The so-called real letting go, but just waiting for oneself to want to open

text/Mo Ran

In a relationship, to really let go of someone, you never delete or black out, but wait for yourself to emptied your heart and you want to open it, so you feel relieved.

The reason why many people can't let go is because they are unwilling or expecting, which has led to the deadlock.

You must know that to really put aside a person, it's more about not thinking about it, whether there is contact or not.

Even if you don’t have him, you won’t feel anything. You can live a good life on your own. You won’t be affected by the other’s emotions, and you don’t have to work hard to prove whether you let go.

So, the real letting go is actually silent, and it is to slowly make yourself want to start.

The more deliberate a person is, the more memorable it is

In a relationship, if you try to forget a person, it is actually harder to forget, because true forgetting is never needed Laborious.

The relief of a relationship, it is never that you delete and blacken the other person, and he completely leaves from the bottom of your heart, but you will no longer actively think of it.

If a person has no thoughts in his heart, he will never miss it anymore.

You know, the more deliberately you want to forget in your relationship, the more you will not forget it, because when you force yourself to let go, you will think of the past, but you will secretly pay attention and recall. This is simply impossible Really come out.

Only if you accept the reality yourself, slowly want to open it, return to the quarreling life, accept the departure of one person, but also look down on the departure of one person, this is the real letting go.

The real letting go is always silent, and at a certain moment you are completely relieved and look away.

people who can’t hold,You should put it down as soon as possible.

said that if you can't hold the sand, it is better to raise it. For someone you can't hold, the best way is to let go.

You know, in this world, others who belong to you can't take it away, and those who don't belong to you can't keep it. For things that have no results, you should let go as soon as possible.

There are some things, the more you care about it, the more you can't figure it out. You will fall into that kind of vortex and you can't get out of it at all.

On the contrary, you slowly look down, and when you are relieved, you will not care too much, you will not have troubles, and your emotions will not be affected by being alone.

Actually, many times in life, if you want to open it, there is nothing left. A lot of pain in a person's life is created by yourself. If you can't let go, you will always be immersed in pain.

Only if you want to open it, can you really let it go. Anything others say or any decision can not affect you.

The so-called letting go, but just waiting for oneself to think about it.

Many people, after experiencing an unforgettable relationship, have been unable to come out and miss the beauty of the past.

But there are some things that some people missed are missed. Nothing about your behavior can change anything. The more attached you are, the more you may fall into pain.

Feelings, this kind of thing, only if you let go, can you really start again. The so-called gain and loss, but just between your own thoughts, if you want to open it, you will completely let it go.

I can’t think about it, what others say or do nothing, I still have to accept the reality myself.

People living in this world not only live for feelings, but also live for themselves.

Things that have no results, those who are not worth it, should let go as soon as possible, sometimes let go of their own desires,Perhaps it is a kind of accomplishment, and only by letting go can you start a new life.

Summary:

The feelings and fate in the human world can’t be forced. It’s yours and it’s yours. Learn to look down on it.

People will always experience some things in this life, good or bad, should be regarded as an experience in life, the experience is good, don't take it too seriously.

To learn to be self-sufficient, to learn to see, no one can influence you.

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