Author: a flower
Picture: from the Internet
Marriage needs management, and love needs to be cared for. Men and women never know each other, to germinate love, and then to get married. Every step requires the joint efforts and maintenance of both parties. Marriage is like a long journey. Problems arise during the journey, and men and women have differences. It is likely that one will go to the left and the other to the right.
The failure of a marriage is never the responsibility of one party. The unintentional actions and words of both men and women may become a powerful weapon to hurt each other. Love is a matter of two people, while marriage is the combination of two families. Among them, conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, between husband and wife, and between mother and wife may lead to disharmony between husband and wife.
Contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are often the "biggest killer" of the relationship between husband and wife. Take the divorced couples around me as an example. When they talk about their failed relationships in the past, they have to mention a few words of discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and men always favor their biological mothers. , put his daughter-in-law in a humble position.
If things go on like this, the relationship between husband and wife will not be what it used to be. At first, both men and women set up a family to live a comfortable life, but after they get married, they realize that married life is a piece of shit. Whether it is a man or a woman, they will be exhausted physically and mentally by these bits and pieces. When they are unable to support, they will only part ways.
There are 100 ways for a husband's family to get hold of a woman. For example, some women are rejected by their in-laws because they can't have children after marriage. Whether in front of outsiders or family members, they will be criticized anytime and anywhere. Even if the reason is not the woman's, they will be crowned as unvirtuous and unfilial. charge.
"Five pounds and five taels, thank you husband."
The short eight words and a photo of a family of three stinged Xie Sun's eyes and heart. He never thought that the divorce had only been more than a year, and his ex-wife married and gave birth to a child. For a healthy child, the mother forced Xie Sun to divorce when it was clear that his ex-wife was unable to bear children. What is going on? I handed myself over to Xie Sun. At that time, Xie Sun swore that he would give her a better life in the future. When they first got married, the life of Xie Sun and his wife was indeed sweet, but once the novelty passed, the rest was This kind of contradiction.
Xie Sun's family situation is not very good, so after marriage, the two generations have been living together, plus the ex-wife came from far away, in order to marry into her husband's family, she almost cut off the relationship with her parents' family. , This kind of behavior is very cheap in the eyes of my mother-in-law. Over the years, my mother-in-law has not given her ex-wife a good face.
Speaking of which, Xie Sun's ex-wife is also a virtuous person. She handles all the housework and gets up early every day. She washes the clothes of her parents-in-law herself. In order to torture and suppress her, her mother-in-law deliberately does not allow the washing machine to be used. Xie Sun sees all these things, but he does not stand up to speak for his ex-wife. To my mother's side.
After all, my mother gave birth to him and raised him. This kindness is incomparable to a wife. In order to please my mother, I can only aggrieve my ex-wife. What really caused the divorce of Xie Sun and his wife was more than 6 years of marriage. , The ex-wife has never been pregnant. At first, Xie Sun didn't mind, but after a long time, he was talked about by his mother a lot, and Xie Sun also disliked his ex-wife.
The husband and wife cannot have children, so the husband and wife should have gone to the hospital together for medical treatment. However, Xie Sun did not think there was any problem with his body, but instead refused to go to the hospital for a physical examination on the grounds that he was strong, and blamed all the fault on his ex-wife . The ex-wife also suffered the loss of being uneducated, and she really believed her husband Xie Sun's words, and blamed herself.
Moreover, the ex-wife did not go to the regular hospital for examination, but listened to the advice of her mother-in-law, and drank all kinds of drugs. Seeing that his ex-wife's belly still didn't move, her husband's family completely lost patience, and Xie Sun also lost interest in his ex-wife.
Later, Xie Sun met his current wife at a party. Under the stimulation of alcohol, the two had a relationship. More precisely, Xie Sun physically betrayed the marriage. Originally, Xie Sun thought that this matter was over, as long as he didn't say it, no one would know.
Who knows, just one month later, the client came to the door and asked Xie Sun to be responsible for the baby in his womb. Xie Sun, who heard the news, was full of joy. Coupled with the encouragement of his mother, he quickly went through the divorce procedures with his ex-wife, and the six-year marriage ended.
Although the two are divorced, their contact information has been kept, and they can also see their respective circles of friends.Shortly after the divorce, Xie Sun saw the news of his ex-wife's remarriage. At that time, he dismissed it and mocked his ex-wife secretly: "I really don't know what kind of man would be interested in a 'stuff' like you! One who can't lay eggs. 'Hen' is not worthy of marriage at all!"
However, what Xie Sun did not expect was that after a year, his ex-wife actually posted the news of her childbirth in the circle of friends, looking at the photo of the three of them in the same frame, Xie Sun was jealous, puzzled and doubtful in his heart. He scratched the timeline and suddenly ran home angrily.
It is a cross-examination of the current wife who is nursing the child. Obviously, his wife was stopped by him, and he hesitated for a long time without giving a reasonable explanation. Xie Sun was so angry that he immediately took his son's hair and ran to the hospital. Ignore it.
I have to say that everything is karma. Back then, Xie Sun and his mother treated his ex-wife like that. During the marriage, he cheated on his current wife. Now, the retribution has finally come. Some time ago, I came across a short video by Mr. Tu Lei. He said that women must not marry far away, and don't hold love too high, or else they will be thrown badly.
The reason why Xie Sun's family bullied his ex-wife so much was because she was helpless. Here, I would like to remind all women that when encountering unworthy men and in-laws, they must stop losses in time, don’t take themselves too seriously, and don’t take themselves too seriously, sacrificing oneself in exchange for marriage ,not worth it!
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Do you think the child born by Xie Sun's current wife is his? Welcome to leave a message for discussion.
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