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During the May Day holiday, many people choose to travel and relax.
I have been busy for several months, and proper relaxation is an adjustment to the body and mind, which is good for the next life.
But on the Internet, I can't understand the behavior of this woman, how can I go out and play, carrying my husband and son on my back!
At the edge of a lake, many tourists are waiting to take a boat and feel the waves on the water. A woman in a green dress and a man are also waiting.
In the eyes of others, their behavior is like a husband and wife, and the man helps her carry her bag thoughtfully.
But no one thought that a man in a T-shirt ran up and confronted the woman, "What do you mean?" The woman's husband, and the young man beside him, is their son.
This embarrassment is really big, the woman's bright appearance is broken, it turns out that her relationship with this man is not pure, and her son has seen it.
It can be seen that the husband is very angry, but the son always protects the mother and pulls the mother to the side. The man is very arrogant, points at him, and is still debating. Seeing this scene, the son pulls the father away, avoiding a moment. Field impulse.
The husband glanced at the man and turned to leave. He didn't bother to argue with 's counterpart , after all, the relationship between himself and 's wife was the matter.
Seeing the farce of the couple, many netizens complained for their husbands.
- Someone said: "Men are just too good-tempered, so wives dare to be so blatant and do whatever they want."
- Some people also said: "This woman is too stupid, it's better to find a handsome man, this man is not as handsome as his husband, what is the picture? "
- Someone else said: "If you really don't have feelings, you can separate and step on two boats, which is disrespect for marriage . "
Yes, in any case, this woman's approach is wrong, especially when she is middle-aged, her son is taller than herself, and she is so unclear about her feelings, I have to say, it is a kind of sad .
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The woman who can't understand her emotions, what do you think?
Qian Zhongshu said in the book " siege ": "Marriage is a siege, people in the city want to go out, people outside the city want to come in. "
Many people yearn for marriage, but prefers and fails to manage marriage. In the trivialities of , rice, oil and salt, , they gradually lose themselves, and most of them cannot do without the following three reasons.
1, the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious It's more fragile than we think. When
is in love, we mostly focus on each other's advantages, thus ignoring each other's shortcomings. After
entered the marriage, these shortcomings are not hidden and exposed in daily life, some people complain: "Why did I fall in love with you in the first place? "
There is such a couple by my side. After marriage, the husband likes to drink beer and grows a belly, but the wife dislikes it. Using his mobile phone on the sofa, he thinks that he is already very tired after working all day, so he can have a better mental state and cope with tomorrow's work by relaxing.
But in the eyes of my wife, this is sloppy. She posted her husband's living status to her Moments, attracting a group of friends to watch, making her husband very angry, and even said angrily: "Who do you want to find, anyway, this is how I am.
Later, my wife really had her own social circle. Every weekend, she went hiking with her friends and ran with her friends at ordinary times. As time went by, the communication between husband and wife became less and less, and it was also because of misunderstanding. resulting in a contradiction.
Neither of them wanted to explain, neither of them wanted to bow their heads, and both thought it was the other's fault that caused the conflict in their marriage.
After a few years of marriage, the relationship between the two came to an end.
There is a sentence on the Internet that sums it up well: " entered marriage because of lack of judgment, and walked out of marriage because of lack of patience." feelings lost their appeal.
2, dissatisfied with the existing life
not only men but also women.
Especially women who like to compare, prefer to compare their husbands with other men, in order to urge their husbands to treat themselves better.
For example: "My girlfriend's husband took over a project and earned more than 500,000 yuan. He bought a car as a gift for his wife. He is really considerate." I can do it, with an annual income of more than 1 million, how can I not have the blessing of my sister?"
It seems to be a comparison, but it is actually complaining about her husband's incompetence and unable to give herself a good life.
In the movie " one sentence is worth ten thousand ", Pang Lina is like this, she has an honest husband and a lovely daughter, but she is not satisfied with her family, she has no smile at home every day, and she is not willing to Communicate with your husband.
Going out, but showing his gentle and lovely side, eating with other men, and laughing non-stop.
Pang Lina forgot that when she and her husband first got married, she also had endless things to say to her husband.
What is the reason for the change in each other's feelings?
is insatiable.
She wants to live a better life, but she doesn't have the ability, so she builds her hope on others. When her husband is not satisfied, she becomes disappointed in her marriage and her relationship falls apart.
3. Can't stand the temptation of the outside environment.
The outside world is very exciting, and everyone has a different state of life.
If you blindly envy the living conditions of others, it is easy to make yourself envious.
Just like the woman at the beginning of the article, she likes to travel freely, but she chooses the wrong object. She feels that others can give her more, so she agrees to travel with them.
As everyone knows, 's relationship is exclusive, and her behavior, to her husband, is a betrayal of love.
For children, it is a lack of responsibility. I don't know what children think when they see the unbearable feelings of their parents, and how to face their future lives.
can't stand the temptation of the external environment. In the final analysis, it is not because of love, but because I have no principles and no bottom line in doing things.
You need to know that loves not the expression of language, but the performance of behavior.
Marriage is sacred because two people work hard all their lives for the same thing.
Only couples who are loyal to each other, understand each other and support each other can get closer to the happiness they want.
Take a step back and say that if there is a real relationship problem, you can also take the initiative to communicate instead of betrayal and escape.
Because each of us is responsible for our own life, your attitude towards marriage will also determine whether you can achieve happiness or not.
What do you think about this? Do you think it's right for a woman to travel with others without telling her husband??
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