A gentleman loves money and takes it in a proper way. But there are always people who take advantage of their own advantages and use wrong methods such as feelings to defraud others of their money and eventually get into trouble.
The recent incident of Xiang Xing has been raging, with a CEO boyfriend, a rich second-generation fiancé, and most importantly, it is known as the "Female Sea King". It is difficult to find an honest person to marry.
The female subordinates who cheated on the senior officials of Greenland actively showed up with her husband for a blank check, and eventually lost money and money.
Relying on the external conditions of length and equality, using feelings to make others willingly pay, when the use value is kicked out, I did not expect to plunge myself into the abyss.
01 Malformed love affair is easy to start, but difficult to end
Every tragedy caused by extramarital relationships has a certain inevitability. When you meet someone with a paranoid character and treat you as the only straw, it is very easy to ask God to give it away.
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Li Fei (pseudonym)'s husband works in the countryside and does not often go home. Li Fei, who is bringing children in the city alone, meets her first love boyfriend and develops a lover relationship. You must know that the money that the husband spent for himself is in debt. Li Fei feels insecure with such a man and insists on breaking up, even if he is threatened by his lover, he must break up firmly.
A woman’s sense of security is very subtle. Li Fei’s husband only knows to make money and doesn’t go home often. It is because there is no sense of emotional security, so he can confidently cheat; the lover wants to please himself in debt, that is Without financial security, you can kick the lover away. So, why doesn't a woman's so-called sense of security get it through herself?
The so-called sense of security, relying on others to satisfy the emptiness in your heart,Only let yourself fall into the abyss and harm others and yourself.
02 True love is a luxury for the "poor" in debt
There are more than 200 million single people in China, and 40% of single youth in first-tier cities are moonlight people. Regarding the issue of marriage and love, the necessary wedding room and wedding gifts for the "poor" are already luxury items. For people who are in debt, it is more difficult to maintain lasting "true love".
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When Li Fei's lover was 3 years old, his parents divorced and depended on his father for life, did not like reading, and talked to Li Fei at the age of 15 or 6 After falling in love, after being opposed by both parents and breaking up, they divorced not long after they got married. After encountering Li Fei again and having feelings, I wanted to live well with Li Fei. I willingly spent a lot of money and repaid the loan to maintain the relationship between the two. Who knew that Li Fei actually found a better man again, wanted to break up, and saved it many times. After the threat, to no avail, the angry lover strangled Li Fei alive at home.
Li Fei’s lover believes that in this abnormal love, he has met "true love", and he pays money, time, and affection, and carefully maintains this hard-won relationship. For Li Fei , She just found a fool who was willing to spend money for herself when she was empty. Two kinds of unequal sentiments will inevitably lead to resentment, and the feelings will change in the dispute again and again, so that the two sides will not return.
When you are "poor", don't dig out your heart for "true love". Once you are unable to dig out any more, when the true love you encounter changes, it is often a heartbreaking pain. Therefore, when you are "poor", you might as well treat yourself better. Even if you encounter true love, you must do what you can, and don't humble yourselves, so that you can retreat and advance and attack.
03 Feelings should not be a tool to accumulate money
I don’t know when to start,PUA appeared in the relationship, and what is even more unacceptable is that packaging as a highly educated, rich second-generation, official second-generation, etc., has caused many excellent singles and opposite sexes to fall into it. This kind of deceptive behavior is unforgivable.
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Li Fei, as a wife, relies on her husband’s trust in herself, openly eating with lovers and girlfriends, this kind of ruining behavior, It's chilling.
As a mother, Li Fei takes her son to eat and sleep with her lover. It is nothing more than a failure to let my son accept this kind of education that goes against common sense and destroys the Three Views from an early age. In order to completely break up with the lover, let the young son take the bus back to his grandmother's house alone. This kind of irresponsible behavior for the child's safety will affect the child's life.
Li Fei, as a lover, began to love her lover to divorce and marry her lover. When I find that my lover owes a debt, I feel that I have not yet felt safe with the original partner, or I want to kick off the burden when I meet a better man. There are two kinds of selfish people, one has given his life, the other has Accept the trial of the law.
Extramarital relationships are like malignant tumors. A series of operations such as surgery and chemotherapy may last for several years. However, once the malignant tumor worsens, it will lead to bankruptcy, and the loss of wealth and wealth. And what makes extramarital relationships worse than malignant tumors is that your face is trampled underfoot and your reputation is ruined.
So, when you get married, you should manage your marriage steadily. If you can't make it through, you can look for it after divorce. Don't set yourself on fire during marriage.
The source of the incident: The truth about "suicide" in "The First Line"
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