Introduction:
22-year-old girl's view on choosing a mate: It doesn't matter how much the bride price is, but you must agree to these 4 requirements. What the hell is going on here? Why is it like this? We together look.
22-year-old classmate Xiao Wang:
I just can't figure it out, why do so many girls ask for sky-high betrothal gifts? Is it easy for today's boys to make money? Or in other words, the money is now blown by the strong wind, can you pick up the money on the way? It is not easy for anyone to make money now. Why do women and men need sky-high dowry when they get married? In fact, I think it doesn't matter how much the bride price is, as long as two people truly love each other and can live happily in the future, that's enough. And will there be happiness if there are more betrothal gifts? How many young people who love each other are separated because of the issue of the bride price. Are these examples still few among us? Why can't they attract the attention of girls and their parents? Is it worth breaking up for the bride price?
I don't think the bride price is that important. Just like I have a friend who married boyfriend and asked him to give 580,000 yuan as a dowry. The man didn't have that much money at all, but she wouldn't be less than a penny. Then their marriage fell through. They have been talking for several years, and they are so in love with each other, why should they separate? It was also separated because of the dowry issue. I also have a friend who asked her husband to give 680,000 yuan as a dowry when she got married. Her boyfriend loves her very much, and he raised 680,000 to marry her. But after marriage, she was not happy at all, because she lived in debt repayment after marriage. This person is my senior sister... There have been quite a few of these cases happening around me, and I believe there are also many happening around you. Why can't
attract the attention of all parents who say girls? If I get married, I'm sure I won't want so many gifts.
Introduction:
22-year-old girl's view on choosing a mate: It doesn't matter how much the bride price is, but you must agree to these 4 requirements. What the hell is going on here? Why is it like this? We together look.
22-year-old classmate Xiao Wang:
I just can't figure it out, why do so many girls ask for sky-high betrothal gifts? Is it easy for today's boys to make money? Or in other words, the money is now blown by the strong wind, can you pick up the money on the way? It is not easy for anyone to make money now. Why do women and men need sky-high dowry when they get married? In fact, I think it doesn't matter how much the bride price is, as long as two people truly love each other and can live happily in the future, that's enough. And will there be happiness if there are more betrothal gifts? How many young people who love each other are separated because of the issue of the bride price. Are these examples still few among us? Why can't they attract the attention of girls and their parents? Is it worth breaking up for the bride price?
I don't think the bride price is that important. Just like I have a friend who married boyfriend and asked him to give 580,000 yuan as a dowry. The man didn't have that much money at all, but she wouldn't be less than a penny. Then their marriage fell through. They have been talking for several years, and they are so in love with each other, why should they separate? It was also separated because of the dowry issue. I also have a friend who asked her husband to give 680,000 yuan as a dowry when she got married. Her boyfriend loves her very much, and he raised 680,000 to marry her. But after marriage, she was not happy at all, because she lived in debt repayment after marriage. This person is my senior sister... There have been quite a few of these cases happening around me, and I believe there are also many happening around you. Why can't
attract the attention of all parents who say girls? If I get married, I'm sure I won't want so many gifts. I know very well that it is not easy for my boyfriend to make money. If he wants so much money,It's not necessarily forcing him to go to Liangshan . This is undoubtedly forcing your feelings to the end. Girls, you have to remember that your boyfriend is only in his 20s and 30s now, what ability does he have to buy you a house? A house can easily cost one hundred and several hundred thousand. Where did the millions of dollars come from? Is it from the wind? If you say it casually, it is a house, and if you say it casually, it is hundreds of thousands of lottery money . Who can afford this? Don't talk about ordinary boys, I think 90% of boys can't afford these things.
can give boys who can afford these things, they will not get married so early, they will find a young woman when they are in their 40s and 50s. These are very real things. If you want to find a guy in his 20s and 30s who has a car, a house, and a lot of money. I can only say that it is difficult to ascend to the sky. The age that can give you these things is so young, very few. Today, I will tell you about this, and I hope all girls can change their view of mate selection like me. If you continue to search for boyfriends like this, I don't think you'll find the right one for the rest of your life. I choose a mate, it doesn't matter how much the bride price is, but I have to agree to the first requirement of these 4 requirements
, it doesn't matter if he has no money now, but he must have and .
It's not terrible for a man to have no money. The most terrifying thing is that he is not motivated. What is self-motivation? That is to say, a man cannot solve and settle for the status quo . To be content with the status quo is to be satisfied with the current state. A man should have the spirit of daring to fight. If a man does not even have the spirit of daring to fight, what can he rely on to make his wife happy? Does he want to live like this all his life? 99% of women want material security. At this time, men need to use money to protect. If you do not seek progress and are content with the status quo,How can you make her happy? Men should never make excuses for their failures. All a man can do is keep trying. Constantly striving for the top, this is the effort to make progress. Don't always feel that life is difficult. In fact, everyone is difficult. If you don't work hard, you will be surpassed by others. You can only make your loved one happy if you keep working hard.
