What is the difference between friendship and love?
Although friendship (heterosexual) and love are related, they are actually quite different.
Although they are very close people, compared to love, friendship still has a good sense of distance.
It has been said since ancient times that men and women work together without tiring . In the process of getting along with the opposite sex, it is a complementary relationship and feels very comfortable. However, compared to the friendship between the two sexes, pure friendship is difficult to reflect between the opposite sex.
The reason why there is super friendship between men and women often starts from ambiguity.
Couples start out as friends, slowly get to know each other and fall in love, and finally they are happy.
For couples, the sweetness of the ambiguous period is like a boat on the sea under the sunset, romantic and comfortable.
For ambiguity, you can use this sentence: friendship is above the lover.
We all know that the relationship between friends and lovers is very clear.
and ambiguous is between the two, with a kind of meaning of seeing flowers in the fog. The ambiguity of
also adds a bit of hazy feeling to the relationship between and , adding a kind of inexplicable thing.
In fact, ambiguous is the beginning of heart .
Then, the cross between men and women, there will be three aspects of performance.
First: each other's call
Everyone is selfish, and has a certain possessive for what they like.
and often have a very strong possessiveness towards the person they like.
Then, in order to shorten the distance between and , the relationship between men and women is reflected in the title.
For the person he likes, it can be well reflected in the title. Everyone has the name
, and it is different in different people's mouths and in different tones.
Sometimes, the title can reflect the relationship between the two.
The relationship between men and women is reflected in their names.
Second: the frequency of contact
For couples, daily phone calls are essential.
They need mobile phones to promote the relationship between the two parties, but also to get to know each other better.
As for the relationship between friends, there is no need to contact each other frequently, and generally only greet each other when there is something.
In other words, only men and women couples frequently contact each other. If
is not a couple relationship, it means that the relationship between the two parties is an ambiguous situation.
Cross-border between men and women, often from the frequent contact every day, slowly become ambiguous.
Knowing and falling in love with each other unknowingly.
Many relationships between men and women are constantly heating up through daily chats;
Sharing interesting things in life and asking each other for warmth, the appearance of this situation is already a manifestation of ambiguity.
The closer the relationship between men and women, is actually getting to know each other more and more from the daily sharing.
Before two people become lovers, they need to be familiar with each other to confirm whether they can be together.
The third: the distance of intimacy
In psychology, it is said that for strangers, generally speaking, keep a distance of more than one meter;
For familiar people, keep a distance of half a meter to one meter; and for close people, keep a distance of half a meter to one meter. within meters.
Then, if you want to judge the relationship between two people, you can actually know the distance when you get along.
Especially for the relationship between men and women, even if it is a relationship of friends, a corresponding sense of distance should be maintained.
And the crossing between men and women often begins through an ambiguous distance.
In fact, when you are sure that the person you like is the other party, you should properly narrow the distance between each other and increase your heart rate.
Love is beautiful, no matter whether it starts as a friend or in other identities;
should determine their own thoughts, don't sway from side to side, if you like it, you like it, and you can't do incorrect things in the name of a friend.
Ambiguity is beautiful and mysterious, and it brings people infinite reverie. In this period, it is romantic for each other.
If you are in an ambiguous period, it is better to be straightforward and strive to seize your own happiness, hoping that everyone can reap their own happiness.