"28 years of life exchange" If someone did not deliberately "sneak exchange", then the families related to this incident are all victims.
Xu Min and his wife went bankrupt in order to see a doctor for Yao Ce, and they also had a lot of foreign debts.
The most important thing is that when I was a child, I saw that the older child was not my own. When I saw my own son for the first time, he was already 28 years old. How many 28 years can there be in life? Who doesn't want to watch their children grow up little by little, and time can't be turned back. Although this kind of pain is meaningless, it can't help but make my heart sad.
Du Xinzhi and his wife are also one of the biggest victims (on the premise that there is no secret exchange), the white-haired person sends the black-haired person, life is a great tragedy, raising Guo Wei as an adult, all parents know that raising a child is a How difficult it is, when I was in my sixtieth year, and when I was about to need Guo Wei to serve me, I told myself that Guo Wei was not his own son, brought his own son who had liver cancer to him, and watched his own son pass away, very sad. .
"28 Years of Life Swap" protagonist: Guo Wei. Growing up like a normal child, he should have lived the good life that Yao Ce lived as a child, and he should have gathered thousands of pets, because if he changed his life by mistake, he would become the backbone of the family early. If there was no mistake, Guo Wei would be better than now. A lot of wealth, how happy and happy to live with Xu Min and his wife, but there is no "if". Another protagonist of
"28 Years of Life Swap": Yao Ce. Before I was 30 years old, I suffered from liver cancer and passed away . There is nothing to be afraid of in life, old age, sickness and death. When I die, I have too many regrets, too many worries, and too many things I want to know that have not come to fruition.
As Yao Ce said, death is not scary, what is scary is that it will take a year for the truth to come out, and he will not be able to live at this point. This is the most scary thing.
After Yao Ce left, he left behind Xiong Lei mother and son, one middle-aged man lost his husband, the other teenager lost his father, orphans and widowed mothers, how desolate.
So Xiong Lei's mother and son should be the most unfortunate in this incident. What other people lost was only money, time or company, but what their mother and son lost was Yao Ce.
We should have sympathy for Xiong Lei's experience, and we should have compassion for their mother and son. This is how the incident developed at the beginning.
But now, people's sympathy for Xiong Lei has gradually receded, and in exchange is "disgust".
Xiong Lei first made shocking when netizen uncovered her pre-marital life.
We can see from the "materials" picked up by netizens that Xiong Lei was not an ordinary girl in his early years. Before marriage, Xiong Lei was very "social". He started smoking, drinking, tattooing, and clubbing in his early 20s.
Yao Ce is also a frequent visitor to the bar , and they met at the bar.
Xiong Lei used to work in the Maternity and Child Health Hospital. Such hospitals are very stable jobs and can be said to be "iron rice bowls", but for some unknown reason, Xiong Lei was expelled from the hospital. This must be a major fault. Otherwise, such a hospital will not fire employees, and ordinary leaders do not have the right to fire employees. After the "material" like
was exposed by netizens, Xiong Lei's image plummeted instantly. Who would like such a person? When Xiong Lei and Yao Ce married , Xu Min and his wife resolutely disagreed, and they did not even let Xiong Lei enter the house, but Yao Ce insisted on marrying Xiong Lei, and after more than a year, Xu Min and his wife agreed. In order to prevent them from getting married, Xu Min also told Xiong Lei about Yao Ce's condition, so Xu Min did not conceal Yao Ce's condition from Xiong Lei, nor did he "deceive the marriage".
But after Xiong Lei and Yao Ce got married, Xu Min was still very good to Xiong Lei. It can be seen that Xu Min is not a bad mother-in-law, but she is her own when she arrives at Yao's house.
Xiong Lei himself said that Xu Min loves himself and Yao Ce very much, even if a mosquito bites, it will feel distressed, Xiong Lei's credit card is returned by Xu Min, and this is what Xiong himself said.
