared to 200,000.
And I, have nothing and leave nothing.
At this point, I was actively seeking a change and moving to a better school.
For those sisters who are still debating whether to stay in a big city or a small county, the lesson of blood and tears tells you: don't let the lazy atmosphere spread to you who just graduated and are full of vigor!
Once you graduate, you will be sloppy, which is equivalent to directly pulling you and your college classmates up a notch!
You must choose a more motivated work environment, because the environment can make a person or destroy a person, if your will is not as firm as you think.
There is such a passage in "Saye": People are like this.
html When I was 120 years old, the boy in the public class really attracted you, but you didn't have to express ;
html When I was 122 years old, there was a chance for a competition, you really wanted to try it, but you were afraid of the competition. But people, so you didn't go...
I missed something, and it will pass;
The only two misses have become my irreparable regrets.
Maybe I was cheeky and confessed at the time, and the male god may become my boyfriend;
Maybe I was brave and tried, and there must be more opportunities for growth than now.
Now that I am 25 years old, when I meet a boy I like again, I must first consider the boy's character, family, and three views.
Because I don't have time to spend in a fruitless relationship.
So you who are 20 years old, please be sure to listen carefully:
No matter if you think you are good enough now, please pursue love bravely! Bravely seize every opportunity that you may seem to miss!
No matter whether you are together in the end, whether you get what you want, you will not feel any regrets in your youth!
Haizi said: You come to the world to see sun .
At the best age, be brave, pursue love, try and struggle. When you look back at a 25-year-old like
, you will definitely admire yourself at that time.
What I wish I knew until I was 25, you will know at 20.
I hope that when you are 25 years old, your looks back on , and your 20-year-old has no regrets.
hope to help you.
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⊙ Author｜Gao Gaogao
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