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Zhang Ailing once said: "You ask me whether it is worth it to love you. In fact, you should know that love does not ask whether it is worth it."
once, this problem has troubled me for a long time. Why do people love, is it bad to be alone? Eat alone, sleep alone, sing and read alone, watch the scenery alone, earn money and spend alone, everything is free.
If you fall in love with someone, you have to give some of your "good" to him.
There are some people, seven points for their lovers, and three points for themselves; some people completely lose themselves and give each other twelve points of love, but they still feel that it is too little.
I was discussing this with a friend once. A friend of
said: "The best love is actually freedom, no matter whether it has value or not."
agreed.
If you truly love someone, you don't care if they have value or not, but if you love recklessly, you must be together in life and death. Also, use your own efforts to fulfill the other party, instead of forcing the other party to do something for you.
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There is such a sentence on the Internet: The world of adults is always silent, and even farewells are silent.
The older one grows, the quieter one becomes. Quiet is not because he has nothing to say, but because he is mature. is the so-called, "the depth of water does not speak, and people are silent."
The deeper you love someone, the less you can express them. Even the three words "I love you" are redundant. If the other person leaves you cruelly, you will not complain, but watch him leave and give your blessings silently.
The highest state of love is not to be with me, but to "get together and disperse"; don't make too many promises, just keep silently.
loves deeply, silent also warms .I can understand your tiredness; you can guess my mind;
Compared to men, women prefer to talk nonsense. When two people get along, women often ask knowingly, and just want to know the "answer".
Women also like to doubt love , even if he often says "I love you", he will feel that he is lying. Maybe it's because women's sixth sense is stronger.
In fact, only when in love, men will show a very positive appearance , and a lot of words, once the love matures, the man will return to the original form - always silent.
A middle-aged man doesn't speak, which often has two meanings: first, he is really tired, and he has no desire to talk to , he just wants to be quiet, be alone, or lean on two people; Second, the pressure of life is very high, and a man lives very hard, but he is not willing to pass the pain on to the people around him, but undertakes it himself and slowly changes everything. No matter what the meaning of
is, it can explain one point, that is, "men take all the responsibility for love".
That irresponsible man will be furious, often complaining about life, blaming the people around him, and even he will give up on himself like a complaining woman.
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A woman needs to understand that the person who doesn't care about you is the one who loves you to the bone and can accompany you for so long.
The love of with vigor and vigor is as spectacular as moths to the fire , but soon will wipe out . Come fast, go fast.
love, need to last, not a beautiful for a moment.
There is an old song with beautiful lyrics, which is worshipped by many love believers: "The most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old with you, until we can't go anywhere, you still treat me as , the treasure in the palm of your hand."
Think about it, both of them are getting old and can't go anywhere, but they can still watch each other and regard each other as the most important "baby". Such love is truly unforgettable .
Woman, don't believe the person who always swears to you, his heart is like "June day", it can change at any time, maybe the next second will be a bolt from the blue. In
life, what needs to be plain, not always vigorous.
A female colleague of mine said such a thing. On her birthday, her husband never said anything, as if he had forgotten. When it was time for get off work, my husband was still working overtime.
The female colleague hurriedly ate dinner, thinking of her husband's "indifference" and couldn't help crying. Suddenly, she found a message and a small box on the desk. When I opened it, I saw a "photo of two people" inside. The message said, "Pig, you have grown up."
It turns out that men don't care about all the "special days", it's not that they have forgotten them, but they are so busy with their lives that they don't have time to create romance. There are only simple blessings, so that there are some different "ripples" in the ordinary life.
Don't blame a man for forgetting an important day.
When a man reaches a certain age, he really becomes helpless. He doesn't complain, it doesn't mean he doesn't suffer in his heart.
The silence of a man mostly represents maturity, rather than being old-fashioned, boring, irresponsible, unromantic, and understanding life.
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A smart woman will always accompany a man, grow old slowly, keep a distance from each other, and get along comfortably.
Men ignore you. In fact, they are already used to it. They are full of and , and they hesitate to say anything.
There are no two people in this world who can truly empathize. All that can be done is to understand.
When a man ignores you, you get close to him, sit together, and wait quietly for the time together. Really, don't nag, don't complain, don't blame.
said that a man does not cry easily.
As a woman, you should be a tear in a man's heart and feel the pain of life. Maybe, you can't give him too much energy, but your tenderness, your understanding, is the most precious gift.
There is a saying in ancient times: "A virtuous wife and a husband have few misfortunes, and a son is filial to his father." In this case, no matter how hard it is, it is worth it.
When you love someone, you have to say it out loud, and you have to stay together quietly.
remember, wait until the scenery is seen through, you have to accompany him to watch and .
Author: commoner rough food. The pictures in the
article come from the Internet.
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