"About Su Cannon", people now really know how to play

Author: Beishu丨Host: Beimen

Source: Beishu Youyou (ID: beishu2016)

Two days ago, I heard a very fresh word: about Sucano.

Today I will talk about this new term in an essay.

As the name suggests, is about two people simply hugging each other and sleeping all night. No kissing, no relationship, no further intimate contact other than hugging, it can also be called sleeping.

Many people may be wondering: what does this matter?

To be honest, I don't know how to define such a relationship. It can only be said that it is sometimes difficult to define the relationship between young people today, so I won't discuss it too much here.

Closer to home. For those who are about Supao, what they are looking for is not a couple or a friend, but a "sleeping buddy" who accompanies them for a short time.

Before this, you may have never met, just chatted briefly on the Internet for a few days, or you may have zero contact and zero knowledge at all.

The only connection between you was the hug that night.

So, what is the pursuit of prime gun?

To this end, I consulted a few friends who have asked about Supao, and the answers vary.

Some people say that they have been single for too long, and they miss the feeling of falling asleep in a warm embrace, but they do not want to start a new relationship, so they choose Yusupao.

Some people also said that they have often suffered from insomnia recently, and wanted to try to see if they could sleep better in this state.

The reason why there are still people is that many words can’t be said to familiar people, but it’s uncomfortable to hold it in my heart. I just want to ask a stranger to simply sleep, talk about my heart, and then never contact them again, just talk to Shudong. The effect is almost the same.

Of course, there are also friends who simply love to join in the fun and pursue freshness and excitement.

No matter what the purpose is, their feedback on the juicy cannon is basically positive, and some people even told me: has a lot of juicing, it is an addictive .

What is the magic power of the Su Cannon, which can make people eat the marrow and know the taste, and even become addicted?

I want to say that, excluding other factors such as three views, morals, etc., the only reason that can explain it at the core is this: A solution to loneliness by one person.

In this society, no one can live as an island.

Although we always say that proper solitude is conducive to living more sober and free.

But I have been lonely for a long time, more or less will want a warm embrace, longing for a tender comfort.

And in this "fast food era" where the frequency of going to bed and eating is almost the same, the relationship between men and women always has a lustful color, which makes people feel bound.

For most men, the pursuit of going to bed is nothing more than to satisfy desires and relieve loneliness.

Sex is the ultimate goal, but love is not.

Of course, for many women, the desire for intimacy is more psychological than physical.

They want people who can talk to each other's souls and understand themselves spiritually, not people who are only interested in their bodies.

They yearn for hugs, but not necessarily for kisses; they pray for warmth, but not necessarily for sex.

So, about Su Pao has become a way for these people to resolve their loneliness.

Put aside the desire of human nature and forget all kinds of troubles in reality, just two lonely people hug each other for warmth, and two lonely souls give each other comfort.

You can talk all night long, or you can say nothing and just hug.

Compared with the entanglement of ears and temples, it only absorbs the most genuine warmth from the other party, which may make people feel more at ease.

Compared with the traditional "About", "About" is fresher and more advanced.

In its essence, it is actually an act of seeking solace and dispelling loneliness.

When you lie on the same bed, ignore the hustle and bustle of the outside world, and focus only on hugging the person in front of you. The mind can get a moment of tranquility, and the body can get a night of relaxation.

This is probably the most fascinating thing about Su Cannon.

However, realistically speaking, a lot of plain guns will inevitably develop into meat guns at the end of the appointment, that is, a substantive relationship has occurred.

Because it is always easy to let go of those who have an intimate relationship with them, and hugging is also a kind of intimacy.

In the beginning, you just want a hug; later, you want to ask for a kiss; and later, you want to have more in-depth contact.

Food and sex are also human nature, so don't be ashamed to mention it.

is just for you to remember, whether it is a simple affair or develops into other relationships, the first thing you have to do is: keep your eyes open and recognize the true face of the other party.

If you just want to find a "sleepmate for a night", but you encounter someone who pretends to be a "sleeping buddy", but who does something to you when you meet, remember to stop in time and don't go against yourself 's heart.

Some people may conspire against your body,

Some people may have infectious diseases on their bodies,

Some people even try to extort you in this way... trap.

Finally, I want to say that everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, and no one has a position to accuse you of this.

I just have to persuade you: fast food is delicious, but greed for too much is bound to fail.

Whether it's sleeping or having sex, find the right person.

At the same time, please remember: the rest of your life is long, don’t panic; be serious and go to bed.

It is not easy to insist on originality every day. If you like this article, remember [ like and forward ] , Uncle Bei wishes you a good dream.

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