The second requirement is to have filial piety .
If a man has no filial piety, no matter how much money he has, it is useless. If he is also rich, but he is not good to his parents and his father-in-law, then what is the use of him being rich? What child doesn't want to be able to help their parents? If you live well and your parents need help, you must help. But if your man is not a little filial and refuses to help, then what's the use of you being with such a man? You can't be so selfish as a human being. It's not easy for your parents to raise you. When your conditions are good and you have the ability, you should try your best to repay your parents. Therefore, a man's filial piety is very important. If a man does not have filial piety, then he will be very selfish. A selfish man does not deserve a wife or a family. A man only thinks about his own well-being, then he might as well live by himself, why should he get married? Why do you need a wife? Men must have filial piety.
The third requirement, I must have patience with .
We all know that women are more likely to be unreasonable, and women are more likely to be angry. And many men are just impatient. As soon as I see my woman being angry, I will scold my woman angrily. Such a man is not what I want, and I don't think there are many women in the world who would like a man. Men must be patient, even if their wives are tantrums, or sometimes make trouble unreasonably,You should also be patient with her. If you are patient with her, she will know it, and she will change it slowly. If you are impatient with your woman, will you be impatient with other things? Patience with your own woman is a must. Women are like this and need the care and patience of men. If a man is impatient with his own woman, the hall is doomed to be unhappy. After all, the husband and wife are no longer sexually happy, so what happiness is there in this family? The fourth requirement of
is to treat things with responsibility and .
Whether a man can achieve a career depends on his sense of responsibility. If a man even dares to take responsibility, he has no sense of responsibility. So how can this man take on such a big responsibility? So how can this man make you happy? A person who truly loves you, a responsible person, will work hard to be responsible for you. A man must have a sense of responsibility, whether it is to treat his wife or to treat every little thing in life, he must have a sense of responsibility. If a man does not even have a sense of responsibility, then this man will never achieve a career. Not to mention the happiness of his own woman. This is a very realistic thing. A man doesn't even want to take responsibility. He is an irresponsible person. How can he make his woman happy? In order to achieve a career, you must have a sense of responsibility. Do all that needs to be done.
I don't think the 4 requirements I mentioned are too much. This is my standard for choosing a mate. Only if these 4 requirements are met, I will agree to marry him. As long as he meets these 4 requirements, I don't care if his family has money or not. I don't care about the dowry money, it doesn't matter how much or how much. The dowry money is just a blessing, a kind of meaning. I see this very clearly,I will not be like other girls, the man will only be with him if the conditions are good. I will not be like this, as long as he meets these 4 requirements of mine, I will be with him. Of course, these 4 requirements are also indispensable. After all, it is still relatively difficult to find a high-quality boy.
I am looking for objects not in the present, but in the future. Now you ask boys to ask for so many gifts and money, do you think you deserve it? It is normal for a boy to have nothing in and now, after all, he is still young. You have to give him the opportunity to create everything for you. Only in this way will you have eternal happiness. Now you have nothing, you stay with him, and when she has everything, you will be happy. If a man has nothing now, and you despise him, when he has everything, do you think you still deserve him? I hope all women can understand this truth, stop being picky, there is a gap between ideals and reality, and stop looking for men based on ideals. Otherwise, you'll be alone for the rest of your life.
Conclusion:
If only all girls were like you. There are still many girls who choose sky-high betrothal gifts. They feel that they will be happy if they have more betrothal gifts. In fact, how many girls really understand the matter of marriage? Is it true that if you get married because there are too many dowry gifts, you will be happy? Too many betrothal gifts can only show that the boy's family is in good condition. Does he really love you, does he really have the ability to give you happiness? Have you considered these? Don't wait until the end to regret it to know that there are more betrothal gifts, not necessarily happiness. In fact, I think what Xiao Wang said is very correct, and the three views are very correct. She said something, boys despise them when they have nothing, and when they have everything, can you afford them? You can offer sky-high betrothal gifts,But why should people give it to you?
What conditions do you have to ask others to give you one hundred and hundreds of thousands of dollars? Is it because you are a girl? This is a very realistic thing. When a boy has everything, you will not be worthy of him. Or honestly choose a potential stock. At the same time, I also hope that all girls and all parents have the right three views. Getting married to a child is not a business. Everything is based on the happiness of the child, not the dowry money. The above content is contributed by real netizens. You are welcome to leave a message in the comment area to help this netizen. If you or your friends are also emotionally confused, you can pay attention and send a private letter to @小小小小小小M. Maybe the answer is not the most professional, but it must be the most attentive, maybe the next content is specially released for you. I am Wangwang Xiaochen. I read other people's stories and reflect on my own life. Don't go the way of others.