Later, Xu Min and Du Xinzhi had a falling out, and Xiong Lei immediately joined Du Xinzhi and publicly slandered Xu Min more than once, saying that Xu Min was going to force Yao Ce to wait, and said a lot of bad things about Xu Min, which made her image fall again A big chunk.
recently got into trouble with Xu Min over the Jiujiang real estate issue, leaving Xiong Lei's image completely lost.
Xiong Lei has said a lot of things that can't be rounded up. For example, she said that Xu Min never thought of "cutting the liver to save the child", but Yao Ce had already said that Xu Min was going to cut the liver a long time ago. When there was rescue, Xu Min knelt down to the doctor and immediately said: Cut my liver. Yao Ce originally did not want Xu Min to cut his liver, but Xu Min had to cut his liver to save his son. This is what Yao Ce said.
Xiong Lei also told the media that Xu Min spent less than 100,000 yuan for Yao Ce's hospitalization, Xu Min went bankrupt because of Yao Ce's illness, and owed hundreds of thousands of foreign debts. You said that Yao Ce spent less than 100,000 yuan, how is it possible?
Xiong Lei is now holding the house and the hospital in Jiujiang to compensate Yao Ce. These are what Yao Ce promised to Xu Min during his lifetime. At that time, Yao Ce was the owner of these properties , and there are videos to prove it. But now that Yao Ce passed away, Xiong Lei took it all in his own hands.
I don't know if the video I can see can be regarded as Yao Celi's will. If so, then the court of these assets will also be awarded to Xu Min.
Guo Xikuan once said Yao Celi's oral will to give the property to Xiong Lei, but this is just what they said, there is no evidence Yao Ce said such a thing, there is no video or recording.
Xiong Lei now has two suites, a car, and compensation from the hospital. Xu Min and his wife have nothing now. They are renting an apartment and have hundreds of thousands of foreign debts.
Guo Wei now plans to return to Jiujiang to live there. Given Xu Min's current situation, she really can't help much, but if Xiong Lei can give Xu Min the compensation for the Jiujiang house and the hospital's medical expenses, he will definitely leave. Guo Wei's family of four took a big step back to Jiujiang.
The house in Jiujiang was bought and renovated by Xu Min and his wife, and the loan has always been repaid by Xu Min and his wife. She originally bought the house for her own son, so whoever is the son should own the house. Who.
The compensation from the hospital should be paid to Xu Min, because Xu Min paid for Yao Ce's medical treatment. Du Xinzhi and Xiong Lei did not pay much. They raised a lot of money through online crowdfunding, and they paid back Yao Ce died before the flowers were finished.
Xu Min also borrowed hundreds of thousands of foreign debts for Yao Ce to see a doctor. Anyway, Xiong Lei wants Xu Min to pay back these foreign debts. You should not give any money for this money that should be paid to Xu Min. , this is too much to say.
Xiong Lei also mentioned Xu Min in a recent article, which is all "bad words". The purpose of the article is obvious: to make people lose their sympathy for Xu Min.
However, people don't buy it. The reason is that Xiong Lei's words do not resonate with us. They are too purposeful. Most of what they say is wrong to people, and some of them seem to contradict what Yao Ce said.
In general, Xiong Lei is still too young, and his speech and actions are not calm enough. We can see from her account signature that her signature is: happiness is greater than the sky.
Not long after Yao Ce died, the truth of the incident is unknown. Shouldn't Xiong Lei be living in grief now? At this time, your signature is: happiness is greater than the sky, what do people think of you?
Xu Min, can we win everyone's sympathy?
Xu Min's character is very straightforward. When he sees Guo Wei's children, he laughs when he is happy. When talking about Yao Ce, he weeps every day.
Even if he goes bankrupt, he must see a doctor for Yao Ce, and sacrifice his health for Yao Ce's sake.
Now that life is so difficult, the hospital still refuses to pay indemnity, and we need to find out the truth.
and Xiong Lei?
Xiong Lei's character design has collapsed since he was picked up by netizens. Now he has walked down step by step, and it is inevitable that he has reached this point today.
can't blame others, you've made your own way, it's not impossible to save some face, it depends on what you do in the future.