The high-ranking Mrs. Song in "Snail House", why didn't her husband get a divorce? Just for these three reasons

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I saw a netizen write "Snail House" a few days ago, she said Mrs. Song is an arrogant woman.

I’m not right. In the whole show, Mrs. Song is the poorest woman. Her composure is pretended, and her self-deprecation is a last resort.

Then, someone said again, since men don’t love themselves, why not divorce.

The person who said this must have never experienced a middle-aged marriage. They don't understand that women like Mrs. Song are actually the least likely to be cruel.

Investigating the reasons, I analyzed the following aspects:

(1) The marriage of middle-aged people is already a "community of interests"

Actually, many middle-aged people have problems with their marriages. Some are ruthless to divorce right away.

So, why do they make trouble but don't divorce happily? The main reason is that after many years of marriage, the old couple has formed a community of interests.

First of all, children are the most important beneficiaries of interests. Whether it is a man or a woman, whether it is a bad style or a bad temper, basically, they will not harm the interests of their children.

And divorce, obviously will affect the interests of children. The first is to enjoy the benefits of a complete family. Secondly, the division of property affects the future share of children's inheritance.

And Mrs. Song represents the vast number of middle-aged women. Although their husbands are unruly, for the sake of their children, they basically choose to forbear.

In addition to children, there are also the elderly of both parties. The elderly are also a community of interests of middle-aged people. A rash divorce will hurt the heart of the elderly, they dare not take risks, because the entire family is already a whole.

Therefore, many middle-aged people have extramarital affairs, but do not have to be forced to do not divorce. The most men say on their lips: I love you, but I also have to be responsible to my family.

You are my brotherhood

Don't listen to men talking nonsense, if there is no emotion, I like you, etc.

When men say these things, they are all hormones. Back home, what should I do to my wife.

Because this is the left and right hand between husband and wife. Although there is no call, no one can do without.

Marriage time is long, not love is missing, but passion is missing. What men go out looking for is fresh excitement, or compensation for lack of affection. If he really leaves his wife, few have the courage.

Song Siming is like this. He loves seaweed, and he is ecstatic when seaweed is pregnant, but when Mrs. Song is angry and asks for divorce, he refuses again.

For Song Siming, seaweed is his hormone, his youth, and it can ignite his passion.

And his wife is the safe, the big rear, the hands that pull him at the critical moment, and the left and right arms that he has no worries about.

Therefore, Song Siming will not divorce his wife, and Mrs. Song will not divorce Song Siming. Because between them, there is already an unbreakable whole.

Therefore, I advise those women who are still eager for a man to divorce and marry themselves, wake up, men are not stupid, they become sober after getting out of bed and getting dressed.

(3) Still holding hope in despair, longing for him to return

Mrs. Song keeps looking for her best friend to solve problems and pretends to look like a world away.

According to the usual logic, the extramarital affairs of a middle-aged man will not last long, especially after being discovered by his wife.

When they need to make a choice, 99% of men will choose to abandon their lover and return quickly.

No matter how bad they are, they will pretend to have broken up with their lover in order not to lose their marriage.

It is precisely because of this popular concept that Mrs. Song was calm at the beginning of the seaweed. At that time, the calmness was true, and she even tried to persuade the seaweed to cherish herself.

But she didn't expect that Song Siming was really emotional, even if she knew about the seaweed, Song's behavior did not constrain. He clearly told Mrs. Song that he wanted to take care of both inside and outside.

So, Mrs. Song's attitude changed from being calm to self-blaming. From self-pity to uncontrollable anger, until finally madness broke out, hurting others and hurting myself.

The reason why she is angry is because she has always held hope for marriage. As a genuine wife, she feels that her husband will return one day, which is one reason why she does not insist on a divorce.

It is sad and helpless for women to do this. , an old pearly middle-aged woman, she hates herself in the mirror, and there is still the courage to do it all over again.

So, let’s not blame Mrs. Song for her lack of courage. It might not be as good as she can hold on for you and me!

Written at the end:

However, on the issue of a man sorry for marriage, a woman's tolerance will not have very good results. A woman's tolerance is in the eyes of a man with a rib, and he will I think my wife is acquiescing him.

Therefore, treats men's principled mistakes and must be vigorous and resolute.

first tell him that you do not allow it, then tell him to choose one immediately. If you have a temper, just kick it out.

Pampering and appeasement will only make him sink deeper and deeper, and he will not be procrastinated when dealing with men who are bothered. Strong35strong is not only to clarify the position, but also to cure the disease and save others.

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