The second requirement is to have filial piety .
If a man has no filial piety, no matter how much money he has, it is useless. If he is also rich, but he is not good to his parents and his father-in-law, then what is the use of him being rich? What child doesn't want to be able to help their parents? If you live well and your parents need help, you must help. But if your man is not a little filial and refuses to help, then what's the use of you being with such a man? You can't be so selfish as a human being. It's not easy for your parents to raise you. When your conditions are good and you have the ability, you should try your best to repay your parents. Therefore, a man's filial piety is very important. If a man does not have filial piety, then he will be very selfish. A selfish man does not deserve a wife or a family. A man only thinks about his own well-being, then he might as well live by himself, why should he get married? Why do you need a wife? Men must have filial piety.
The third requirement, I must have patience with .
We all know that women are more likely to be unreasonable, and women are more likely to be angry. And many men are just impatient. As soon as I see my woman being angry, I will scold my woman angrily. Such a man is not what I want, and I don't think there are many women in the world who would like a man.A man must be patient. Even if his wife has a temper, or is sometimes unreasonable, you should be patient with her. If you are patient with her, she will know it, and she will change it slowly. If you are impatient with your woman, will you be impatient with other things? Patience with your own woman is a must. Women are like this and need the care and patience of men. If a man is impatient with his own woman, the hall is doomed to be unhappy. After all, the husband and wife are no longer sexually happy, so what happiness is there in this family? The fourth requirement of
is to treat things with responsibility and .
Whether a man can achieve a career depends on his sense of responsibility. If a man even dares to take responsibility, he has no sense of responsibility. So how can this man take on such a big responsibility? So how can this man make you happy? A person who truly loves you, a responsible person, will work hard to be responsible for you. A man must have a sense of responsibility, whether it is to treat his wife or to treat every little thing in life, he must have a sense of responsibility. If a man does not even have a sense of responsibility, then this man will never achieve a career. Not to mention the happiness of his own woman. This is a very realistic thing. A man doesn't even want to take responsibility. He is an irresponsible person. How can he make his woman happy? In order to achieve a career, you must have a sense of responsibility. Do all that needs to be done.
I don't think the 4 requirements I mentioned are too much. This is my standard for choosing a mate. Only if these 4 requirements are met, I will agree to marry him. As long as he meets these 4 requirements, I don't care if his family has money or not. I don't care about the dowry money, it doesn't matter how much or how much.The dowry money is just a blessing, a kind of meaning. I see this very clearly, I will not be like other girls, the man will only be with him if the conditions are good. I will not be like this, as long as he meets these 4 requirements of mine, I will be with him. Of course, these 4 requirements are also indispensable. After all, it is still relatively difficult to find a high-quality boy.
I am looking for objects not in the present, but in the future. Now you ask boys to ask for so many gifts and money, do you think you deserve it? It is normal for a boy to have nothing in and now, after all, he is still young. You have to give him the opportunity to create everything for you. Only in this way will you have eternal happiness. Now you have nothing, you stay with him, and when she has everything, you will be happy. If a man has nothing now, and you despise him, when he has everything, do you think you still deserve him? I hope all women can understand this truth, stop being picky, there is a gap between ideals and reality, and stop looking for men based on ideals. Otherwise, you'll be alone for the rest of your life.
Conclusion:
If only all girls were like you. There are still many girls who choose sky-high betrothal gifts. They feel that they will be happy if they have more betrothal gifts. In fact, how many girls really understand the matter of marriage? Is it true that if you get married because there are too many dowry gifts, you will be happy? Too many betrothal gifts can only show that the boy's family is in good condition. Does he really love you, does he really have the ability to give you happiness? Have you considered these? Don't wait until the end to regret it to know that there are more betrothal gifts, not necessarily happiness. In fact, I think what Xiao Wang said is very correct, and the three views are very correct.She said something, boys despise them when they have nothing, and when they have everything, can you afford them? You can offer sky-high betrothal gifts, but why should they give you?
What conditions do you have to ask others to give you one hundred and hundreds of thousands of dollars? Is it because you are a girl? This is a very realistic thing. When a boy has everything, you will not be worthy of him. Or honestly choose a potential stock. At the same time, I also hope that all girls and all parents have the right three views. Getting married to a child is not a business. Everything is based on the happiness of the child, not the dowry money. The above content is contributed by real netizens. You are welcome to leave a message in the comment area to help this netizen. If you or your friends are also emotionally confused, you can pay attention and send a private letter to @小小小小小小M. Maybe the answer is not the most professional, but it must be the most attentive, maybe the next content is specially released for you. I am Wangwang Xiaochen. I read other people's stories and reflect on my own life. Don't go the way of others.
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