People live in the world, and there are always people who are not used to it.
Sometimes, when you see a person clearly, you don't need to turn your face. If you turn your face, you may lose your wife and lose your army.
A smart person who can see through but not speak clearly, keep a line in everything, see you in the future.
If you want to survive in the crowd, you must have both the ability to be eye-catching and the ability to soften things silently.
The depths of water are silent, and people are silent. If it's not about you, don't worry about it, don't talk too much without speculation.
The height of life is not in how many things you see clearly, but in how many things you despise.
"Confucius' Family Language" recorded such a story:
Confucius and his disciples went out.
Zi Lu suggested:
"Let's go to Zi Xia's house to borrow an umbrella!"
Confucius stopped Zi Lu and said:
"Don't go, Zi Xia protects money, if he doesn't lend it to me, others will think he is disrespectful Teacher; if you lend it to me, he will feel distressed. You can't force people to do things they don't want to do, so that everyone can get along for a long time!" Embarrassing him in public, but instead showing a kind of understanding and tolerance.
When the water is clear, there will be no fish, and if the person is perfect, there will be no disciples.
Life is a arduous practice, and the key to happiness lies in the state of mind.
Walking on the road of life, who is not dealing with the difficulties of reality while moving forward quietly.
People passing by us, just passing by. Like the wind, like falling flowers and flowing water, it goes without a trace.
The journey of life is long, and finding the meaning of happiness for oneself is a required course for becoming mature.
We will meet countless people in our life,
Someone will lead you to strive for the upper reaches, and some will lie in a dirty well and try to pull you down. There is a question on
Zhihu: what is the best way to make yourself great?
A high praise answer below is: Walk with good people.
When you point out a gentleman's mistake, a gentleman can accept it with humility and gratitude.
When you point out the villain's mistakes, the villain may hold a grudge and seek revenge.
As the saying goes, many friends lead to many paths, and few enemies lead to less walls.
Life is too short to waste time entangled with villains, but to walk with gentlemen.
You don't have to say everything if you know people, just understand everything in your heart. See through but not say through, face is better.
Chinese people are most concerned about face, what hurts, don't hurt face.
There was such a passage on the Internet:
"Many injuries are originally one-time, maybe because of your permission and your obsession, it is like a saw, constantly pulling in your heart, and holding it tightly. The person who holds the saw is actually yourself.” The more you entangle, the more you will torture yourself; the more you let go, the more you can free yourself.
There is such a buzzword on the Internet:
"Endure the breast hyperplasia for a while, and take a step back for ovarian cysts."
It's cheap for people who hate you, and it hurts your own body.
Smart people don't take other people's faults and punish themselves.
The reporter interviewed Yu Guangzhong and asked:
"Li Ao finds you every day, but you never respond, why is this?" I could live without him."
When we're about to speak, it's better that the words are worth more than the silence.
A smart person knows what to say on what occasions and knows how to restrain himself.
is more aggressive than the top-notch, and he knows how to hold back and stay calm.
Sanmao once said:
"I like others to see me as a fool, it is much easier to get along with others, I do not advise anyone to do anything, in fact, everyone is just fake and confused about what they do. "
See through but not tell, see clearly without turning face, see through without dismantling,
is hidden in the bottom of my heart, carefully grinded in the long road of life, and what is left is called experience.
Life is getting old in a flash, don't worry about it.
Unhappy things, people in different ways, don't turn your face, don't care, don't care.
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