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It is said that women chase men with interlayer yarn, men chase women on the mountain.
It seems that for men, in order to find the woman they like, they must go through ninety-nine and eighty-one difficulties, and the outcome is not yet known.
But in fact, the reason why it is difficult for men to chase women is because many men use the wrong way.
Imagine a woman likes swimming, but you force her to go climbing with you in the name of loving her. Would she appreciate you? If you didn't delete you and pull black, it's just to show mercy to each other.
In relationships, what women hate most is probably that men stalk her.
But many men like this. Women are so bored of themselves but complacent on the side. In the end, they tried their best to fail to win the favor of women. Instead, they made the distance farther and farther.
Although women’s minds are tactful, many men can’t guess what a woman’s true inner thoughts are. This leads to the wrong pursuit method, which results in half the effort, and ultimately ends in failure, with effort and no return.
However, you have to pay attention to the method in everything, and the woman is no exception. If you use the right method, you will end up with a beautiful woman. If you use the wrong method, it will only backfire and rub shoulders with romantic love. pass.
Many men don’t know that the most important thing for a woman is a sincere heart. As long as you express your heart accurately, it won’t be too difficult to reach a woman, but Blind stalking will only make a good hand sloppy.
Why do some men have a good relationship with the opposite sex, who have average height, appearance and family abilities, but can pick up very good women?
The reason is that these men have high emotional intelligence and know what women want, so they always prescribe the right medicine when dealing with women.
And some men are very good in every aspect, but because of their low EQ, sultry women only want to stalk them, and finally watch the women they like are chased by other men.
Therefore, when a man meets a woman he likes, you have to learn how a man with a high EQ works, to slap a woman's heart instead of stalking a woman. Two ways and two results, it depends on how you choose.
Think long-term, not sleepy now
Men with low EQ can only see what they feel right now. They can’t grasp the yardstick of getting along with women and chase after them, which makes women forced to retreat, even if they have good feelings. Was worn out.
A man with high EQ can find a degree of getting along with a woman, find a way for two people to get along with each other comfortably, and then slowly tap their hearts so that this relationship has a good buffer space.
They don’t pursue speed, they see farther, which happens to be what women like.
In fact, women also like to have a gradual relationship instead of one step at a time. The stalking of men with low EQ will only make them feel insecure and become more and more disgusted.
A man with high EQ spends time on the details of two people getting along, and will not mess around for one result, while men with low EQ only pursue results.Too sloppy about the process.
Men with high EQ are not necessarily more affectionate than men with low EQ, but they can make women feel 100% of their feelings. Fighting hard will only make women feel pressure. No woman will like an uncomfortable love. .
The enemy does not move, I don’t understand
Although it is said that a man should take the initiative in a relationship, but it depends on circumstances. If you are too proactive, it will make women feel uncomfortable. The good feelings for you are greatly reduced.
So, don't be too proactive, unless you are sure that she already has a very firm feeling for you, or she has given you a very clear hint, you can take the initiative.
You stalker from the beginning, it will only make women feel baffled and will not take you into consideration.
Feelings are a matter of two people. You can’t just consider your own feelings. If you find that women have a tendency to refuse, don’t stalk them. You have to show your excellence and use yours. Charisma to impress her.
also gives a woman a chance to get to know you. Since she wants to examine you, you must be ready to meet you. Don’t let her affection for you disappear. You can only let a woman really love you. Will stir up a woman's heart.
Therefore, if the enemy does not move, I do not move. It is a good way to put the real decision-making power in the woman's hands, so that she can feel that she is the protagonist in this relationship. She will have a good impression of you.
Slowly, she will subconsciously trust you, and over time she will develop feelings, so that you really succeed.
Cultivate emotional resonance
Many men,It is customary to talk about love at first sight when it comes to flirting with women, but most women don't take this set, because they believe that love at first sight is nothing more than a surprise.
If you don’t have a deep understanding of what she really wants, then you will entangle you in a hurry, then she will definitely not feel safe to you. On the contrary, she will be wary of you and feel that you treat your feelings. Not serious.
Therefore, if you want to embrace a beautiful woman, you must not worry. You must slowly cultivate your relationship. Since you like her, you must understand her heart through getting along. Women hope that what really impresses you is her inside, so she I also want to get to know you.
If you like her, you should understand her preferences. If you have common hobbies, then it would be great. You can become friends who talk about everything with her and become an irreplaceable existence in her heart.
In this way, it is also convenient for you to judge whether you like the one-sided and beautiful girl or the real one. Only when your heart is confirmed will you be firm in this relationship.
When you have an emotional resonance, women will even take the initiative to contact you.
Time and Emotion Class:
slap a woman, don’t be anxious, and don’t stalk her, as long as you understand and accept the relationship With all her bad temper, you will surely become an indispensable part of each other in time.
Actually, what a woman wants is very simple. As long as you use your heart, you will be able to grasp her little emotions.
Zhang Xiaoxian wrote: What do women want? Is the answer not simple yet? No matter what she seems to want,After all, she wants only two things: a lot of love and a lot of security.
In the final analysis, the reason why some women take great precautions against men in their relationships is because they lack security and fear that they are not human.
You know, your stalker will only make women think you are unreliable, because you haven't done anything down to earth.
Therefore, if you want to slap a woman you like, you must slap your heart, let her see your reliability, and let her find a sense of security in you, and she will be willing to give a sincere heart to you you.
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