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One morning two years ago, I was sorting goods in my clothing store. A middle-aged woman walked in. I just wanted to say hello. She asked if Boss Dong was there? I looked at her, who was a few years older than me, with heavy makeup and blood-red lipstick on her mouth, which turned her big mouth into a big mouth with blood, and her appearance was really unflattering.
I don’t know where she comes from. Ask her, do you find boss Dong Lixin? She said yes. I asked, are you a relative of boss Dong? She grinned and laughed, saying that she and Boss Dong are friends, very good friends, and her expression is a bit twisted and shy.
The expression of this woman makes me feel that things are not that simple. My husband Dong Lixin likes to make friends with beautiful women. He has always been reluctant to approach old and ugly women, let alone do well. friend. Also, this clothing store belongs to me, and the owner is me, not his Dong Lixin.
I checked the time and said to the woman, "Wait a minute, boss Dong will be here in ten minutes. In ten minutes, Dong Lixin should send me lunch." When my shop is busy, I usually order takeaway. Dong Lixin is free that day, so I let him cook at home and send the food to the shop by the way.
The woman was not idle, and started to look at the clothes. Soon, she picked two of the most expensive clothes in the store and told me to wrap both of them. She asked for it. I asked if you really bought it, and she said, when Boss Dong came, and he checked out, she grinned again, with a proud face on her face.
As soon as I wrapped her clothes, Dong Lixin came in with a lunch box. The woman saw Dong Lixin, ran forward, looked at him affectionately, and Dong Lixin looked at the woman suspiciously.
The woman said: "Lixin, I am the Lanmei..."
"Lan..., Seeing Lanmei? Dong Lixin screamed in a low voice, like a ghost? The same two steps back, and then looking at me, I and Dong Lixin are facing each other.
The woman got in touch with Dong Lixin and said, “I’m sister Lan, I can’t wait to come and see first. You, come to you so far, want to surprise you. She looked at Dong Lixin with affection again.
Dong Lixin stammered at her and said, "You...I don't know you?" Ugly! _Span2span
The woman asked in astonishment, we had a good conversation yesterday, how... Of course, she should not be what she looks like in reality on the Internet. After opening her full face, she was shown in the image of a big beautiful woman. Dong Lixin was confused by her fake beauty. She began to scream with her and bombarded with sweet words.
This woman named Lanmei came to surprise Dong Lixin, and she must have been stunned by his sweet words, thinking that she had met true love, otherwise how dare she dared to show up.
After I wanted to understand, I rushed in front of Dong Lixin, but he still didn't react. I slapped him with a bow left and right, kicked him again, and the girl next to him was stunned.
Dong Lixin said to the woman, "Hurry up! I don't know you._Span2span
Lan Mei should have understood something, maybe she was afraid of me hitting her, and I ran out of the door in a panic. Lixin said about divorce. I will set off tomorrow, but I will write down the divorce agreement. You will be free in a few days, but I will allow you to liberate in advance. Now, you can go to any woman to sing, and you can also put your orchid My sister chased it back.
Dong Lixin seemed to wake up and said: "Juan, listen to my explanation. _Span2span
I don’t bother to listen to him explain, Dong Lixin, this man, I know him too well, he has done something very early in the process of dampening and weeding.
_1span five years ago , I found out that he has many female netizens, and he chats frequently with many of them, and has an ambiguous relationship.
At that time, he was in the shower. I answered the phone for him and checked his WeChat by the way. _Span2span
Dong Lixin is like a affectionate and heartwarming boyfriend in WeChat. Good morning and good night greetings. Rainy and cloudy days, the whole screen was full of sweet words. Later, I knew that it was his female netizen, and they hadn’t met yet.
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If that happened to me Crashed,I think he will go to meet people, if the other person looks good, then something will definitely happen. But maybe that person is a beautiful woman on the Internet, and she is also a yellow-faced woman in life, just like this time.
I never check Dong Lixin's cell phone. I always feel that the relationship between husband and wife depends on checking the cell phone and sending the location. It is sad because my sense of security is not given by him. I give it to myself. I run this clothing store and I am very busy every day. I can't take care of so many things. Dong Lixin is basically free.
After I found out that Dong Lixin was nasty, he denounced and begged in every way, saying that he was just playing, just chatting, and I had never seen those women face-to-face, I didn’t even hold my hands, and treated them. He has never been emotional, nor has he spent a lot of money. He just wants to satisfy the vanity of a man. He is empty and bored. He loves me...
_p3sp p0 , I don't care about the child's face. But this time, I didn't give Dong Lixin a chance to explain. Live directly in the shop at night.
The next day, I went to Jinan Garment Wholesale Market to buy goods. After a busy day, I ate at a small restaurant in the evening. I drafted a divorce agreement in my notebook. I added up all the property at home and found that I was still It's a pauper, no love, no money, and the only thing that makes me proud is my daughter.
In the past two years, the business in the store has been bleak. Although I work hard, I still don’t see any improvement. I am exhausted. Dong Lixin works in a factory and earns three to four thousand yuan a month. He spends a lot of money. He rarely worry about things at home and in my shop. He is a normal-looking man who spends a lot of time on the Internet and spends his entire day sultrying beautiful women.
When I think of it, sorrow comes in waves.
Boss Zheng walked to me at that time. Sit at my table. Boss Zheng is a company with me. He sells men's clothing. He also went to buy the goods that day. He also met me for dinner. I have no friendship with him. We usually only nod and smile when we meet.
