Introduction: The divorce rate in the village remains high. The old man said frankly: These are the three reasons. What do the villagers think?
A Hua is a post-1980s generation in rural Sichuan. He worked outside the home in his early years, and now he basically settled in his hometown. In addition to growing crops, he is also doing a small business in the town. Although he does not earn a lot at home, he can support his family. Still no problem, you can make a lot of money when business is good. But in the years after returning home, Ahua also discovered many new problems locally, especially in terms of marriage. Now many young people have faced new problems.
On the one hand, many young men in their 30s are facing difficulties in getting married because of the number of males and females in the local area. On the other hand, because people are open-minded, the divorce rate in the village and other villages is also rising. Post-0s and post-90s couples have also become the main force of local divorce. If you have a deeper understanding of
, the divorce rate in rural areas is very high now, which has risen dozens of times compared to before. I remember that in the past, in Ahua's hometown, I rarely heard some topics about divorce, but now it is different, basically every month I hear villagers talking about divorce.
Let me talk about a real case in the village. The villager got married at the end of last year. After the wedding banquet in the village, the couple went out to work, but I don’t know the reason, but this year I heard from his parents that their son had already Divorced, and now eager to find a divorced woman to start a family, and even entrust a matchmaker to help me say kiss. So the question is, what is the reason for the high divorce rate in the village? Let's see what the old people in the village have to say.
The main reason for the high divorce rate
The elderly in the village can be said to have a lot of knowledge and like to inquire about some gossip. As for their views, Ahua also combined a few points after listening to them. According to the elderly in the village, the divorce in the village is now There are three main reasons for the high rate;
The first is because the network traffic is developed now, and more and more couples go out to work. Facing the flowery world outside, it is inevitable that some people will not be able to withstand the temptation, and some couples After making friends of the opposite sex, I also have new ideas, and I am also suspicious of each other in life, which finally leads to the deepening of the conflict between husband and wife, and I have to enter the hall of divorce if I can't live a good life, resulting in a high divorce rate, derailment and divorce Arguably one of the main reasons.
The second reason is that in rural areas, many couples know each other on a blind date, and they arrange marriage without any emotional foundation. In addition, the phenomenon of more men than women in rural areas is very serious, and young men and women who marry for the second time are also getting married. Increasingly, these divorced male or female friends will have the idea of divorce when they encounter a little contradiction in their lives. In addition, most of the rural families are now working as part-time workers. After a blind date and marriage, men will also go out to work. The long-term separation of the two places has also caused some couples to have weaker feelings and less communication. There is no need to continue living.
The third reason is that people today are more open-minded and have a very hasty attitude towards marriage. Especially now, the post-80s and post-90s have not calmly thought about problems, and it is very common to get divorced if they don't agree with each other. Divorce must be divorced, and the excessive pursuit of marriage freedom has also led to the high divorce rate in rural areas.
Ahua's point of view
On the Internet, many people say that the rising divorce rate is a manifestation of social progress. The marriage law enacted in my country gives men and women the right to marry freely, but Ahua believes that no matter it is social progress now It’s not a good idea to pursue the freedom of marriage too much, because marriage is a lifetime thing, and the right to choose is up to you. Marriage is not a child’s play. Before talking about marriage, men and women should get to know each other well. If Marry if it is suitable, and don't delay everyone's happiness if it is not suitable.
But if two people feel that they are together, then they should be responsible for the family after marriage, don't mess around, and have other ideas. All problems need to be faced by two people. Only the husband and wife have a harmonious relationship, mutual understanding and tolerance. , then such a marriage relationship will go further.
The villagers! What do you think about the topics discussed in this article?
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