These men’s performances are a sign of breaking up, don’t drag, it’s better to leave

When a person starts to want to end the relationship, how does he usually respond?

We will always fall in love with someone involuntarily, but ending this love is everyone's right to choose freely.

I don't love anymore, want to leave, fall in love with someone else, want to leave, feel that being alone is better, want to leave.

When a person wants to break up, he has too many reasons.

So, what kind of performance is considered a precursor to a breakup? Let us be able to recognize the reality before "being broken up" and leave him altogether, instead of being sentenced to death after experiencing being neglected, bored, and blamed by him.

Among the sexes, especially men, their minds are often even more difficult to ponder.

It is said that women are emotional animals. They are also easily led by love in their relationships. Even if one day their love for the other half is gone, they will be reluctant and softhearted , And unable to make a decision for a long time, always thinking of giving each other a little more chance.

Men are different. For them, love is love, and not love is not love. They always observe their feelings calmly and aloft like an outsider. If they find that their heart is no longer with their lover, Will promptly pull away and leave.

In a relationship, when a man has these performances, then it is a sign of breaking up. We must pay attention to it.

1. Busy at all times

If your love,Suddenly one day the time spent with you is greatly reduced. Every time you ask him for something, he is either busy or busy.

Then hardly do what he thinks, his heart must not be on you.

At work, moderately busy, or staying busy for a period of time, are all forgivable, but if things go on like this, this person will either have meetings or work overtime every day, or can’t spare time to accompany you Very suspicious.

If he really has you in his heart and really cares about you, even if he is really busy, he will try his best to spare time to accompany you and compensate you.

If he doesn't love you anymore, then being busy is just an excuse for him to stay away from you, saying that he is busy is false, and there is only one truth, that is, he does not want to see you again.

He has already made the decision to break up, so he should get away from your world bit by bit and get away from your life.

At the same time, because the relationship is no longer there, even if you encounter difficulties, he will no longer worry about you, and he does not want to do everything to help you as before.

Without love, you are like a passerby in his heart. How can he be willing to sacrifice too much time for a person who has nothing to do with him?

2. I won't take the initiative to look for you again

Yesterday a girl asked me why my boyfriend seemed to be a different person during this time. I don’t take the initiative to chat, nor do I take the initiative to date,He only reacted to everything by looking for him on his own. If he didn't find him, he would be like missing him, without speaking to her for more than a week.

I said, you have to be prepared, he may not want to continue with you. Otherwise, how could a boy who likes you normally miss you, don't want to talk to you, or ask you out?

Sure enough, after another half month, this girl told me that her boyfriend had broken up with her.

When we like someone, in addition to missing every moment, we also want to share our life with him.

The people you met this day, the things that happened, the colleagues you want to complain about at work, and the interesting news on the Internet, you can't wait to share with him and share your feeling .

If a person never takes the initiative to chat with you, does not express his miss of you, and does not tell you what happened to him this day, it means that he no longer has the desire to talk to you.

I don't want to chat with you anymore, I don't want to take the initiative anymore, because all this is meaningless. He is more willing to do something he wants to do, or spend time with another person he likes.

Even if some people are quiet, introverted, and shy to express, they will become enthusiastic and unrestrained in front of the person they like.

I like him, so I want to show him his whole world. Because I like him, even if I see a beautiful flower on the side of the road, I want to take a picture and send it to him.

If you don’t even have the desire to talk to someone,Then you must have lost interest in this person.

3. Stop being jealous of other opposite sexes

A reader once talked to me in private and said that I felt very troubled because my boyfriend really likes to be jealous.

She works overtime with her male colleague. He will be jealous. She talks a little more with the opposite sex on WeChat, and he will also be jealous. Even when a friend is gathering with a boy, her boyfriend will also be unhappy.

In fact, being jealous is the instinct to love someone. It is precisely because of the deep love that is deep in the bones that it expresses such a strong possessiveness and wants to take the other half as his own.

Too possessive is indeed not a good thing. We cannot tie anyone to our side. Everyone is an independent individual.

But this kind of jealous mood is unavoidable. We can't restrain the unpleasant mood when we see the person we like and are with other opposite sexes.

If you find that the man next to you is no longer jealous of you, where you have gone, how late you play with, he won’t mind, and he won’t be angry with you. It can only show that you are no longer the only one in his heart.

So even if you do something that is sorry for him, he won't care, he won't care, because this relationship is not as important as it was in his heart.

There are traces of breaking up, and there are also some signs that can make us catch it faster. It takes a long process for a person to go from loving to not loving. When he really doesn’t love you anymore, there are always some words and deeds,Subtle changes will occur.

If the relationship between two people has reached the last step, there is no possibility of redemption, if they don’t care about anything about you anymore, and don’t cherish you anymore, then it is better to stay with them rather hard Make yourself stronger, turn around, and leave in strides.

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