Boss Zheng sat down and ate with me. We talked about the clothing business that was getting harder and harder to do. The common language became more common. When we had a good chat, he suddenly said: "Actually, I have I admire you, beautiful and capable, unlike my wife, who can’t do anything, eat first place."
His description of his wife made me feel a little disgusted, his wife is very capable, that’s a little fat.
I finished our meal with Mr. Zheng and walked back to the hotel next to the wholesale market together. In the cold spring, I shuddered when I was dressed very thinly. Mr. Zheng took off his shirt very gently, thinking Put it on me. I avoided it in time. I said that if your wife saw this behavior, she would be sad. Boss Zheng said it was more than three hundred kilometers away. How could she see it?
After arriving at the hotel, I went up to the third floor and entered my room. Boss Zheng suddenly said, "I have liked you for a long time." He stood under the light, looking forward to looking at me, which was a bit charming.
I settled and said: "Thank you for your love, and I wish you happiness with my brother-in-law."
Boss Zheng is younger than me.He is a married man. I am not a little girl, I am in my forties, I have no male friends, and I don’t like chatting with male netizens. My life experience made me understand that many men’s love words are fake, so I can only say thank you I laughed it off, I can’t take it seriously, even if it’s true, I can’t be confused, because they are all other men’s men and can’t be touched.
I went back to the clothing store on the third day. I took Boss Zheng’s ride. Dong Lixin was in the shop. When I got out of Boss Zheng’s car, his face immediately turned black. I passed him. When he got to the office, he chased me to the office and said that Wang Juan, you had planned to divorce me a long time ago, and you are waiting for an opportunity to find an excuse, right?
I don't want to talk to Dong Lixin. I just said that you are right. I took out the divorce agreement that I prepared.
Dong Lixin started to say sorry to me. He said: "I admit that my feelings have gone wrong, but I tell you that men are all acting on the spot, I am even more to those female netizens, and Boss Zheng is the same to you. We are all men of the same kind, with similar ideas, nothing more than yes. Find some excitement, spend a little money, say some worthless sweet words, and have some fun.
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I said to Dong Lixin: "You are not the same as Boss Zheng, he is younger than you. More handsome than you and more successful than you in your career, how dare you compare with Boss Zheng...
Dong Lixin's face turned into sauce purple.
I said, "I didn’t have any nasty things with Boss Zheng.Because I am different from you. Women are from fifteen or sixty years old to forty years old, even to fifty years old. As long as they don’t look particularly shabby, they are chased by people, loved, and slapped. That’s a common occurrence. .
"Not all men are forty-one flowers, and not all women are forty-forty tofu, although I am forty, I put on high heels, put on delicate makeup, and walk on the street There is a lot of turning heads. Men are lustful, women are also lustful, and love money. The temptation to women outside is much more than that of your men, but I resisted it. I have been rejecting it because I have a family and Husband, I have children.
Now I am forty years old and I am still resisting this temptation. Actually, since I married you, I have been resisting this temptation. I mean you should understand. When you are trying hard to tease other women, your wife is often teased by men who are better than you. When you want to seduce others every day, I have been resisting the temptation of other men. I don’t want to be said by others. Dao Si, I think this is the practice of people responsible for the family and marriage.
Ask yourself, I am loyal to our marriage, but you are different. You really make me sick and eat all day long. I’m thinking about it in the bowl. I will not tolerate a man who is average in every aspect. In order to get rid of the boring marriage life, I will get rid of the boring marriage. Men regard women as clothes. Many men may not be women’s clothes. I want Change you like a change of clothes.
Old Dong's face is beginning to turn pale.
I continue to say: "Don't think you have been seduced by a successful woman. , You have charm, sweet words do not need to spend money, but we have been married these years, your sweet words have become a luxury for your wife, do you think she has become a female man, do not need kind words,No need for tenderness, or even respect, so. You are full of your heart to please other women, ignoring the harm to me. But today, I will stop the loss and let your harm to me end here.
Two years after my divorce from Dong Lixin, I have been single and have a peaceful and cozy life. I have had an encounter with Boss Zheng, but I am still a nodding acquaintance.
Dong Lixin sometimes comes to my shop to help me with some manual work. He puts honey on his mouth, which is quite sultry, because I am no longer his wife, and his sweet words are also to me. No longer stingy, but I'm not rare anymore.
Once I went to his place, we used to live in the house, took my things, found that he turned the house into a doghouse, litter everywhere, the living room table and around the table are full of wine bottles, cigarette butts It's all over the floor. His kind of master of sultry women, he opened his mouth in sweet words, and surely made many women fall into the pit, but in the end no woman was willing to be his long-term wife.
One day this spring, the shop was not busy. I was enjoying the spring sunshine at the door of the shop. An old classmate, Lao Liu, who went to work abroad, stood in front of me.
Lao Liu and I had a good impression of each other when they were young. After the college entrance examination, we finally missed each other because of the great distance between us. He divorced a few years ago and learned that I was divorced a few days ago. After being single, the wind and dust rushed over.
He told me: Juanzi, hello, I heard that you are single, so I am here. I didn’t dare to disturb you before. Can I disturb you now?
The spring sun shines brightly on the newly budding tree,The eyes are full of fresh green.
I said to Lao Liu: "Welcome to interrupt."
A woman born for love, no one wants to live up to this beautiful spring. In order to wait for this moment, I have always put out the best state of life. I believe that one day, I will meet the person who really loves me. Fortunately, I have waited.
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is adapted from what Ms. Wei told, and the name of the person in the article is a pseudonym.
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