My husband divorced me because of a meal. Am I really wrong?

Just because I went out and sent out a snack, my husband was furious at me. Am I really wrong?

The Spring Festival is the most important festival for Chinese people. Family is happy and happy and reunion. However, Ms. Li, who lives in Harbin, is not happy because she had a big fight with her husband last night.

It is reported that the night before the Spring Festival, Ms. Li and a few hairdressers went out for dinner. During the period, they drank some wine and did not go home until about 11 in the evening. Ms. Li came in and saw her husband, Mr. Wang, sitting on the kang beside him. It was a son who was less than one year old. Seeing that his son was sleeping soundly, Ms. Li went to sleep when she planned to wash.

"If you continue like this, we will get a divorce."

Ms. Li, who was about to undress, was shocked by her husband's sudden words.

Ms. Li stopped undressing, and asked inexplicably, "What's wrong with you? You took the wrong medicine today?"

Who knows that after Ms. Li said this, her husband directly exploded her hair and rushed directly. Shouted at Ms. Li.

"I tell you, if you continue like this in the future, this day will not be over. You can see for yourself, what time is it now? In the middle of the night, you have a woman and five men out for dinner, do you think I have felt that when the two of us were not married before, I couldn't control how you were crazy, but we are now married and we have a child. You can inquire around and ask others, who is a breastfeeding mother drinking?

Ms. Li feels wronged by her husband’s remarks. She believes that her husband does not trust herself. She did have dinner with five boys, but they were all friends from childhood to adulthood. In Ms. Li's heart, these people are all her relatives.

In 2018, Ms. Li's father died in a car accident. In 2019, her mother was diagnosed with cancer. During those difficult years, it was these young girls who accompanied her through the difficulties. Later on the Internet, Ms. Li met now The husband of Mr. Wang.

When the two people first met, Mr. Wang was very considerate to Ms. Li. In order to take care of his mother in the hospital, Ms. Li ran before and after, everything was fine.Everything was done properly. Ms. Li's mother, who was in the hospital at the time, thought this young man was a good man and a responsible man.

Ms. Li understands her mother's intentions, perhaps to make her feel relieved, Ms. Li decides to marry herself while her mother is still alive.

In the autumn of 19, the two officially became husband and wife. It took only four months from acquaintance to marriage. Less than two months after marriage, Ms. Li's mother left her forever.

Ms. Li's mother's departure was a big blow, but her husband's care made her understand that she did not marry the wrong person.

After marriage, Mr. Wang treats Ms. Li as before, and has not changed because of the marriage. He is full of love for this girl who has lost her parents one after another. He even promised that Ms. Li will live after marriage. The requirements of the rural house in Ms. Li's hometown.

The only thing that makes Mr. Wang uncomfortable is Ms. Li’s young hair, a group of unmarried young people who like to be lively and prefer to drink.

I would call Ms. Li every time he made a small drink. At first, Mr. Wang would also go with him as a husband. After a while, Mr. Wang felt that he could not fit into the circle of his wife. Those who regarded themselves as the family of Ms. Li’s mother Xiao's hair doesn't pay much attention to him at all.

The experience of sitting in the corner and laughing every time he drinks makes Mr. Wang gradually stop eating out with his wife. He has also tried to make his wife less go out and have small gatherings with the group. However, Ms. Li always disagrees with Mr. Wang. It is also helpless.

About half a year after the marriage, Ms. Li was pregnant. This made Mr. Wang overjoyed. He thought that Ms. Li who had a child would converge a little. In fact, it was the same. During pregnancy, Ms. Li refused to send a small party invitation. I also know that Ms. Li is pregnant, and has never invited her out to play, but made a few calls to make Ms. Li feel at home to raise her baby.

Mr. Wang is also very happy about this, on the one hand because he will be a father soon, and on the other because his wife has recently settled down.

However, Mr. Wang never expected that shortly after the birth of the child, Ms. Li resumed her previous life, and even worsened. She often went out to drink, and left the child at home for Mr. Wang to bring by herself.Women cannot breastfeed their children if they drink alcohol during the breastfeeding period. For this reason, Mr. Wang bought a lot of milk powder to prevent his wife from starving the children after drinking.

As the saying goes, the clay figurines still have three points of anger, and his wife's behavior made Mr. Wang more and more uncomfortable, and finally broke out on the day before New Year's Eve.

Facing Mr. Wang’s questioning, Ms. Li was at a loss except for grievances. In her opinion, her husband and the group of girls are her closest relatives. Why can’t her husband tolerate each other?

Ms. Li thought it was because her husband did not trust her, and even felt that her husband was making troubles unreasonably. Finally, after the cold war for a while, they chose to break up peacefully in March 2021. The children were raised by Mr. Wang, and Ms. Li each A monthly support fee of 1,000 yuan.

Because of a meal, a marriage broke up. In my opinion, no one is wrong in this marriage, but it is the inevitable result of two people with different frequencies coming together.

Birds and fish have different paths, and mountains and rivers have never met ever since.

Mr. Wang wanted to manage a marriage, but Ms. Li did not enter the state of marriage for a long time. Faced with Mr. Wang, Ms. Li, who was still a little girl, couldn’t listen. She didn’t understand why she went out for a meal. Mr. Wang was furious at the meal. He didn’t realize that he was no longer a free-living girl, but the mistress of a family, the mother of a child, and the wife of his husband. So the author said that the end of this marriage is inevitable. Yes, Mr. Wang chose to spend two years with her to grow up, but in the end he failed.

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